Lonely Loneliness

Variety and varia

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Chloe’s in a good mood again and all’s right with the world. OTS Eleonore Beaudoin wrote in message <872r84$j0…@freenet9.carleton.ca>… >Newsgroups: alt.support.loneliness >Subject: Re: Variety and varia >Reply-To: bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA (Eleonore Beaudoin) >References: <86uasj$kb…@freenet9.carleton.ca>

<3894C0F8.3E419…@banet.net> – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Organization: The National Capital FreeNet >Hi, Eddie, >Sorry for my grumpy reading: grunmpiness was in the eye of >the beholder (me). >Must have been one of those female enigmatic mysterious >hormonal spells or whatever. All I know is  that after weeks >of lethargy, I had days of grumpiness and then grumpiness >mixed with teary eyes and a dry way of addressign people. >Sorry about that, woudl it ever have in any way bothered you >or anyone else. > Candyman (spoo…@banet.net) writes: >> Dear Chloe, first let me say my other post that you questioned was >> supposed to be to another post, don’t even know which one right now, was >> in a hurry cause Candy had to bowl.  She didn’t do bad and her team won >> 4 points to three.  Sorry for my oops, been know to do that. >Bowling!! That soudns like a lota fun!:) >Popele look at me though with big reproach in their eyes >cause I get so excited when I do not hit the aisle or the >third bowling pin in the secodn alley to my left:). >I borke my right arm in six piece s as a kid and never was >too good at trhowing things where I aim:). Takes paractice >and correcting th4e aim for me to learn to hit target, be it >with throwing a ball or playing darts…or bowling. WhenI >bowl and knowck soem pins down, I dance a dance of "I got >soem pins down!!". You know how those floors are slippery…. >I soemtimes end up on my rear end gettign tooe xcited LOL:) >Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > >>> Gave my phone number to soemoen two days ago. >>> A clent that asked, where he ahd tried to start a >>> conversation on the forst day or so I worked there, i.e. the >>> forst tiem he saw me, but where the fact he had told me his >>> name was P (another one…Gee, were mothers all in love with >>> that name or soemthign to all have called their sons the >>> same name???;-):)) sort of left me say of hum "Hm-hm." and >>> not reply "Pleased to meet you. My name is Chloe". >> (Sorry about the snipping) >Please be my guess. I f I had cut and paste, I woudl cut and >paste myself out of this world probably, going wild with the >new tools:) >> I’m sure to miss a point you’r trying to make am sorry. >I dontl think so. I was not making any point. I was just >sayign what had happened. elatign soemthign. Is there a >point in two people meeting and oen asking the other’s phone >number? I guess gettign the number is the point of the >attempt. He was successful in that. >The rest was written on a very laughing miscievious >"argh!:)" tone:). >Not a serious one at all, ile. a sort of humour one has to >knwo em well to sort of get:). >So you missed nothign as far as point go. I was not debatign >anythignk, just relating in a silly way that I tried to >illustrate with the tune I chose to quote, "He’s a dream", >hwere the gi8lr pretends he leaves her very cold, and in >fact is fainting out of thinking he’s a splendid specimen;-):) >I was siort of kidding around how flirtign games are at >times?;-) >Such as "Ih yeah? Try this, buster", sounding so :"ask me if >I care" as in the song?:) > Too much going >> through my mind right now.  I’m always the cautious type and certainly >> lean that way when ever giving my number out. >He waited three motnhs before he had the number. >Seems he needs to wait soem more (darn LOL:)) >;-);-) >(sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhs). >(He’s got that very very short sort of hair…Never was fond >of that except I am more tactlie than visual. Makes you >wanna know how it feels to the hands?:) Yeah, well, he can >go and try have anyoen else feel his hair as far as I am >concerned (see? Demo of "ask me if I care" then "Argh! >Mommy! He’s a hunk, the dang brat!!" sort of thing?:) >Ya know, like when oen tries to pretend "It did nto even >bother me that you did not even call me at all all through >the week end, you good for nothign thing", where the "you >good for nothing thing" shows one was bothered?;-) Not that >I feel that way, uh0hu, not me!;-) *(See? More of that >humour type of "Not me. Me???? Interested????? Are you >kidding?? I;’d tell him that I’sd rather die!!" as in that >song…;-):) >  And it certainly is >> tougher for a lady such as yourself. >Not topugh at all. About….oh, maybe 50naked. One got it as >she was a female acquqwiantance and that was how the >previous P got my phone number. >The other is that last guy. >The previous OP got the message clear enough that I was nto >interested in whatever he had in mind (which he depicte4d as >"I woudl nto midn seing a woma with nice (ladada) and nice >(lalala) before me before I marry J". Sorry, but….I dunno >anyoen that woudl volunteer, but woudl anyone sghare such a >fantasy, I willelt hinm know sort of thing;-) >So no, I donlt giver my phone number eaily. >For instance: do you ahve my phone numbe,r Eddie?:) >KIDDING!!!!L:) >But hardly anyone here has it. I think OB, Eliza, and Trev. >Period. Unless I forget soemoen…Oh, Stimpson. But he never >used it. I think in all those cases, I had good intuition in >handing my number. >  Please be careful.  There are >> indeed many fellows looking for one thing and we know what that is, but >> there are also many looking for something of a love and caring nature to >> also include long term.  Because of the many looking mainly for self >> gratification men just trying to chat are mistakenly labeled.  I’m >> certainly not saying you have done such a thing and in fact I myself >> believe in caution.  And yes many men work extremely hard on there >> approaches.  The hard part for a lady is deciding whether an individual >> is genuinely interested in getting to know her or if he’s just looking >> for a roll in the hay. >I siort of know. I dated in the past, sort of thing?;-) >But exactly. Experience shwoed me that a man that givesd you >any phone nukmber except his home phone, for instance, or >that is hesitant about giving you a phone number (I ghad not >even asked his, of course. Therefore the mumbling aboutnhis >was even more a possible hint in that?), are usually married >or living with soemoen.That part leaves me be careful, yes. >That and the fact that the clients do talk about me. Who >knows, soem might take bets even…:(:(… >One never knows. >But he is shy, and Ib woudl not imagine so for now….That >he woudl ahve taken a bet. He dioes nto give me that >inmpression. >Butplaying safe anyway. >  Many women looking just for the roll in the hay >> also so I’ve seen it go both ways.  I have always been an extremely shy >> individual.  Was a virgin until I got married at age 20, and have still >> only been with Candy.  I have been in situations where I’ve been >> grabbed, amongst some other things and I ran like a deer.  And I’ve >> always later told my Candy.  Always felt guilty and thought she should >> know.  I certainly would want to know if someone was doing the same >> thing to her.  I’ve always felt that sort of thing works or at least >> should go both ways.  I stopped going to the Enlisted Man’s Cllub when >> Candy showed up in Okinawa after we were hitched.  And again it was one >> of those same type of situations.  I wouldn’t want her in the club full >> of 100’s of young men any more than she would want me in some place full >> of women.  Sorta of a respect thing but every bit as much not believing >> in double standards.  Unfortunately we all have expectations that are >> let down and I wish for Chloes sake, that you could find Mr. right for >> Chloe and all the ladies here could indeed find whomever or whatever >> makes them happy – but a two way happiness.  It can get discouraging and >> I’m sorry if you’ve been hurt, ya just can’t give up young lady. >Oh, maybe the best remedy to hurt in love relationships is still >beign loving;-) >I was never hurt that bad at all. >No matter what I lived, all was loving. >Poeple soemtimes goof, when not me, others. Thank God it >ainlt always me:):)L:) >But I was never scarred by love, say…. >> Hugs >> Eddie (Chief) >–

