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Hi bornundersaturn! Well, I got the sign for the bank done and got paid for it, although I had to get on them a bit.  As for the portrait, I think that will be done this weekend.  What kinda stuff do you do artwise? Smiles and Hugs,   and i’d share the cookies if you lived close enough! <grin> Ellisande

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Back atcha. Hugs Eddie (Chief) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -SaintLee wrote: > Just wanted to say hello to all of > you good people.

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mmm . . .  blackberry iced tea  . . . .  man , what i’d do for a home made chocolate chip peanut butter cookie right about now . say , Ellisande , how did the drawing come out ? ( i am glad to see there is at least one other artist out there )  and Greetings to you , Saint Lee . i am also new to the neighborhood . bornundersaturn

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Ellisa…@webtv.net wrote: > Ooooohhh, Jae!!  I have a whole bag of chocolate peanut butter cookies > that my Ma made!   (I think she forgets that I do not eat sweets.  I > just don’t like sweets too much.  Only every now and then.  These are > gonna last me a long time.) > I LOVE blackberry iced tea!!! > Smiles and Hugs, > Ellisande

     You are sure lucky you live too far away for me to come steal those cookies!!!  <laugh>  Hugs, Jae —             "Opportunities are like sunrises…..                    If you wait too long…….                            You miss them."                           William Arthur Ward

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OK!  Tea’s on!   Who wants some?? Wecome to the tea party SaintLee. Grins, Ellisande

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Ellisa…@webtv.net wrote: > OK!  Tea’s on!   Who wants some?? > Wecome to the tea party SaintLee. > Grins, > Ellisande

     I also just brewed a pot of blackberry iced tea.  Can we get some scones or bisquits from across the sea?  <smile>  Hugs, Jae  PS.  Anyone bringing chocolate chip cookies…..prepare to get mobbed!!! —             "Opportunities are like sunrises…..                    If you wait too long…….                            You miss them."                           William Arthur Ward

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Ooooohhh, Jae!!  I have a whole bag of chocolate peanut butter cookies that my Ma made!   (I think she forgets that I do not eat sweets.  I just don’t like sweets too much.  Only every now and then.  These are gonna last me a long time.) I LOVE blackberry iced tea!!! Smiles and Hugs, Ellisande

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Just wanted to say hello to all of you good people.

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Hello To you too. Welcome and relax we listen well here.. Papa

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Hi, SaintLee.  I’m new here too… glad you came here to meet all the great people in here.  Kick your shoes off and sit awhile+ACE- Linda Papa wrote in message +ADw-3743A395.8A9401EC+AEA-postoffice.swbell.net+AD4-…

+AD4-Hello To you too. +AD4-Welcome and relax we listen well here.. +AD4- +AD4-Papa

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Lin wrote: > >  MMM Jae..Bengal spice. that a realy ‘hot’ cup of tea….I love it…I > > will bring my own cup…it has a dragon attached to it…so will you do > > the honour…8-)

     Tell you the truth, darlin’….I’m figuring it’s getting hot enough here that I should be brewing up a batch of iced tea for us all.  <grin>     Except for the Australians.  If I recall correctly, when we start to get warm weather, that means it’s starting to get cold in Australia about now. Willow or Justin, do I have that right?  Hugs to y’all, Jae —             "Opportunities are like sunrises…..                    If you wait too long…….                            You miss them."                           William Arthur Ward

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SaintLee writes>… >Just wanted to say hello to all of >you good people.

