Lonely Loneliness

Three's

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They say things go in three’s.  Well, if you are of indo-european ancestry they do anyway.  So yesterdays tiresome threesome was: In the morning, while setting off for work, I gave my funny bone, of my left elbow, a Right Hard Bang, on a door-frame.  Arm felt funny and slightly dysfuntional all day. In the evening, I set the frying pan on fire.  That was interesting.  I put on the pan to heat up.  Went and did ‘puter stuff.  Forgot pan. Remembered pan.  Went in panic to rescue pan.  Observed pan to have turned black.  Took pan off heat.  Observed some kind of boiling liquid in pan. Tilted pan so liquid covered blackness.  Liquid in pan burst into flames. Hmmm.  Put fire out.  Home now stinks of burnt frying pan. In and among all this, I find my relationship is getting decidedly flakey. Or, more flakey than it already was, as the case may be.  Humph.  I want to be with her, I want to make this work, but it seems she interprets my every little inattention as rejection.  Humph.  Funny thing is, this lovely woman I’m seeing, she’s chased all the loneliness away.  But I still see you folks as my friends Monster — I am the sexiest man in the UuuuKaaaayy All the girls love me And I will never grow Ooollldd I am the sexiest man in the UuuKaaaay! http://www.the-monstruum.co.uk

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On Wed, 24 Nov 2004 20:33:19 +0000, the world was enlightented by poet, unto whom the words are attributed: > X-No-Archive: yes > In article pan.2004.11.24.20.12.29.89…@localhost.localdomain, Little > Monster at r…@localhost.localdomain wrote on 11/24/04 14:06: >> Funny thing is, this lovely woman I’m seeing, she’s chased all the >> loneliness away. But I still see you folks as my friends > no, you chased your own loneliness away. she just helped you find out how. > > good luck.

vrrry poetical.  tnx Mnstreo — I am the sexiest man in the UuuuKaaaayy All the girls love me And I will never grow Ooollldd I am the sexiest man in the UuuKaaaay! http://www.the-monstruum.co.uk

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Little Monster (r…@localhost.localdomain) writes: > They say things go in three’s.  Well, if you are of indo-european ancestry > they do anyway.  So yesterdays tiresome threesome was: > In the morning, while setting off for work, I gave my funny bone, of my > left elbow, a Right Hard Bang, on a door-frame.  Arm felt funny and > slightly dysfuntional all day. > In the evening, I set the frying pan on fire.  That was interesting.  I > put on the pan to heat up.  Went and did ‘puter stuff.  Forgot pan. > Remembered pan.  Went in panic to rescue pan.  Observed pan to have turned > black.  Took pan off heat.  Observed some kind of boiling liquid in pan. > Tilted pan so liquid covered blackness.  Liquid in pan burst into flames. > Hmmm.  Put fire out.  Home now stinks of burnt frying pan. > In and among all this, I find my relationship is getting decidedly flakey.

In a bad fry day, it tends to always feel that way;-) > Or, more flakey than it already was, as the case may be.  Humph.  I want > to be with her, I want to make this work, but it seems she interprets my > every little inattention as rejection.

Did you start the relating by giving her tons of attention all the time? Then it would seem ""normal"" that as you give les, she feels it as a loss of interest… Mayb a next time insist to keep some space for yourself, inner as well as surroundings… so it can grow closer in time, rather than the other feeling as if you lose interest inthem whne you go burn frying pans and set the flat on fire…?;-)  Humph.  Funny thing is, this > lovely woman I’m seeing, she’s chased all the loneliness away.  But I > still see you folks as my friends

Nononono! ""Real men"" slay their friends when they find a lovely woman!;-) Best friend first, and female best friend before the male best friend who is fast next!;-) You are supposed to ditch us in a very mean, uncalled for, self servign deprecating way, of course telling us that *we* are self serving and that *we* would not care now that *you* have a gfriend you give all your caring time to:). You re supposed to be turning tables on us, twsiting words out of shape, distributing intentions of jalousy, hystery, heresy, and castration and so on!:);-) Try again!:):)  > Monster > — > I am the sexiest man in the UuuuKaaaayy > All the girls love me > And I will never grow Ooollldd > I am the sexiest man in the UuuKaaaay! > http://www.the-monstruum.co.uk