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > Newsgroups: alt.support.loneliness > Subject: Re: Variety and varia > Reply-To: bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA (Eleonore Beaudoin) > References: <86uasj$kb…@freenet9.carleton.ca> <3894C0F8.3E419…@banet.net> > Organization: The National Capital FreeNet > Hi, Eddie, > Sorry for my grumpy reading: grunmpiness was in the eye of > the beholder (me). > Must have been one of those female enigmatic mysterious > hormonal spells or whatever. All I know is  that after weeks > of lethargy, I had days of grumpiness and then grumpiness > mixed with teary eyes and a dry way of addressign people. > Sorry about that, woudl it ever have in any way bothered you > or anyone else.

You didn’t bother me one bit lady.  We all get grumpy from time to time, I didn’t even notice it. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->  Candyman (spoo…@banet.net) writes: > > Dear Chloe, first let me say my other post that you questioned was > > supposed to be to another post, don’t even know which one right now, was > > in a hurry cause Candy had to bowl.  She didn’t do bad and her team won > > 4 points to three.  Sorry for my oops, been know to do that. > Bowling!! That soudns like a lota fun!:) > Popele look at me though with big reproach in their eyes > cause I get so excited when I do not hit the aisle or the > third bowling pin in the secodn alley to my left:). > I borke my right arm in six piece s as a kid and never was > too good at trhowing things where I aim:). Takes paractice > and correcting th4e aim for me to learn to hit target, be it > with throwing a ball or playing darts…or bowling. WhenI > bowl and knowck soem pins down, I dance a dance of "I got > soem pins down!!". You know how those floors are slippery…. > I soemtimes end up on my rear end gettign tooe xcited LOL:)