Hello to you too, SaintLee. Make yourself at home… Now, where’s the teapot and  some cups? Frans

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Frans wrote: > SaintLee writes>… > >Just wanted to say hello to all of > >you good people. > Hello to you too, SaintLee. Make yourself at home… Now, where’s the > teapot and  some cups? > Frans

     Last I recall, Ellisande was serving Celestial Seasonings Bengal Spice and it was BYOC  (bring your own cup)  <smile>  Jae —             "Opportunities are like sunrises…..                    If you wait too long…….                            You miss them."                           William Arthur Ward

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Jae wrote: > Frans wrote: > > SaintLee writes>… > > >Just wanted to say hello to all of > > >you good people. > > Hello to you too, SaintLee. Make yourself at home… Now, where’s the > > teapot and  some cups? > > Frans >      Last I recall, Ellisande was serving Celestial Seasonings Bengal > Spice and it was BYOC  (bring your own cup)  <smile>  Jae >  MMM Jae..Bengal spice. that a realy ‘hot’ cup of tea….I love it…I > will bring my own cup…it has a dragon attached to it…so will you do > the honour…8-)

Hugs Lin – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> — >             "Opportunities are like sunrises….. >                    If you wait too long……. >                            You miss them." >                           William Arthur Ward

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Hi Jason! Welcome to ASL! I am Raffaele, from Italy. Feel free to speak about anything you like, personal issues are especially wanted here. There will always be somebody listening. There is no need for any permission to post. This is a non-moderated NG, which does not mean that we are all so moderated. In fact, there is a work-in-progress FAQ aimed to give information. It will be posted as soon as possible. On the theme of "my first post", the current text (by the FAQ mini-team Raffaele+Ric+Brad) gives the following advice. ============ Begin quote There is no formal obligation, you choose freely about the content of your first post. It may be any of the following suggestions: A) Write an introduction about yourself, explaining WWW: Who you are, Where you live, Whatever you like. B) Focus directly on your issue, giving only the details you consider relevant. C) Jump right in, involving yourself in a discussion you find of your interest. D) None of the above (e.g., just say "Hi!"). See also the "2.3 What To Post" section below for additional ideas There is a lot of curious people here, so a new poster will hardly be ignored. Of course, (A) and (B) are better to get involved directly in a discussion concerning yourself. On the other hand, (C) may be very good if you’ve something interesting to say and your contribution is likely to be appreciated. Whatever is your choice, except that you happen to be off-topic (please don’t!), you may expect to be welcomed in ASL. We strongly encourage de-lurking. ============ End quote The division in four types is somewhat a joke, for type (D) can be almost anything. Also, there is not yet a commonly accepted definition of what is "off-topic" here. It is customary to consider OK all sorts of subjects, not necessarily related to loneliness. You may find more at the ASL WebSite, a click away from my ASL page:  <http://www.angelfire.com/mi/raffaele55/asl.html>. However, there is *no* obligation to visit ASL-related sites nor to read the FAQ, even when it will be posted. It is intended as information and advice, not as a code of laws. Sorry for getting verbose, but until there will be no standard way I think that it bears retelling this. Enjoy your stay in ASL! Friendly yours In article <36646E27.4…@hotmail.com>,   Jason <jmgad…@hotmail.com> wrote: > Hello, I am new to this group and have been lurking for a couple of > days.  I just wanted to ask permission to post here and maybe make some > new friends.  I won’t bore with the details of my life but I will tell > you this.  I live a lonely life.  There is more than that but I think > thats all that needs to be said for now.  However I do look forward to > possibly making some new friends here.  See ya later. >——SNIP——-<