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On Wed, 24 Nov 2004 21:11:22 +0000, the world was enlightented by fuchsia groan, unto whom the words are attributed: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Little Monster’s post: >> They say things go in three’s.  Well, if you are of indo-european ancestry >> they do anyway.  So yesterdays tiresome threesome was: >> In the morning, while setting off for work, I gave my funny bone, of my >> left elbow, a Right Hard Bang, on a door-frame.  Arm felt funny and >> slightly dysfuntional all day. >> In the evening, I set the frying pan on fire.  That was interesting.  I >> put on the pan to heat up.  Went and did ‘puter stuff.  Forgot pan. >> Remembered pan.  Went in panic to rescue pan.  Observed pan to have turned >> black.  Took pan off heat.  Observed some kind of boiling liquid in pan. >> Tilted pan so liquid covered blackness.  Liquid in pan burst into flames. >> Hmmm.  Put fire out.  Home now stinks of burnt frying pan. >> In and among all this, I find my relationship is getting decidedly flakey. >> Or, more flakey than it already was, as the case may be.  Humph.  I want >> to be with her, I want to make this work, but it seems she interprets my >> every little inattention as rejection.  Humph.  Funny thing is, this >> lovely woman I’m seeing, she’s chased all the loneliness away.  But I >> still see you folks as my friends >> Monster > My threesome = Our cat dies, s-i-l runs off to Tieland, I get sacked. Not > bad going really… however I didn’t get to do them in a day like you.

Uummph!  But my way, I can have a different 3 each day! > On the plus side I’m still bouncingly happy. Have you ever been to > http://www.trevorvanmeter.com/flyguy/ ? It reminds me of hypercard graphics.

Will check that out in a bit… > Emma

Monstger — I am the sexiest man in the UuuuKaaaayy All the girls love me And I will never grow Ooollldd I am the sexiest man in the UuuKaaaay! http://www.the-monstruum.co.uk

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On Wed, 24 Nov 2004 22:04:50 +0000, the world was enlightented by Eleonore Beaudoin, unto whom the words are attributed: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Little Monster (r…@localhost.localdomain) writes: >> They say things go in three’s.  Well, if you are of indo-european ancestry >> they do anyway.  So yesterdays tiresome threesome was: >> In the morning, while setting off for work, I gave my funny bone, of my >> left elbow, a Right Hard Bang, on a door-frame.  Arm felt funny and >> slightly dysfuntional all day. >> In the evening, I set the frying pan on fire.  That was interesting.  I >> put on the pan to heat up.  Went and did ‘puter stuff.  Forgot pan. >> Remembered pan.  Went in panic to rescue pan.  Observed pan to have turned >> black.  Took pan off heat.  Observed some kind of boiling liquid in pan. >> Tilted pan so liquid covered blackness.  Liquid in pan burst into flames. >> Hmmm.  Put fire out.  Home now stinks of burnt frying pan. >> In and among all this, I find my relationship is getting decidedly flakey. > In a bad fry day, it tends to always feel that way;-)

So, that’s what it’s called?  I think that is a good name.  It rhymes too – bonus! >> Or, more flakey than it already was, as the case may be.  Humph.  I want >> to be with her, I want to make this work, but it seems she interprets my >> every little inattention as rejection. > Did you start the relating by giving her tons of attention all the time? > Then it would seem ""normal"" that as you give les, she feels it as a loss > of interest…

Well, not really.  Distance has kept the quantity of seeing each other pretty constant.  I think I’ve been pretty constant in my attentiveness (or lack of it!) – I think (well, I know) it’s more a case of her making judgements on past experience, rather than present experience.  But I’ve never tried to make her think she’s getting something I’m not. > Mayb a next time insist to keep some space for yourself, inner as well as > surroundings… so it can grow closer in time, rather than the other > feeling as if you lose interest inthem whne you go burn frying pans and > set the flat on fire…?;-)