I tried and the very first ball ended up behind me.  Wasn’t embarassed as it’s happened to me before.  I tend to joke and laugh it off when something I can’t control happens.  I have a bad middle finger and it just gives sometimes. Usually after bowling it hurts like the dickens and swells up more than it already is.  Messed it up in the service.  Still fun though even when doing poorly – gets me out of the house.  I get out about twice a week. Once to try and throw darts (tonight) and once to bowl (Thursday).  I go and watch Candy bowl sometimes on Sundays.  Otherwise I’m in the house most all the time.  Gotta get out once in a while even if it means grabbing myself by the throat – otherwise I’ll just vegetate to imobility.  With arthritis setting in here and there I have to move even in pain otherwise they’lll just stiffen up for good.  About due for another shot in the right shoulder, they want to cut though and remove the spur – chicken I am. You take care lady Hugs Eddie (Chief)

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Newsgroups: alt.support.loneliness Subject: Re: Variety and varia Reply-To: bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA (Eleonore Beaudoin) References: <86uasj$kb0$1@freenet9.carleton.ca> <3894C0F8.3E419472@banet.net> Organization: The National Capital FreeNet Hi, Eddie, Sorry for my grumpy reading: grunmpiness was in the eye of the beholder (me). Must have been one of those female enigmatic mysterious hormonal spells or whatever. All I know is  that after weeks of lethargy, I had days of grumpiness and then grumpiness mixed with teary eyes and a dry way of addressign people. Sorry about that, woudl it ever have in any way bothered you or anyone else.  Candyman (spoo…@banet.net) writes: > Dear Chloe, first let me say my other post that you questioned was > supposed to be to another post, don’t even know which one right now, was > in a hurry cause Candy had to bowl.  She didn’t do bad and her team won > 4 points to three.  Sorry for my oops, been know to do that.

Bowling!! That soudns like a lota fun!:) Popele look at me though with big reproach in their eyes cause I get so excited when I do not hit the aisle or the third bowling pin in the secodn alley to my left:). I borke my right arm in six piece s as a kid and never was too good at trhowing things where I aim:). Takes paractice and correcting th4e aim for me to learn to hit target, be it with throwing a ball or playing darts…or bowling. WhenI bowl and knowck soem pins down, I dance a dance of "I got soem pins down!!". You know how those floors are slippery…. I soemtimes end up on my rear end gettign tooe xcited LOL:)  >  > Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > >> Gave my phone number to soemoen two days ago. >> A clent that asked, where he ahd tried to start a >> conversation on the forst day or so I worked there, i.e. the >> forst tiem he saw me, but where the fact he had told me his >> name was P (another one…Gee, were mothers all in love with >> that name or soemthign to all have called their sons the >> same name???;-):)) sort of left me say of hum "Hm-hm." and >> not reply "Pleased to meet you. My name is Chloe". > (Sorry about the snipping)

Please be my guess. I f I had cut and paste, I woudl cut and paste myself out of this world probably, going wild with the new tools:)  > > I’m sure to miss a point you’r trying to make am sorry.

I dontl think so. I was not making any point. I was just sayign what had happened. elatign soemthign. Is there a point in two people meeting and oen asking the other’s phone number? I guess gettign the number is the point of the attempt. He was successful in that. The rest was written on a very laughing miscievious "argh!:)" tone:). Not a serious one at all, ile. a sort of humour one has to knwo em well to sort of get:). So you missed nothign as far as point go. I was not debatign anythignk, just relating in a silly way that I tried to illustrate with the tune I chose to quote, "He’s a dream", hwere the gi8lr pretends he leaves her very cold, and in fact is fainting out of thinking he’s a splendid specimen;-):) I was siort of kidding around how flirtign games are at times?;-) Such as "Ih yeah? Try this, buster", sounding so :"ask me if I care" as in the song?:)  Too much going > through my mind right now.  I’m always the cautious type and certainly > lean that way when ever giving my number out.

He waited three motnhs before he had the number. Seems he needs to wait soem more (darn LOL:)) ;-) (sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhs). (He’s got that very very short sort of hair…Never was fond of that except I am more tactlie than visual. Makes you wanna know how it feels to the hands?:) Yeah, well, he can go and try have anyoen else feel his hair as far as I am concerned (see? Demo of "ask me if I care" then "Argh! Mommy! He’s a hunk, the dang brat!!" sort of thing?:) Ya know, like when oen tries to pretend "It did nto even bother me that you did not even call me at all all through the week end, you good for nothign thing", where the "you good for nothing thing" shows one was bothered?;-) Not that I feel that way, uh0hu, not me!;-) *(See? More of that humour type of "Not me. Me???? Interested????? Are you kidding?? I;’d tell him that I’sd rather die!!" as in that song…;-):)   And it certainly is > tougher for a lady such as yourself.