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Hi Jason! Welcome to ASL! I am Raffaele, from Italy. Feel free to speak about anything you like, personal issues are especially wanted here. There will always be somebody listening. There is no need for any permission to post. This is a non-moderated NG, which does not mean that we are all so moderated. In fact, there is a work-in-progress FAQ aimed to give information. It will be posted as soon as possible. On the theme of "my first post", the current text (by the FAQ mini-team Raffaele+Ric+Brad) gives the following advice. ============ Begin quote There is no formal obligation, you choose freely about the content of your first post. It may be any of the following suggestions: A) Write an introduction about yourself, explaining WWW: Who you are, Where you live, Whatever you like. B) Focus directly on your issue, giving only the details you consider relevant. C) Jump right in, involving yourself in a discussion you find of your interest. D) None of the above (e.g., just say "Hi!"). See also the "2.3 What To Post" section below for additional ideas There is a lot of curious people here, so a new poster will hardly be ignored. Of course, (A) and (B) are better to get involved directly in a discussion concerning yourself. On the other hand, (C) may be very good if you’ve something interesting to say and your contribution is likely to be appreciated. Whatever is your choice, except that you happen to be off-topic (please don’t!), you may expect to be welcomed in ASL. We strongly encourage de-lurking. ============ End quote The division in four types is somewhat a joke, for type (D) can be almost anything. Also, there is not yet a commonly accepted definition of what is "off-topic" here. It is customary to consider OK all sorts of subjects, not necessarily related to loneliness. You may find more at the ASL WebSite, a click away from my ASL page:  <http://www.angelfire.com/mi/raffaele55/asl.html>. However, there is *no* obligation to visit ASL-related sites nor to read the FAQ, even when it will be posted. It is intended as information and advice, not as a code of laws. Sorry for getting verbose, but until there will be no standard way I think that it bears retelling this. Enjoy your stay in ASL! Friendly yours                Raffaele In article <36646E27.4…@hotmail.com>,   Jason <jmgad…@hotmail.com> wrote: > Hello, I am new to this group and have been lurking for a couple of > days.  I just wanted to ask permission to post here and maybe make some > new friends.  I won’t bore with the details of my life but I will tell > you this.  I live a lonely life.  There is more than that but I think > thats all that needs to be said for now.  However I do look forward to > possibly making some new friends here.  See ya later. >——SNIP——-<

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Dear Jason…. As Raffaele says….this is an unmoderated newgroup;  there are no rules, and you don’t even have to bother reading  what one person may think is appropriate.  We have found that in most instances common sense and courtesy dictates what is best.  Again…you are most welcome and I look forward to talking with you more.  We can just talk….or we can cry….or laugh and have fun….depending on the circumstances.  You’ll probably notice by reading some of the other messages, that we talk about most any subject you can think of. There are no limitations on the subject.  Sometimes talking about a particular subject in which you are familiar helps to ease the loneliness……and that’s what this group is all about. Hugs and Smiles, Gina "I don’t need no walls around me… I don’t need no drugs to calm me… I have seen the writing on the wall…. Don’t think I’ll need anything at all….. All in all it was just bricks in the wall…"                        — Pink Floyd

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Hello, I am new to this group and have been lurking for a couple of days.  I just wanted to ask permission to post here and maybe make some new friends.  I won’t bore with the details of my life but I will tell you this.  I live a lonely life.  There is more than that but I think thats all that needs to be said for now.  However I do look forward to possibly making some new friends here.  See ya later. "Did I ask to much..  more than a lot..  you gave me nothing..  now it’s all I got..               -U2- P.S.  I was inspired by Gina to have lyrics  from a song as my signature.  Thanks Gina. :)

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Dear Jason, Welcome! No, you don’t have to ask permission to post here.  Just jump right in if you want to. You’ll find good and friendly people here.  Some of us have our moments sometimes, but overall I think you’ll find your time well-spent here. Hugs abounding and smile greatly, Mike Brady – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Jason wrote in message <36646E27.4…@hotmail.com>… >Hello, I am new to this group and have been lurking for a couple of >days.  I just wanted to ask permission to post here and maybe make some >new friends.  I won’t bore with the details of my life but I will tell >you this.  I live a lonely life.  There is more than that but I think >thats all that needs to be said for now.  However I do look forward to >possibly making some new friends here.  See ya later. >"Did I ask to much.. > more than a lot.. > you gave me nothing.. > now it’s all I got.. >              -U2- >P.S. > I was inspired by Gina to have lyrics > from a song as my signature. > Thanks Gina. :)

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Mike Brady wrote: >Dear Jason, >Welcome! >No, you don’t have to ask permission to post here.  Just jump right in >if you want to. >You’ll find good and friendly people here.  Some of us have our >moments sometimes, but overall I think you’ll find your time well-spent >here. >Hugs abounding and smile greatly, >Mike Brady=20

