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Anna, I’m sorry you’re having such a rough time… it’s going to get better. I completely understand what you mean about feeling lost.

Yes ‘we’ can feel like that huh ? You should know better than to apologize for whining… :)

Sorry )) Sending you strength and love, Brooke

Thank you dear one Love Anna

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Who who ????? ) I wish so much that I could be there for you right now but just remember that you have a lot of people who love you very much here at ASAP. Not the same as in RL I know but please use this NG to carry on venting how you feel.

Yes it would be great sitting together and cry,laugh and well just ‘be’ together. Who knows what the future holds for us Sending lots of hugs to you Anna.. Love Carol..xx

Thank you friend Love ya Anna

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Anna, sorry you’re feeling down, but if it’s because of a difficult time in the friendship, maybe you could reflect that friendships constantly go through all kinds of stages and difficulties – in a way, that’s what they’re all about. I’m sure this difficult time will soon pass,and Marjo will realize that her role is to support you, and her, too, through the anxiety, so you can be her friend. And if she doesn’t realize it right away, maybe you can tell her? -David-

Allways glad to ’see’ you and read your input Big kiss from Anna

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Sorry your not doing well.. Lots of hugs and love, Jeff..:-)

Thank you Jeff I was in need of that Big kiss Anna

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Hi, Anna, Sorry you are having a rough time. I wish I could just stop by and give you one big hug…so here’s the best I can do ((((((Anna)))))) Philip said something that I totally agree with, "What about *your* problem with *your* disorder?" – goodness this is something we never asked for and certainly wouldn’t want to wish upon our worst enemy. Explain to Marjo that you can only commit so far and sometimes you do choose to cancel instead of putting yourself in a situation you are not up to. Sending strength your way!!! smiles, Elise

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello friends, Hello, dear Mis Anna! There is so much going on in my life. And it is getting to me. I feel down,not something I have that often. I also am having a ‘out of control’ period of obsessive thinking. Ack! And to top it of,my best friend Marjo called and said she want to talk with me. She has a problem with my disorder. Hm…. *she* has a problem with *your* disorder? What about *your* problem with *your* disorder? She should know better. Something I most certainly play a role in. I promissed too much and cancelled too much. My motivation never the less was allways ‘The fear of losing her’ If you behave like Miss Anna you shouldn’t lose anybody and anybody you might lose would *not* be a real friend. I feel really lonely. And that is also something I seldom have. Sorry for whining,I just feel so lost atm. I am so sorry… We are all here for you! Kisses from Anna Philip

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…whatever comes I cannot be what I am not !

Anna, that is the TRUTH. True for all of us. Please don’t be anyone or anything but our ANNA, okay? We love you just the way you are. ((((((((((Anna)))))))))) Feel better soon… take your time; it’s been a stressful several months for you. Love, Anne

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– TC3

: : Don’t go back and dwell on what was promised and : cancelled……. : I think I would tell my friend that I love her : but won’t promise anything and just let : things "be"…….I am very sure she loves : you and will patient…. : I understand the loneliness more than you : and no expectations are here……. : Love you C : : : {{{{{{cheryl}}}}}}} : I am so glad I posted and for you : being such a lovely friend ))) Well, I care much for you and hate to see you down but know it’s inevitable for all of us to walk in a valley now and then, just so you know we are here to help you back up. xo love Cheryl : : Love ya Anna

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I feel down

what crap are you tellin yourself period of obsessive thinking.

an old friend And to top it of,my best friend Marj

perhpas the obsessive thinking is a better friend She has a problem with my disorder.

her problem is hers-don’t make it yours we have a unique expression here in the US-it is vastly profound if she isn’t a friend-tell her to F-ck herself and the horse she rode here on if she starts with some babbling analysis tell her where to get off-she isn’t fullfilling her agenda that’s all-your aren’t doing what she wants you to do, not for you, but for her. Something I most certainly play a role in. I promiss

nope My motivation never the less was allways ‘The fear of losing her’

can’t lose something you don’t really have nor control I feel really lonely.

hugs Sorry for whining,

a vintage bottle LM

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So true ! Explain to Marjo that you can only commit so far and sometimes you do choose to cancel instead of putting yourself in a situation you are not up to. Sending strength your way!!! smiles, Elise

Love you very much Elise and thamks for being here for me ! Big hug Anna

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She has a problem with my disorder. her problem is hers-don’t make it yours we have a unique expression here in the US-it is vastly profound if she isn’t a friend-tell her to F-ck herself and the horse she rode here on if she starts with some babbling analysis tell her where to get off-she isn’t fullfilling her agenda that’s all-your aren’t doing what she wants you to do, not for you, but for her.