Not topugh at all. About….oh, maybe 50naked. One got it as she was a female acquqwiantance and that was how the previous P got my phone number. The other is that last guy. The previous OP got the message clear enough that I was nto interested in whatever he had in mind (which he depicte4d as "I woudl nto midn seing a woma with nice (ladada) and nice (lalala) before me before I marry J". Sorry, but….I dunno anyoen that woudl volunteer, but woudl anyone sghare such a fantasy, I willelt hinm know sort of thing;-) So no, I donlt giver my phone number eaily. For instance: do you ahve my phone numbe,r Eddie?:) KIDDING!!!!L:) But hardly anyone here has it. I think OB, Eliza, and Trev. Period. Unless I forget soemoen…Oh, Stimpson. But he never used it. I think in all those cases, I had good intuition in handing my number.   Please be careful.  There are > indeed many fellows looking for one thing and we know what that is, but > there are also many looking for something of a love and caring nature to > also include long term.  Because of the many looking mainly for self > gratification men just trying to chat are mistakenly labeled.  I’m > certainly not saying you have done such a thing and in fact I myself > believe in caution.  And yes many men work extremely hard on there > approaches.  The hard part for a lady is deciding whether an individual > is genuinely interested in getting to know her or if he’s just looking > for a roll in the hay.

I siort of know. I dated in the past, sort of thing?;-) But exactly. Experience shwoed me that a man that givesd you any phone nukmber except his home phone, for instance, or that is hesitant about giving you a phone number (I ghad not even asked his, of course. Therefore the mumbling aboutnhis was even more a possible hint in that?), are usually married or living with soemoen.That part leaves me be careful, yes. That and the fact that the clients do talk about me. Who knows, soem might take bets even…:(:(… One never knows. But he is shy, and Ib woudl not imagine so for now….That he woudl ahve taken a bet. He dioes nto give me that inmpression. Butplaying safe anyway.   Many women looking just for the roll in the hay – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> also so I’ve seen it go both ways.  I have always been an extremely shy > individual.  Was a virgin until I got married at age 20, and have still > only been with Candy.  I have been in situations where I’ve been > grabbed, amongst some other things and I ran like a deer.  And I’ve > always later told my Candy.  Always felt guilty and thought she should > know.  I certainly would want to know if someone was doing the same > thing to her.  I’ve always felt that sort of thing works or at least > should go both ways.  I stopped going to the Enlisted Man’s Cllub when > Candy showed up in Okinawa after we were hitched.  And again it was one > of those same type of situations.  I wouldn’t want her in the club full > of 100’s of young men any more than she would want me in some place full > of women.  Sorta of a respect thing but every bit as much not believing > in double standards.  Unfortunately we all have expectations that are > let down and I wish for Chloes sake, that you could find Mr. right for > Chloe and all the ladies here could indeed find whomever or whatever > makes them happy – but a two way happiness.  It can get discouraging and > I’m sorry if you’ve been hurt, ya just can’t give up young lady.

Oh, maybe the best remedy to hurt in love relationships is still beign loving;-) I was never hurt that bad at all. No matter what I lived, all was loving. Poeple soemtimes goof, when not me, others. Thank God it ainlt always me:):)L:) But I was never scarred by love, say….  > > Hugs > Eddie (Chief)

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Hi, Gina, hanks for your concern and caring, but he sill is given all the latitude to Be, with or weithout me. I donlt belive I am so important in life that soemnoen would be born for ""great me"". I believe in free will and in whatever makes one tick tick, and whatever makes them not,. not. However, I am not as eqasily convinced that he woudl not care…. Saw soem carers, including me, be grumpy at times, or not in their usual state for reasons out of theirt control. In his control or not he is still a lonely human being, liek you, like me, maybe hurt by life’s experiences or maybe simply optiong to not be. That is his right and that is all fien with me. I do not think he is in any way the "one" for me. I met that one. I know that this occasion will not eb back in thousands of years. I dontl actually believe in reincarnation nor do I not believe in it. I prefer to act as this woudl be my only life, and not a rehearsal in any way:). I think it helps me do my best, as little as it may be. But I resdpect whatever pace and space a man (or woman) might need or want, and that is not hurting mer at all,the time and space another one occupies, of course. I wish him well and knwo there will be mroe smiels than frown when we happen to signify :hi" if there is no "hi"’s returned or said;-) In his helth w3asys he coudl nto find anythign to do with me… In my non supeficail waysm I coudl not find any long term nothign with him anyway. It could have[F

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