Lonely Loneliness

The pain of it all.

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I truly hope that all you do is hold that bottle of pills and then maybe flush them.  I know how tough it must be and feel for you, I also pray.  The pain will subside but it will never completely go away, especially the good times you had.  Try to look ahead and if you have to remember anything try to remember the good times.  It may bring a tear but good memories often times keep us going.  There’s never a guarantee you’ll find someone else or happiness but if that’s your dream hang onto it and try to make it happen. And if you do find someone else please don’t hold your past experiences against her.  Sorry I’m of not help.  Hope this finds you well. Hugs Eddie (Chief) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Chris.Hammond wrote: > Another Saturday night on my own, the loneliness eating away at my heart. > Its been 5 weeks since she walked away from 9 years of marriage without > looking back. > Will the pain ever subside, will I ever find happiness again. I fear not. > This evening is the 4th time I have held the bottle of pills in my hand, I > wonder if it will hurt or will I just fall a sleep, the pain will be gone > forever.– > Chris in the UK

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Another Saturday night on my own, the loneliness eating away at my heart. Its been 5 weeks since she walked away from 9 years of marriage without looking back. Will the pain ever subside, will I ever find happiness again. I fear not. This evening is the 4th time I have held the bottle of pills in my hand, I wonder if it will hurt or will I just fall a sleep, the pain will be gone forever.– Chris in the UK

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"Chris.Hammond" wrote: > Another Saturday night on my own, the loneliness eating away at my heart. > Its been 5 weeks since she walked away from 9 years of marriage without > looking back. > Will the pain ever subside, will I ever find happiness again. I fear not. > This evening is the 4th time I have held the bottle of pills in my hand, I > wonder if it will hurt or will I just fall a sleep, the pain will be gone > forever.– > Chris in the UK

Chris please dont do it. I cannot give you promises of a better life, but wouldnt you rather at least have the *chance* of a better life? If you take those pills you may never have that chance. The loneliness is a struggle, ask anyone here, but you never know what awaits you. I have been lonely for many, many years. I have taken overdoses many times. And I am glad that I am still alive even though I am still lonely, because tomorrow is a new experience, a new challenge, and I may be pleasantly surprised by what it may bring. Dont you at least want the chance to find happiness again? Matt

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Posted and Mailed Chris.Hammond wrote: > Another Saturday night on my own, the loneliness eating away at my heart. > Its been 5 weeks since she walked away from 9 years of marriage without > looking back. > Will the pain ever subside, will I ever find happiness again. I fear not. > This evening is the 4th time I have held the bottle of pills in my hand, I > wonder if it will hurt or will I just fall a sleep, the pain will be gone > forever.– > Chris in the UK

     Chris, when you are in the throes of pain as you are now, it is difficult to believe that it will ever be different.  Even more difficult to believe that you will ever be happy again.      I can tell you quite truthfully, that I believe the pain does not actually lessen. But,  we become more able to handle it and put it in a "proper place" in our lives, so that it does not require all our attention as it does now and so we consider that it does not hurt as much as time goes on.     Also, I cannot gurantee that you will ever find happiness again.  I can gurantee that if you take those pills, you will never know the answer.  There is also the chance that the pills will not kill you, but might damage something that will make your life a worse living hell than you think it is now.     I do believe the odds for finding happiness again are in your favor.  If you have done it once, you have proven that it can be done and so I would think it can be done again.  Simple logic.     I would like to suggest that you stay awhile, yet.  Talk to us, listen to us.  I know that staying is painful right now, Chris and I do know what I ask of you, but still I ask it of you.  Jae —             "And the inconceivable task begins…..                         To find wholeness from within….."                                Author Unknown

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