This ‘feels’ right. Yes I think that’s it. I am expected to fill hole’s. She has to do that herself. Thank you I feel really lonely. hugs

Ahhhhhhh and a big kiss from me <don’t faint Sorry for whining, a vintage bottle

Hehe – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – LM

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Matey.. I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. Forget about the promises and cancellations. I know that you and Marjo are very good friends and I am sure that she will understand. Good friends do not "get lost". Think of how worried I was about the latest email to you. You are my good friend and still are. I understand the fear of losing a friend. Just be honest with her and tell her how you are feeling. Remember you do not apologise here!! I wonder who taught me that one.;-) Who who ????? )

Oh I just don’t know. LOL… I wish so much that I could be there for you right now but just remember that you have a lot of people who love you very much here at ASAP. Not the same as in RL I know but please use this NG to carry on venting how you feel. Yes it would be great sitting together and cry,laugh and well just ‘be’ together. Who knows what the future holds for us

One day we will do this! I am sure of that. I imagine that we would giggle a lot. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Sending lots of hugs to you Anna.. Love Carol..xx Thank you friend Love ya Anna

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Hello friends,

Hello my friend.. There is so much going on in my life. And it is getting to me. I feel down,not something I have that often. I also am having a ‘out of control’ period of obsessive thinking.

I hear you..please try to take a breath and step back for long enough to look at *what* you’re thinking. What are you telling yourself over and over ? **Write it down** …look at it, and attack it, refute it with arguments…whether you can *believe* those arguments or not, right now. We take the blame and attack ourselves out of habit, like we’re not good enough…well we *are* good enough. We are very hard on oursleves, and we don;t need to be. And to top it of,my best friend Marjo called and said she want to talk with me. She has a problem with my disorder. Something I most certainly play a role in.

Maybe you don;t play a role in it at all ! Maybe *she* has come up with some angle on it that is not related to anything you have done / not done ? Why *must* it be your fault ? I promissed too much and cancelled too much.

Do you *know* this or are you assuming ? Has she told you this ? Maybe she expects too much…wants to much. I feel really lonely. And that is also something I seldom have.

I know this feeling…I’m sorry you are having such a hard time ATM.. remember that it will end…you will regroup, my friend, this is temporary. Sorry for whining,I just feel so lost atm.

{{{{{{ Anna }}}}}} Take care of yourself…you’re worth it.. Pete

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello friends, There is so much going on in my life. And it is getting to me. I feel down,not something I have that often. I also am having a ‘out of control’ period of obsessive thinking. And to top it of,my best friend Marjo called and said she want to talk with me. She has a problem with my disorder. Something I most certainly play a role in. I promissed too much and cancelled too much. My motivation never the less was allways ‘The fear of losing her’ I feel really lonely. And that is also something I seldom have. Sorry for whining,I just feel so lost atm. Kisses from Anna

Sorry your not doing well.. Lots of hugs and love, Jeff..:-)

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Don’t go back and dwell on what was promised and cancelled……. I think I would tell my friend that I love her but won’t promise anything and just let things "be"…….I am very sure she loves you and will patient…. I understand the loneliness more than you and no expectations are here……. Love you C

{{{{{{cheryl}}}}}}} I am so glad I posted and for you being such a lovely friend ))) Love ya Anna

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And to top it of,my best friend Marjo called and said she want to talk with me. She has a problem with my disorder. Hm…. *she* has a problem with *your* disorder? What about *your* problem with *your* disorder? She should know better.

Yes she *should* and I never saw it coming Philip. I try to be a ‘good’ friend,I know that ! Something I most certainly play a role in. I promissed too much and cancelled too much. My motivation never the less was allways ‘The fear of losing her’ If you behave like Miss Anna you shouldn’t lose anybody and anybody you might lose would *not* be a real friend.

This is such a lovely thing to say It brings tears to my eyes. I feel really lonely. And that is also something I seldom have. Sorry for whining,I just feel so lost atm. I am so sorry… We are all here for you!

Yes and it makes all the difference today – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Kisses from Anna Philip

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Dear Miss Anna, I`m sorry that you are going through so much lately. It saddens me that Marjo can`t accept you for who you are, disorder and all. You are much more than your anxiety, you are such a warm, compassionate….lovely person. If it was a physical disorder that was the cause of you having to cancel appts, would this even be an issue with her? Perhaps she wants to talk to you for other reasons. I understand the pain of not being understood and judged for something that is not your fault. Just remember all your friends here at ASAP that love and understand you. {{{{{Anna}}}}} Jackie

Dear jackie,I am so glad I posted. Today you guys make all the difference. I do cry,but also feel ‘me’ again It is such a nice thing to have people who see beyond the disorder ! Love ya girl Anna

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Miss Anna wrote….. <snipped ‘The fear of losing her’ I feel really lonely. And that is also something I seldom have. Sorry for whining,I just feel so lost atm. Dear Miss Anna, I`m sorry that you are going through so much lately. It saddens me that Marjo can`t accept you for who you are, disorder and all. You are much more than your anxiety, you are such a warm, compassionate….lovely person. Why don’t you suggest she visit the Pdoc with you? I know when my mom was alive, and had P/A my dad was somewhat cruel. He should have gone to her Pdoc, I’d met him and it was informative. Best of luck, and happy holidays!

