Lonely Loneliness

I suck

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On Thu, 16 Mar 2000 23:59:43 -0000, "Nothing Face" <ol…@sandcastle.freeserve.co.uk> wrote: >Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. >OTS

You’re now a vacuum cleaner? _________________________________________________ If I had a life, I wouldn’t know what to feed it.

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oh… I wasn’t concerned with how many it could feed… I was more interested in how many people could fit into it honest pudding wrestling, ric – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Wanderer wrote in message <38D55D46.A8C4E…@albedo.net>… > Massively big, huge, feeds eight >Bill >ric wrote: >> LOL >> Wanderer wrote in message >> >PPPppffffffffffttttttt pot kettle black >> >Bill >> where have I seen that before? LOL >> could be all the old discussions about what should and should ot be posted here >> that prompted the question… or could just be humour >> by the way, could I borrow your kettle for some chocolate pudding?… I’m >> wondering though, is it big enough for two adults? >> honest cooking, ric >> >Robert Maas wrote: >> >> >>> Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. >> >> >> Now if you would just lick a little to the right… >> >> >> aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh……………… >> >> > Ah, another interpretation of the post. >> >> > You naughty poet! ) >> >> p…@asarian-host.org replied: >> >> <<Not naughty, just fantasising a little…>> >> >> Are you sure this is an appropriate newsgroup for that kind of fantasy? >http://www.crosswinds.net/~loneliness/loneliness.html >http://www.crosswinds.net/~loneliness/poetry.html

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        Massively big, huge, feeds eight Bill – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -ric wrote: > LOL > Wanderer wrote in message <38D458BC.5C3D7…@albedo.net>… > >PPPppffffffffffttttttt pot kettle black > >Bill > where have I seen that before? LOL > could be all the old discussions about what should and should ot be posted here > that prompted the question… or could just be humour > by the way, could I borrow your kettle for some chocolate pudding?… I’m > wondering though, is it big enough for two adults? > honest cooking, ric > >Robert Maas wrote: > >> >>> Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. > >> >> Now if you would just lick a little to the right… > >> >> aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh……………… > >> > Ah, another interpretation of the post. > >> > You naughty poet! ) > >> p…@asarian-host.org replied: > >> <<Not naughty, just fantasising a little…>> > >> Are you sure this is an appropriate newsgroup for that kind of fantasy? > >http://www.crosswinds.net/~loneliness/loneliness.html > >http://www.crosswinds.net/~loneliness/poetry.html

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LOL Wanderer wrote in message <38D458BC.5C3D7…@albedo.net>… >PPPppffffffffffttttttt pot kettle black >Bill

where have I seen that before? LOL could be all the old discussions about what should and should ot be posted here that prompted the question… or could just be humour by the way, could I borrow your kettle for some chocolate pudding?… I’m wondering though, is it big enough for two adults? honest cooking, ric – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Robert Maas wrote: >> >>> Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. >> >> Now if you would just lick a little to the right… >> >> aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh……………… >> > Ah, another interpretation of the post. >> > You naughty poet! ) >> p…@asarian-host.org replied: >> <<Not naughty, just fantasising a little…>> >> Are you sure this is an appropriate newsgroup for that kind of fantasy? >http://www.crosswinds.net/~loneliness/loneliness.html >http://www.crosswinds.net/~loneliness/poetry.html

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Robert Maas wrote in message … ><<I am lonely offline in the physical world… sexuality is part of >that… and though I’m not actively seeking a sexual relationship at >the moment, I am seeking offline contacts and socialization in the >physical world…>> >I’m in the same situation as you, except any time I say I’m seeking to >meet somebody in the Real World, a bunch of people castigate me, >saying I should just accept that I’ll be alone for the rest of my >life.