Hey Mike !!   Moments ?  What moments ?!! <laugh>   I wish we had more people like you here with us…..and in the real world, too. If we did, then I believe there would be less loneliness.   Hugs and Smiles, Gina "I don’t need no walls around me… I don’t need no drugs to calm me… I have seen the writing on the wall…. Don’t think I’ll need anything at all….. All in all it was just bricks in the wall…"                        — Pink Floyd

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Hello, I am new to this group and have been lurking for a couple of >days.  I just wanted to ask permission to post here and maybe make some >new friends.  I won’t bore with the details of my life but I will tell >you this.  I live a lonely life.  There is more than that but I think >thats all that needs to be said for >now.  However I do look forward to >possibly making some new friends here.  See ya later. >"Did I ask to much.. > more than a lot.. > you gave me nothing.. > now it’s all I got.. >              -U2- >P.S. > I was inspired by Gina to have lyrics > from a song as my signature. >Thanks Gina. :)

Hi Jason…..and I’m very glad to see that you have decided to join us.   Also….I love U2 !!  One of my favorite groups !!!     The lyrics of songs sometimes can say so much better and much more beautifully what I am thinking or feeling than I can.   Sometimes I just post the lyrics to an entire song that seems to saying what I would want to say if I could write so well. Please don’t think the details of your life would be boring.  Anything that concerns a friend is interesting and it helps us to know you better, too. So…..anytime you want to talk about "anything"….please don’t hesitate to do so.   I’m sure you must already know that ASL is a special place and a very good refuge for those of us that need it.  There are some very caring and sincere people here that make some of the finest friends you’ll ever know. So….welcome again….and I’m glad you are here with us and I hope you will stay as long as you feel this loneliness.  We sometimes cry together….and laugh and have fun…and it’s always good to have someone else join in. Hugs and Smiles, Gina "It was warm in the night I was cold as a stone…. But I still haven’t found What I’m looking for…"                  U2

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Dor wrote: >Hmmmm… I’m wondering where to begin. >My *current* battle with loneliness started June 1st, when I took the >BIG step of moving into my own apartment, from my parents’ house. >At that point, I was in a relationship with a wonderful woman, but by >that time the feelings had changed, and we were acting like… (I hate >to use the words, but…) just friends. >Two weeks later, I started my first-ever job (in a bingo hall)… and >a week after that, my relationship endedd (without many hurt feelings >on either side). >New living arrangements, new job, newly single… life would have been >great, except for the fact that for the first time in my life, I was >*alone*.  Completely and inescapably.   >And now I’m here…

Wow, Dor !!!  You’ve been through several traumatic experiences in a very short span of time….and based on what I’ve learned…I’d say your feelings are perfectly normal considering all you’ve been through. You’ve taken some pretty big giant steps, ya know.  :-)   I’m glad you’re here with us….and I hope you continue with those giant steps … moving forward, of course. It does always help me to get my "mind together" when I have friends to talk with about all that is going on in my life.  Sometimes it seems the world just moves too fast for me.  Anyway….just hang in there and stay with us….I believe you’ll find some excellent company and advice here….and I believe you will be able to provide some yourself. Hugs and Smiles, Gina "Love when you can… Cry when you have to… Be who you must…. That’s a part of the plan…"              –Dan Fogelberg **Visit the Official ASL FAQ PAGE at:  http://members.aol.com/aslfaq

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In article <37fba0a5.5232…@news.telware.it>, kingtr…@iggletelware.it wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->*There is No Posting FAQ for ASL* raffaele does not speak for ASL ><http://www.angesnip>

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gina…@aol.com (Gina) wrote:

<big snip> >   …Please do stay with us…tell us a little more >about yourself….and know that you are among friends.  