Thank you dear, marjo knows all about this disorder. She is a social worker. We will see,whatever comes I cannot be what I am not ! Kiss from Anna

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Miss Anna wrote…..

<snipped ‘The fear of losing her’ I feel really lonely. And that is also something I seldom have. Sorry for whining,I just feel so lost atm.

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello friends, There is so much going on in my life. And it is getting to me. I feel down,not something I have that often. I also am having a ‘out of control’ period of obsessive thinking. And to top it of,my best friend Marjo called and said she want to talk with me. She has a problem with my disorder. Something I most certainly play a role in. I promissed too much and cancelled too much. My motivation never the less was allways ‘The fear of losing her’ I feel really lonely. And that is also something I seldom have. Sorry for whining,I just feel so lost atm. Kisses from Anna

Hi Matey.. I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. Forget about the promises and cancellations. I know that you and Marjo are very good friends and I am sure that she will understand. Good friends do not "get lost". Think of how worried I was about the latest email to you. You are my good friend and still are. I understand the fear of losing a friend. Just be honest with her and tell her how you are feeling. Remember you do not apologise here!! I wonder who taught me that one.;-) I wish so much that I could be there for you right now but just remember that you have a lot of people who love you very much here at ASAP. Not the same as in RL I know but please use this NG to carry on venting how you feel. Sending lots of hugs to you Anna.. Love Carol..xx

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Miss Anna wrote….. <snipped ‘The fear of losing her’ I feel really lonely. And that is also something I seldom have. Sorry for whining,I just feel so lost atm. Dear Miss Anna, I`m sorry that you are going through so much lately. It saddens me that Marjo can`t accept you for who you are, disorder and all. You are much more than your anxiety, you are such a warm, compassionate….lovely person.

Why don’t you suggest she visit the Pdoc with you? I know when my mom was alive, and had P/A my dad was somewhat cruel. He should have gone to her Pdoc, I’d met him and it was informative. Best of luck, and happy holidays!

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Hello friends, There is so much going on in my life. And it is getting to me. I feel down,not something I have that often. I also am having a ‘out of control’ period of obsessive thinking. And to top it of,my best friend Marjo called and said she want to talk with me. She has a problem with my disorder. Something I most certainly play a role in. I promissed too much and cancelled too much. My motivation never the less was allways ‘The fear of losing her’ I feel really lonely. And that is also something I seldom have. Sorry for whining,I just feel so lost atm. Kisses from Anna

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: Hello friends, : : There is so much going on in my life. : And it is getting to me. : I feel down,not something I have that : often. I also am having a ‘out of control’ : period of obsessive thinking. : And to top it of,my best friend Marjo : called and said she want to talk with me. : She has a problem with my disorder. : Something I most certainly play a role in. : I promissed too much and cancelled too much. : My motivation never the less was allways : ‘The fear of losing her’ : I feel really lonely. And that is also : something I seldom have. : Sorry for whining,I just feel so lost atm. : : Kisses from Anna

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Hello friends,

Hello, dear Mis Anna! There is so much going on in my life. And it is getting to me. I feel down,not something I have that often. I also am having a ‘out of control’ period of obsessive thinking.

Ack! And to top it of,my best friend Marjo called and said she want to talk with me. She has a problem with my disorder.

Hm…. *she* has a problem with *your* disorder? What about *your* problem with *your* disorder? She should know better. Something I most certainly play a role in. I promissed too much and cancelled too much. My motivation never the less was allways ‘The fear of losing her’

If you behave like Miss Anna you shouldn’t lose anybody and anybody you might lose would *not* be a real friend. I feel really lonely. And that is also something I seldom have. Sorry for whining,I just feel so lost atm.

I am so sorry… We are all here for you! Kisses from Anna

Philip

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Anna, I’m sorry you’re having such a rough time… it’s going to get better. I completely understand what you mean about feeling lost. You should know better than to apologize for whining… :) Sending you strength and love, Brooke — Smile! It makes the world wonder what you’re up to… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello friends, There is so much going on in my life. And it is getting to me. I feel down,not something I have that often. I also am having a ‘out of control’ period of obsessive thinking. And to top it of,my best friend Marjo called and said she want to talk with me. She has a problem with my disorder. Something I most certainly play a role in. I promissed too much and cancelled too much. My motivation never the less was allways ‘The fear of losing her’ I feel really lonely. And that is also something I seldom have. Sorry for whining,I just feel so lost atm. Kisses from Anna

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