I think there will always be people who try to run your life to varying degrees, some offering positive advice or suggestions, some offering negative criticism or abuse… some will respect boundaries and simply present the advice or abuse once or twice in a non-intrusive way… and some will not respect anything and demand you follow their instructions or they’ll abuse and insult you forever anytime you show your face… I suggest that if anyone has concrete suggestions for improving your lot in life, then thank them and consider their thoughts seriously… and if some shout insults or just put you down even when offering suggestions, then they have their own bias and problems and take what they say or write with a grain of salt – or completely disregard it if it appears too often and repeats useless information not aimed toward really helping you… in any case, you have the choice to give what others do and say the attention you wish to give it… if you let others determine your self image, you’re at the mercy of strangers who don’t know you and don’t really care about you… some have their own problems and seek punching bags and you’ll become theirs if you give them the opportunity… I know, I have… I suggest you stay away from those who castigate you and focus our attention and energy on what you seek and those who support and offer positive thoughts and constructive advice… honest love, ric    "Reading is equivalent to thinking with someone else’s head     instead of with one’s own."                                       ~ Arthur Schopenhauer ~

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<<The more I yearn, the less likely it is.>> Exactly what kind of interpersonal relationship do you yearn for?

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<<I am lonely offline in the physical world… sexuality is part of that… and though I’m not actively seeking a sexual relationship at the moment, I am seeking offline contacts and socialization in the physical world…>> I’m in the same situation as you, except any time I say I’m seeking to meet somebody in the Real World, a bunch of people castigate me, saying I should just accept that I’ll be alone for the rest of my life.

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Anything we can ahhhhh "bring up?"    hahahahaha Hugs Eddie (Chief) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -poet wrote: > x-no-archive: yes > In article 8b0nu4$11o…@newssvr04-int.news.prodigy.com, ric at > asl…@REMOVE-BEFORE-SENDINGegroups.com wrote on 3/18/00 14:11: > > and personally I think if one is afraid to discuss sexuality seriously or > > flirt playfully, then one of the reasons for loneliness seems obvious… > I’m open – er, for discussion. <g> > — > For more information about this posting service, contact: > h…@asarian-host.org — for all info about our server. > If you want an anonymous account, visit our sign-up page: > http://asarian-host.org/emailform.html

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PPPppffffffffffttttttt pot kettle black Bill Robert Maas wrote: > >>> Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. > >> Now if you would just lick a little to the right… > >> aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh……………… > > Ah, another interpretation of the post. > > You naughty poet! ) > p…@asarian-host.org replied: > <<Not naughty, just fantasising a little…>> > Are you sure this is an appropriate newsgroup for that kind of fantasy?

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On Sat, 18 Mar 2000 19:19:00 GMT r…@shell.netmagic.net (Robert Maas) wrote: > >>> Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. > >> Now if you would just lick a little to the right… > >> aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh……………… > > Ah, another interpretation of the post. > > You naughty poet! ) > p…@asarian-host.org replied: > <<Not naughty, just fantasising a little…>> > Are you sure this is an appropriate newsgroup for that > kind of fantasy?

Do you mean that this group is not about faqs? <giggle> — Free audio & video emails, greeting cards and forums Talkway – http://www.talkway.com – Talk more ways (sm)

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I don’t know if even that exists, as according to the learned men of science and philosophy, my experience of red is not even real. If my experience is not real, then I’m even less than a ghost. And then we get to the even thornier problem of "I". Am "I" a hankering for a snack? Am "I" the one who is moved by some attractive actress on the screen? Am "I" some occasional uncharitable thoughts? Am "I" the one who formulates "policy"…am "I" even aware of "myself"? The world can exist or not, so long as it is able to fool itself with meaningless logical chains. Do "I" love. OTS – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -poet wrote in message <200003182203.PAA04…@asarian-host.org>… >x-no-archive: yes >In article 8b0tta$nn…@news5.svr.pol.co.uk, Nothing Face at >ol…@sandcastle.freeserve.co.uk wrote on 3/18/00 16:03: >> Oh… I didn’t realise, this newsgroup is for corporeal beings only? >> Ah….hmmm. >I’d rather touch your soul, your essence… >– >For more information about this posting service, contact: >h…@asarian-host.org — for all info about our server. >If you want an anonymous account, visit our sign-up page: >http://asarian-host.org/emailform.html