Hmmmm… I’m wondering where to begin. My *current* battle with loneliness started June 1st, when I took the BIG step of moving into my own apartment, from my parents’ house. At that point, I was in a relationship with a wonderful woman, but by that time the feelings had changed, and we were acting like… (I hate to use the words, but…) just friends. Two weeks later, I started my first-ever job (in a bingo hall)… and a week after that, my relationship endedd (without many hurt feelings on either side). New living arrangements, new job, newly single… life would have been great, except for the fact that for the first time in my life, I was *alone*.  Completely and inescapably.   And now I’m here… Dor

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Hello, Dor, Thanks for telling us a little more about your life… It does sound like many changes, all at once, and it does sound like they might be changes for the better… I understand that the breakup might not have been the easiest thing to go through, but at least it ended amicably… We have had discussions about the the difference in being lonely, and simply being alone… of course, you can be both, but you can simply be alone, and enjoying the solitude… or any combinations of the two, I suppose… Could it be the change of circumstances may just take some time to get used to, as it is natural to feel alone, and lonely, after so many changes… suddenly, you are by yourself, when before, there was always someone around… new environment, new people, new life… but I would hope you would rethink the "inescapably" part… give yourself time, feel your way around, explore the new possibilities, and perhaps before long, you will find that you are not alone as you first felt… In the meantime, feel welcome here, to drop in anytime you are feeling that loneliness, and perhaps in the companionship of the great people here, it will help to see you through these long lonely nights… I know I have not helped you, but I wanted to let you know that you had been heard… I am sure others here can give you much better advice, as I know I am not an "advice guy"… (smile) Take care, Dor… hope to hear more from you…                                    sincerely,                                    Michael   "…Blackbird singing in the dead of night,       take these broken wings, and learn to fly…"                         Lennon and McCartney In article <7tjltu$e8…@cougar.golden.net>, polydora…@yahoo.com – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -("Polydorases") wrote: >gina…@aol.com (Gina) wrote: ><big snip> >>   …Please do stay with us…tell us a little more >>about yourself….and know that you are among friends.   >Hmmmm… I’m wondering where to begin. >My *current* battle with loneliness started June 1st, when I took the >BIG step of moving into my own apartment, from my parents’ house. >At that point, I was in a relationship with a wonderful woman, but by >that time the feelings had changed, and we were acting like… (I hate >to use the words, but…) just friends. >Two weeks later, I started my first-ever job (in a bingo hall)… and >a week after that, my relationship endedd (without many hurt feelings >on either side). >New living arrangements, new job, newly single… life would have been >great, except for the fact that for the first time in my life, I was >*alone*.  Completely and inescapably.   >And now I’m here… >Dor

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Hi Dor! Welcome to ASL! On Tue, 05 Oct 1999 23:35:24 GMT, polydora…@yahoo.com ("Polydorases") wrote: >I’ve been lurking here for a while, and I figured that (despite the >current mess) I might as well step forward.

That’s silly season, it will pass. >I’m a 21 year old white male, fluttering between agnosticism and >ecclectic paganism, and suffering from what I’ve heard described as >’just friends syndrome’.  Of course, eventually the friendships fade, >too…

What’s JFS? You mean that you regularly met girls who prefer to stay "just friends"? >I don’t know what I’m looking for out of this group, exactly…

I hope that nobody will be pushy with that. You may also consider private mail for personal questions. >perhaps just the opportunity to get to know others who understand why >I occasionally still cry myself to sleep at night.  

There is nothing wrong in channeling sentiments that way. Much many men do that than you may imagine, only not all will be open enough to confess it. It is natural and certainly more healthy than picking up meds at random. >In any case, it’s a pleasure to meet you all, though I’ll probably still be mostly in >the shadows (because my job doesn’t permit me enough time to read >Usenet very often)

Happy shadow-reading then… *giggle* >Dor >P.S. Due to the current situation in this group, anyone sending me >e-mail which seems to be asking me to take sides, one way or the >other, will enter my killfile.  No warnings.

