Feeling alone again

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I sincerely want to thank each of you who sent me a post or an E-mail in response to my feeling alone. You were all encouraging and helped me to realize that we never have to be completely alone. Love you all. Stan – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I really feel ashamed to be such a pest but I am feeling alone again. It seems like everyone has got problems worse than mine or else they are busy with their lives and don’t know that I feel left out again. That’s why I am posting once again to see what happens when I tell you this. I feel guilty for having this need, and afraid, and like crying. I’m not supposed to have this need. Stan

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I really feel ashamed to be such a pest but I am feeling alone again. It seems like everyone has got problems worse than mine or else they are busy with their lives and don’t know that I feel left out again. That’s why I am posting once again to see what happens when I tell you this. I feel guilty for having this need, and afraid, and like crying. I’m not supposed to have this need. Stan

But you *are* supposed to have this need. It’s programmed into you as a human being. The human race wouldn’t continue if everybody was happy being alone :-) Believe me, I know how you feel. I get *really* lonely and left-out feeling sometimes. Hang in there, Stan. Melissa Rule for Happiness: Something to do, Someone to love, Something to hope for. –Immanuel Kant

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Hi Stan, I’m sorry you’re feeling alone. I have to tell you: I think you said you’re from Kingston, NY and I went to college at New Paltz one exit from you on the thruway. You’re a real positive presence here and whenever I see your name here I smile. Thanks for being here. -Fred

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*big warm hugs* -lisa – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I really feel ashamed to be such a pest but I am feeling alone again. It seems like everyone has got problems worse than mine or else they are busy with their lives and don’t know that I feel left out again. That’s why I am posting once again to see what happens when I tell you this. I feel guilty for having this need, and afraid, and like crying. I’m not supposed to have this need. Stan

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I really feel ashamed to be such a pest but I

am feeling alone again. It seems like everyone has got problems worse than

mine or else they are busy with their lives and don’t know that I

feel left out again. That’s why I am posting once again to see what

happens when I tell you this. I feel guilty for having this need, and

afraid, and like crying. I’m not supposed to have this need.

Stan, I’m sorry you feel alone…I’m out here pulling for you, you just can’t see me. pavanne — For info about this service, see http://www.twwells.com/anon/ or e-mail:

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1. You are NEVER a pest 2. You are NEVER alone here 3. We are NEVER to busy for you That’s why I am posting once again to see what happens when I tell you this. I feel guilty for having this need, and afraid, and like crying. I’m not supposed to have this need. Stan

1. I am so glad to see your post 2. I am glad you feel you can express yourself truthfully here 3. NEVER feel guilty for needing others to validate you , we all need it, its learning how to validate ourselves thats the problem. (((((((((( Stan ))))))))))))))))))) your never alone rc Will you walk gently thru my shadow, the ones who sing at night, the ones you dream of, the ones who walk away, capes pulled round them tight Cry for the Nightbird…..In the darkness its hard to see her face…SN Http://MindsInMotion.hypermart.net

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I’ve noticed that with this large group on asd, no one seems to notice unless someone is gone for a long long time. Sometimes when I feel alone, I post more so that more people will respond to me. Then I feel busy and "in touch" with humans. So, what I am recommending is, that if someone feels "left out" here, then they just need to put themselves "in" and not wait to be invited. When I feel left out in RL, it’s not quite as easy to take care of. But it’s usually just a down day or week or month that passes when I start to feel better about myself. I don’t know if that’s true with other people or not. I don’t think you should feel guilty for feeling what most other people feel. It’s normal. You’re not a pest, Stanman. Cindy Lou

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There’s no reason to feel shame. If you feel like crying, then go ahead. I think everybody in the world feels lonely to some extent, even those who seem to be on top of the world.

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I really feel ashamed to be such a pest but I am feeling alone

again. Zeebyrd: I have (or had) depression. I’m on medication for it. Loneliness is so awful, and you’re not a pest. Sometimes when it gets to me (I am a stay-at-home mom, in a rural area, and have marital problems) I like to become engrossed in a good book. Time flies. Also, I have found that volunteer work is a great way to meet some WONDERFUL people and become involved in something. Volunteer groups always need help and fresh ideas from new people. Good luck. You’re not alone in your loneliness. I think the human race is a very lonely species. Marge Before you buy.

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Sometimes I feel as if I am in my own world and no one else exists. I don’t mean that my mind is elsewhere, but that I am truly in my own world – behind a glass wall – I can see out, but no one can see in. My problems feel overwhelming and no one else notices. (Actually, since I’ve dealt with depression on my own this long (other than the doctor), I’m probably better off without others knowing.) — Before you buy.

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Hi Stan, I’m sorry you feel alone, I know first hand how much that feeling SUCKS. I hope that you can find a little comfot here, I know I do.. One of the few places where I feel like I am understood and don’t feel left out.. Please Take Care, Mary . "If you like magic, Heres a trick. Snap my finger now I’m a lunatic." -M.Muir, M. Clark- Suicidal Tendencies " I’m doing the best I ever did. I’m doing the best that I can. Now go away." -Sully&Tony Godsmack

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