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>>> Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. >> Now if you would just lick a little to the right… >> aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh……………… > Ah, another interpretation of the post. > You naughty poet! )

p…@asarian-host.org replied: <<Not naughty, just fantasising a little…>> Are you sure this is an appropriate newsgroup for that kind of fantasy?

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Robert Maas wrote in message … >>>> Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. >>> Now if you would just lick a little to the right… >>> aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh……………… >> Ah, another interpretation of the post. >> You naughty poet! ) >p…@asarian-host.org replied: ><<Not naughty, just fantasising a little…>> >Are you sure this is an appropriate newsgroup for that kind of fantasy?

there’s no charter or set of rules for this public group, so what is or is not appropriate is a fairly wide open area… and personally I think if one is afraid to discuss sexuality seriously or flirt playfully, then one of the reasons for loneliness seems obvious… I think one needs to get comfortable with themselves before one can be comfortable with others and we are, whether we like it or not and whether we acknowledge it or not, physical beings in physical bodies and the most satisfying sharing includes the physical world and sexuality… so I welcome discusion of all issues related to loneliness myself… and I view sexuality as a major part of loneliness… after all, I’m not a all lonely online… I can’t begin to keep up with my mail and groups and online social contacts and responsibilities… I am lonely offline in the physical world… sexuality is part of that… and though I’m not actively seeking a sexual relationship at the moment, I am seeking offline contacts and socialization in the physical world… that’s my perspective, honest love, ric     "Without a sense of urgency, desire loses its value."                                                             ~ Jim Rohn ~

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Oh… I didn’t realise, this newsgroup is for corporeal beings only? Ah….hmmm. OTS – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -ric wrote in message <8b0rke$1tt…@newssvr04-int.news.prodigy.com>… >x-no-archive: yes >poet wrote in message <200003182020.NAA04…@asarian-host.org>… >>x-no-archive: yes >>In article 8b0nu4$11o…@newssvr04-int.news.prodigy.com, ric at >>asl…@REMOVE-BEFORE-SENDINGegroups.com wrote on 3/18/00 14:11: >>> and personally I think if one is afraid to discuss sexuality seriously or >>> flirt playfully, then one of the reasons for loneliness seems obvious… >>I’m open – er, for discussion. <g> >LOL… well then your loneliness may not be based on your physical inhibitions >as much as other thing… I know mine isn’t… I can be very solitay and >comfortable in my own space, but I love being with touchy-feely people who hug >with their whole body… a hug that lifts one off the ground is a beautiful hug >for me >part of my physical loneliness stems from being too comfortable and uninhibited >physically and sexually and still having intense respect and sensuality for this >body and other bodies… most people I’ve met so far have the balance… the few >I’ve grown close to physically were not all sexual partners… one was a dear >girl who loved to cuddle and hug as much as I did and I was more parent to her >than anything else (she came to live with me as her first stop away from home… >I used to kinda have an open house for he first five years of the nineties and a >network of Disney kids showed up at my door (sometimes unannounced) seeking a >place to stay while they followed their dream to work at Disney)… she learned >how to lay with a man by trusting me to be her experimental body… sensuality >and being open physically is not always purely sexual… not that there’s no >arousal… I think there’s always some arousal as long as we’re breathing, >though some are so deep in denial of their bodies they may not be consciously >aware of it… still, whether acknowledged or not, arousal does not have to be >taken it’s full course unless two people want it to go there… it can still be >enjoyed… >honest love, ric >   "anywhere is walking distance if you’ve got the time" >                                                ~ Steven Wright ~