Hey, why don’t you join and take part to my plot and help me to conquer the ——- CLUNK! ——- Best wishes King Remove "iggle" from the address to reply. *Homepage* <http://www.angelfire.com/mi/raffaele55/> *Posting FAQ for ASL* <http://www.angelfire.com/mi/raffaele55/aslfaq.html>

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Hello, Dor, That is perhaps one of the worst forms of frustration, and grief… something that hurts us so deeply in our hearts, that we cannot change… as in the that most painful grief, of losing a loved one… So what more natural times to cry? And I do feel that it is also healing, somehow, to allow ourselves to cry, that it may somehow release some of the pain… for to hold it in, and deny our souls that release, can only be damaging, to our bodies, and to our souls… I wish you peace, Dor… I hope you will stay with us, and speak more from your heart, as you have done…                               sincerely,                               Michael "…Those who don’t know how to weep with their      whole heart, don’t know how to laugh either…"                                     Golda Meir In article <7teacc$ov…@cougar.golden.net>, polydora…@yahoo.com – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -("Polydorases") wrote: >Harvey wrote: >>Crying at night is OK if you male or female, young or old. >>It is the spirit grieving in you. Gotta let your spirit tell you >>something’s wrong somewhere… >It’s not the crying that bothers me.  It’s the crying over something >that, while I know exactly what it is, there’s very little it seems I >can do about it. >Dor

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Lin, thank you for carrying Dor’s post.  My server is carrying fewer and fewer lately.  Might be a good thing in some cases, though.  <smile>     Hi Dor.  I know some about eclectic Paganism.  We also have some Pagans and Wiccans in this group.  Perhaps they will contact you.     Whenever you can find time, I’m sure there will be someone here to talk with.  Jae – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Lin wrote: > Welcome to this group, I haven’t been posting a lot, like you I live in the > shadow….sometimes…I do cry myself to sleep quite often. Life can be > hard, beeing here has been a consolatoin for me. There is always someone to > hug you…..(cyberhugs are just as good as any, I am taking Jae’s hugs with > me to work now, to keep me warm…) > Enjoy your stay here > Hugs > Lin > "Polydorases" heeft geschreven in bericht > <7te1oq$ki…@cougar.golden.net>… > >I’ve been lurking here for a while, and I figured that (despite the > >current mess) I might as well step forward. > >I’m a 21 year old white male, fluttering between agnosticism and > >ecclectic paganism, and suffering from what I’ve heard described as > >’just friends syndrome’.  Of course, eventually the friendships fade, > >too… > >I don’t know what I’m looking for out of this group, exactly… > >perhaps just the opportunity to get to know others who understand why > >I occasionally still cry myself to sleep at night.  In any case, it’s > >a pleasure to meet you all, though I’ll probably still be mostly in > >the shadows (because my job doesn’t permit me enough time to read > >Usenet very often) > >Dor > >P.S. Due to the current situation in this group, anyone sending me > >e-mail which seems to be asking me to take sides, one way or the > >other, will enter my killfile.  No warnings.

–  "Happiness is the result of discovering…….                That you do not have to have what you want."                         James K. Feibleman

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Harvey wrote: >Crying at night is OK if you male or female, young or old. >It is the spirit grieving in you. Gotta let your spirit tell you >something’s wrong somewhere…

It’s not the crying that bothers me.  It’s the crying over something that, while I know exactly what it is, there’s very little it seems I can do about it. Dor

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->I’ve been lurking here for a while, and I figured that (despite the >current mess) I might as well step forward. >I’m a 21 year old white male, fluttering between agnosticism and >ecclectic paganism, and suffering from what I’ve heard described as >’just friends syndrome’.  Of course, eventually the friendships fade, >too… >I don’t know what I’m looking for out of this group, exactly… >perhaps just the opportunity to get to know others who understand why >I occasionally still cry myself to sleep at night.  In any case, it’s >a pleasure to meet you all, though I’ll probably still be mostly in >the shadows (because my job doesn’t permit me enough time to read >Usenet very often) >Dor >P.S. Due to the current situation in this group, anyone sending me >e-mail which seems to be asking me to take sides, one way or the >other, will enter my killfile.  No warnings.