Well, I have all week for that – or at least, the evenings.  Our weekends are pretty intensive though.  Trouble is, if I start saying I need time then – that really will look like rejection, since it’s our only time together! >  Humph.  Funny thing is, this >> lovely woman I’m seeing, she’s chased all the loneliness away.  But I >> still see you folks as my friends > Nononono! ""Real men"" slay their friends when they find a lovely woman!;-) > Best friend first, and female best friend before the male best friend who > is fast next!;-)

No no no.  I am obviously not a real man, and therefore a bogus entity. > You are supposed to ditch us in a very mean, uncalled for, self servign > deprecating way, of course telling us that *we* are self serving and that > *we* would not care now that *you* have a gfriend you give all your caring > time to:). You re supposed to be turning tables on us, twsiting words out > of shape, distributing intentions of jalousy, hystery, heresy, and > castration and so on!:);-)

Well, okay, I’ll try.  *Hem* here goes: I think that was a very unkind thing for you to say, Chloe. There, how’d I do? > Try again!:):)

There are many things, my dear, I would like to try again Monster — I am the sexiest man in the UuuuKaaaayy All the girls love me And I will never grow Ooollldd I am the sexiest man in the UuuKaaaay! http://www.the-monstruum.co.uk

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Little Monster <r…@localhost.localdomain> wrote:

: In and among all this, I find my relationship is getting decidedly flakey. : Or, more flakey than it already was, as the case may be.  Humph.  I want : to be with her, I want to make this work, but it seems she interprets my : every little inattention as rejection.  Humph.     Why bother? If she wants to angst and look for things that aren’t there, don’t waste your time. There are millions of women in the world, this is just one, and one that is looking for reasons to find fault with you. That isn’t a good sign – want to know why? Because a woman that wants you will over-look pretty much every fault you can imagine… Married? Not a problem. Kids? Not a problem. Jerk? No problem, she’ll convince herself she can change you. The thing is that in those cases it’s usually because she doesn’t think she can have him. In this case, it’s pretty obvious you’re hers at her whim, so she isn’t interested.    If there is any hope, the best thing to do is to stop seeing her – go out with other women. Enjoy life. If there is any hope she’ll come running – if not, don’t waste your time.    Of course, I don’t expect you to believe any of that, or even listen but one day perhaps you’ll understand… :  Funny thing is, this : lovely woman I’m seeing, she’s chased all the loneliness away.    *sigh* You are looking for a woman to fix the faults that lie within. You are fixing your happiness on her being there. A lot of guys make that mistake and usually end up singing the "whoa is me" song. You should concentrate on being happy and having fun, and a funny thing will happen – people will want to be part of your circle of influence because you’re fun to be around.    Don’t look to others to "chase the loneliness away" – look within, that is the only true solution… —-== Posted via Newsfeeds.Com – Unlimited-Uncensored-Secure Usenet News==—- http://www.newsfeeds.com The #1 Newsgroup Service in the World! >100,000 Newsgroups —= East/West-Coast Server Farms – Total Privacy via Encryption =—

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poet wrote: > X-No-Archive: yes > In article pan.2004.11.24.20.12.29.89…@localhost.localdomain, Little > Monster at r…@localhost.localdomain wrote on 11/24/04 14:06: >> Funny thing is, this lovely woman I’m seeing, she’s chased all the >> loneliness away. But I still see you folks as my friends > no, you chased your own loneliness away. she just helped you find out > how. > good luck.

