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Question:
You wrote to 10 girls and 2 answered – that’s a 20% success rate. That’s about where I’m at right now in online dating – and I’m a 27 y/o student. But it doesn’t stop with that 20% who responded to your initial message – like you said they broke off the conversation. Keeping the conversation going is the next level that you have to get over. It’s Probable that only 20% of the girls that respond to your initial message are open to anything long-term. Which means that you’ll have to write to 100 girls to find 4 real prospects. Online dating is just a big numbers game, and like someone already said it requires alot patience.
Response:
After rebooting Windows, Real Genius wrote: > You wrote to 10 girls and 2 answered – that’s a 20% success rate. That’s > about where I’m at right now in online dating – and I’m a 27 y/o > student. But it doesn’t stop with that 20% who responded to your initial > message – like you said they broke off the conversation. Keeping the > conversation going is the next level that you have to get over. It’s > Probable that only 20% of the girls that respond to your initial message > are open to anything long-term. Which means that you’ll have to write to > 100 girls to find 4 real prospects.
While it takes a lot of time to actually get a gf out of online personals, the process itself is very useful to the shy guy. You get to practice interacting with women, meeting new people and making conversation, small talk, rejection, and yes being patient. It took me about 3 years to turn results. But the skills and confidence I picked up were invaluable. Don’t focus on getting a girl. Focus on gaining skills and confidence.
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