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Only in your own, much too critical eyes… don’t be so hard on yourself… the world is hard enough on us, without any help from within… take heart, Ollie…                             sincerely,                             Michael On Thu, 16 Mar 2000 23:59:43 -0000, "Nothing Face" – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -<ol…@sandcastle.freeserve.co.uk> wrote: >Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. >OTS

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        No way man, yer cool. Bill Nothing Face wrote: > Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. > OTS

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        I agree! with Rainbow that is! Bill Rainbow Knight wrote: > On Thu, 16 Mar 2000 23:59:43 -0000 "Nothing Face" > <ol…@sandcastle.freeserve.co.uk> wrote: > > Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. > > OTS > I disagree. > — > Free audio & video emails, greeting cards and forums > Talkway – http://www.talkway.com – Talk more ways (sm)

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>On Thu, 16 Mar 2000 23:59:43 -0000, "Nothing Face" <ol…@sandcastle.freeserve.co.uk> wrote: >Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. >OTS

Feeling kind of low? What happened that made you feel so? Feeling kind of low? What are you going to do now that you know?

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I disagree.

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There is nothing that I can know, for I do not exist as a coherent whole. I am myth. OTS – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -John wrote in message <6l24dso5hn6fticontgobi03jpd7hsr…@4ax.com>… >>On Thu, 16 Mar 2000 23:59:43 -0000, "Nothing Face" <ol…@sandcastle.freeserve.co.uk> wrote: >>Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. >>OTS >Feeling kind of low? >What happened that made you feel so? >Feeling kind of low? >What are you going to do now that you know?

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I like myths… and mythsters too… honest mythology, ric Nothing Face wrote >There is nothing that I can know, for I do not exist as a coherent whole. I >am myth. >OTS >John wrote in message >>>On Thu, 16 Mar 2000 23:59:43 -0000, "Nothing Face" ><ol…@sandcastle.freeserve.co.uk> wrote: >>>Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. >>>OTS >>Feeling kind of low? >>What happened that made you feel so? >>Feeling kind of low? >>What are you going to do now that you know?

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On Sat, 18 Mar 2000 01:04:15 -0500 "ric" <asl…@REMOVE-BEFORE-SENDINGegroups.com> wrote: > I like myths… and mythsters too… > honest mythology, ric

Mythical Mystical Moaning Monsters Mumbling? > Nothing Face wrote >> There is nothing that I can know, for I do not exist as >> a coherent whole. I am myth. >> OTS

Well, if you don’t exist you can’t suck! Nor post, for that matter. Off-Topic Semper! OTSOH (Of The Supposed Other Hand), as Descartes said: "I post, then I exist". Except that you don’t want to discuss with Descartes (who is not a member of this forum) you have better to accept this. Best myths and have pun! Ra… <disappears> – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> >John wrote in message > >>>On Thu, 16 Mar 2000 23:59:43 -0000, "Nothing Face" > ><ol…@sandcastle.freeserve.co.uk> wrote: > >>>Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. > >>>OTS > >>Feeling kind of low? > >>What happened that made you feel so? > >>Feeling kind of low? > >>What are you going to do now that you know? > …

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Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. OTS

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this makes me think of Ann Wilson Schaef’s comment that when the "therapist" says to the "patient" in response to some self-negative observation the "patient" makes, the message to the "patient" is: "wrong again.  you still don’t get it." – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Maddogg wrote: > Only in your own, much too critical eyes… don’t be > so hard on yourself… the world is hard enough on > us, without any help from within… take heart, Ollie… >                             sincerely, >                             Michael > On Thu, 16 Mar 2000 23:59:43 -0000, "Nothing Face" > <ol…@sandcastle.freeserve.co.uk> wrote: > >Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. > >OTS

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On Thu, 16 Mar 2000 23:59:43 -0000 "Nothing Face" <ol…@sandcastle.freeserve.co.uk> wrote: > Oh, I suck. -< DOH! >-. > OTS

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