Nice take. – Michaela

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Little Monster (r…@localhost.localdomain) writes: > On Wed, 24 Nov 2004 22:04:50 +0000, the world was enlightented by Eleonore > Beaudoin, unto whom the words are attributed: >> Little Monster (r…@localhost.localdomain) writes: >>> They say things go in three’s.  Well, if you are of indo-european ancestry >>> they do anyway.  So yesterdays tiresome threesome was: >>> In the morning, while setting off for work, I gave my funny bone, of my >>> left elbow, a Right Hard Bang, on a door-frame.  Arm felt funny and >>> slightly dysfuntional all day. >>> In the evening, I set the frying pan on fire.  That was interesting.  I >>> put on the pan to heat up.  Went and did ‘puter stuff.  Forgot pan. >>> Remembered pan.  Went in panic to rescue pan.  Observed pan to have turned >>> black.  Took pan off heat.  Observed some kind of boiling liquid in pan. >>> Tilted pan so liquid covered blackness.  Liquid in pan burst into flames. >>> Hmmm.  Put fire out.  Home now stinks of burnt frying pan. >>> In and among all this, I find my relationship is getting decidedly flakey. >> In a bad fry day, it tends to always feel that way;-) > So, that’s what it’s called?  I think that is a good name.  It rhymes too > – bonus!

Well, "Fry Day" is supposed to eb "Friday" actually:) The ay people fried fish, told it was in the name of their God, while their God;s son said it was wine and bread that they shoudl remember him with, not fish. But ayway. It was Fry Day cause the lords woudl go and take all the meat away form the cerfs (engl sp?), leaving them only with at best fish to fry…on Fry Day. But I din think of that when I wrote it, of course:) A bad fry day is just a bad fry day!:) >>> Or, more flakey than it already was, as the case may be.  Humph.  I want >>> to be with her, I want to make this work, but it seems she interprets my >>> every little inattention as rejection. >> Did you start the relating by giving her tons of attention all the time? >> Then it would seem ""normal"" that as you give les, she feels it as a loss >> of interest… > Well, not really.  Distance has kept the quantity of seeing each other > pretty constant.  I think I’ve been pretty constant in my attentiveness > (or lack of it!) – I think (well, I know) it’s more a case of her making > judgements on past experience, rather than present experience.  But I’ve > never tried to make her think she’s getting something I’m not.

…Not sure what you mean by the last sentnce, or rather, what is on your mind on those words…(?) Is she tryign to make you feel that way, you think…?  > >> Mayb a next time insist to keep some space for yourself, inner as well as >> surroundings… so it can grow closer in time, rather than the other >> feeling as if you lose interest inthem whne you go burn frying pans and >> set the flat on fire…?;-) > Well, I have all week for that – or at least, the evenings.  Our weekends > are pretty intensive though.  Trouble is, if I start saying I need time > then – that really will look like rejection, since it’s our only time > together!

Yep. You maybe went too fst and now she expects a progress at the same constant cruise speed…. Can;t stand that myself, I must say, people that need me to be there by them, all the time, where I can not even be five ft away on the couch reading, say, cause they feel inceure and rejected…. I fell like they want to breath through my own nostrils and lungs then… To breath in my place. Hate that….That having to reassure them every 3 minutes…Besides, nthign kills love as much as the feeling the obligation to reassure them "or else"… >>  Humph.  Funny thing is, this >>> lovely woman I’m seeing, she’s chased all the loneliness away.  But I >>> still see you folks as my friends >> Nononono! ""Real men"" slay their friends when they find a lovely woman!;-) >> Best friend first, and female best friend before the male best friend who >> is fast next!;-) > No no no.  I am obviously not a real man, and therefore a bogus entity.

Just kidding on what real men are supposeto be like since someoen posted that real men shudl never talk on the phone:), o make it brief and non-communicative, say:)  > >> You are supposed to ditch us in a very mean, uncalled for, self servign >> deprecating way, of course telling us that *we* are self serving and that >> *we* would not care now that *you* have a gfriend you give all your caring >> time to:). You re supposed to be turning tables on us, twsiting words out >> of shape, distributing intentions of jalousy, hystery, heresy, and >> castration and so on!:);-) > Well, okay, I’ll try.  *Hem* here goes: > I think that was a very unkind thing for you to say, Chloe. > There, how’d I do?