Hi Dor….and welcome to ASL.  It did take courage for you to come forth amidst all the chaos….but please rest assured that it is not "always" like this. Occasionally the trolls leave and we have reprieve.  <smile> The "just friends syndrome", huh ?  Yes…we have several here that will know exactly what you’re talking about…and I’m sure you’ll be hearing from them, too.  This is a most excellent place to stay while you gather your thoughts together.  Whether you need to talk…or laugh…or cry….you’ll find a friend always listening and always caring.  I’m real sorry that you have to cry yourself to sleep at night.  Please do stay with us…tell us a little more about yourself….and know that you are among friends.   Smiles to my new friend…. Gina "Like a stone in a stream… Life smoothes all our edges… ‘Til we barely make a ripple any more…"              — Edwin McCain

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Crying at night is OK if you male or female, young or old. It is the spirit grieving in you. Gotta let your spirit tell you something’s wrong somewhere… I hope you keep on visiting and find this newsgroup of help to you. Even having someone acknowledge your existence and input is of help. And we can all do with some help. Harvey In article <7te1oq$ki…@cougar.golden.net>, polydora…@yahoo.com says… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->I’ve been lurking here for a while, and I figured that (despite the >current mess) I might as well step forward. >I’m a 21 year old white male, fluttering between agnosticism and >ecclectic paganism, and suffering from what I’ve heard described as >’just friends syndrome’.  Of course, eventually the friendships fade, >too… >I don’t know what I’m looking for out of this group, exactly… >perhaps just the opportunity to get to know others who understand why >I occasionally still cry myself to sleep at night.  In any case, it’s >a pleasure to meet you all, though I’ll probably still be mostly in >the shadows (because my job doesn’t permit me enough time to read >Usenet very often) >Dor >P.S. Due to the current situation in this group, anyone sending me >e-mail which seems to be asking me to take sides, one way or the >other, will enter my killfile.  No warnings.

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Welcome to this group, I haven’t been posting a lot, like you I live in the shadow….sometimes…I do cry myself to sleep quite often. Life can be hard, beeing here has been a consolatoin for me. There is always someone to hug you…..(cyberhugs are just as good as any, I am taking Jae’s hugs with me to work now, to keep me warm…) Enjoy your stay here Hugs Lin "Polydorases" heeft geschreven in bericht <7te1oq$ki…@cougar.golden.net>… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->I’ve been lurking here for a while, and I figured that (despite the >current mess) I might as well step forward. >I’m a 21 year old white male, fluttering between agnosticism and >ecclectic paganism, and suffering from what I’ve heard described as >’just friends syndrome’.  Of course, eventually the friendships fade, >too… >I don’t know what I’m looking for out of this group, exactly… >perhaps just the opportunity to get to know others who understand why >I occasionally still cry myself to sleep at night.  In any case, it’s >a pleasure to meet you all, though I’ll probably still be mostly in >the shadows (because my job doesn’t permit me enough time to read >Usenet very often) >Dor >P.S. Due to the current situation in this group, anyone sending me >e-mail which seems to be asking me to take sides, one way or the >other, will enter my killfile.  No warnings.

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"Polydorases" wrote in message <7te1oq$ki…@cougar.golden.net>… >I’ve been lurking here for a while, and I figured that (despite the >current mess) I might as well step forward…

                           <snipped> >P.S. Due to the current situation in this group, anyone sending me >e-mail which seems to be asking me to take sides, one way or the >other, will enter my killfile.  No warnings.

  Nice to meet you and welcome to the group.  I think that the ASL civil war will be over soon. I hope. Regards, Casey

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I’ve been lurking here for a while, and I figured that (despite the current mess) I might as well step forward. I’m a 21 year old white male, fluttering between agnosticism and ecclectic paganism, and suffering from what I’ve heard described as ‘just friends syndrome’.  Of course, eventually the friendships fade, too… I don’t know what I’m looking for out of this group, exactly… perhaps just the opportunity to get to know others who understand why I occasionally still cry myself to sleep at night.  In any case, it’s a pleasure to meet you all, though I’ll probably still be mostly in the shadows (because my job doesn’t permit me enough time to read Usenet very often) Dor P.S. Due to the current situation in this group, anyone sending me e-mail which seems to be asking me to take sides, one way or the other, will enter my killfile.  No warnings.

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