Sigh….You got it all wrong!! You supposed to say that to HER!!!! LOL:) KIDDING of course about what """"real men"" (vs plastic ones??) would do;-)  > >> Try again!:):) > There are many things, my dear, I would like to try again

Yeah yeah….. But to try hem again you must try them first, heh:) > Monster > — > I am the sexiest man in the UuuuKaaaayy > All the girls love me > And I will never grow Ooollldd > I am the sexiest man in the UuuKaaaay! > http://www.the-monstruum.co.uk

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>>> On the plus side I’m still bouncingly happy. Have you ever been to >>> http://www.trevorvanmeter.com/flyguy/ ? It reminds me of hypercard graphics. > What’s all that about then?  I press the arrow keys, and nothing happens! > Monster

It ought to make the guy fly about and kind of interact with odd events in the sky. Never mind it was just one of those silly things. Three bad things happened today too. But they were counterbalanced by three good things. :v)

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Little Monster wrote: > They say things go in three’s.  Well, if you are of indo-european > ancestry they do anyway.  So yesterdays tiresome threesome was: > In the morning, while setting off for work, I gave my funny bone, of > my left elbow, a Right Hard Bang, on a door-frame.  Arm felt funny and > slightly dysfuntional all day. > In the evening, I set the frying pan on fire.  That was interesting. > I put on the pan to heat up.  Went and did ‘puter stuff.  Forgot pan. > Remembered pan.  Went in panic to rescue pan.  Observed pan to have > turned black.  Took pan off heat.  Observed some kind of boiling > liquid in pan. Tilted pan so liquid covered blackness.  Liquid in pan > burst into flames. Hmmm.  Put fire out.  Home now stinks of burnt > frying pan. > In and among all this, I find my relationship is getting decidedly > flakey. Or, more flakey than it already was, as the case may be. > Humph.  I want to be with her, I want to make this work, but it seems > she interprets my every little inattention as rejection.  Humph. > Funny thing is, this lovely woman I’m seeing, she’s chased all the > loneliness away.  But I still see you folks as my friends > Monster

It’s difficult when one person wants more than the other has to give. Hope you work things out, you Nmostre, you! – Michaela

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On Wed, 24 Nov 2004 21:23:41 +0000, the world was enlightented by Little Monster, unto whom the words are attributed: > On Wed, 24 Nov 2004 21:11:22 +0000, the world was enlightented by fuchsia > groan, unto whom the words are attributed: >> On the plus side I’m still bouncingly happy. Have you ever been to >> http://www.trevorvanmeter.com/flyguy/ ? It reminds me of hypercard graphics.

What’s all that about then?  I press the arrow keys, and nothing happens! Monster — I am the sexiest man in the UuuuKaaaayy All the girls love me And I will never grow Ooollldd I am the sexiest man in the UuuKaaaay! http://www.the-monstruum.co.uk

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Little Monster’s post: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> They say things go in three’s.  Well, if you are of indo-european ancestry > they do anyway.  So yesterdays tiresome threesome was: > In the morning, while setting off for work, I gave my funny bone, of my > left elbow, a Right Hard Bang, on a door-frame.  Arm felt funny and > slightly dysfuntional all day. > In the evening, I set the frying pan on fire.  That was interesting.  I > put on the pan to heat up.  Went and did ‘puter stuff.  Forgot pan. > Remembered pan.  Went in panic to rescue pan.  Observed pan to have turned > black.  Took pan off heat.  Observed some kind of boiling liquid in pan. > Tilted pan so liquid covered blackness.  Liquid in pan burst into flames. > Hmmm.  Put fire out.  Home now stinks of burnt frying pan. > In and among all this, I find my relationship is getting decidedly flakey. > Or, more flakey than it already was, as the case may be.  Humph.  I want > to be with her, I want to make this work, but it seems she interprets my > every little inattention as rejection.  Humph.  Funny thing is, this > lovely woman I’m seeing, she’s chased all the loneliness away.  But I > still see you folks as my friends > Monster

My threesome = Our cat dies, s-i-l runs off to Tieland, I get sacked. Not bad going really… however I didn’t get to do them in a day like you. On the plus side I’m still bouncingly happy. Have you ever been to http://www.trevorvanmeter.com/flyguy/ ? It reminds me of hypercard graphics. Emma

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