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Some Posters Demonstrating Why They Are Lonely

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> You’re supposed to use this forum to vent about being lonely guys, not > show everyone why you can’t get a date. > You can measure a guy’s dick size by how many vile, misogynist posts he > has here.  Subtract an inch for every one.

This would be a fair (if somewhat trollish) criticism – if it wasn’t posted to the wrong newsgroup. If you actually took the time to read this newsgroup properly, you’d notice that every single misogynistic post on alt.support.loneliness seems to be a crosspost from those lovable larrikins over at alt.support.shyness. OTS

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anne_o_nymou…@yahoo.com wrote: > You’re supposed to use this forum to vent about being lonely guys, not > show everyone why you can’t get a date. > You can measure a guy’s dick size by how many vile, misogynist posts he > has here.  Subtract an inch for every one.

If a poster is a vile misogynist, why would you want to know his dick size in the first place? Also (just in the interests of science) what number do you subtract from, and what medical condition would a result of, say, -32.7 yards supposedly represent?

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anne_o_nymou…@yahoo.com wrote: > You’re supposed to use this forum to vent about being lonely guys, not > show everyone why you can’t get a date. > You can measure a guy’s dick size by how many vile, misogynist posts he > has here.  Subtract an inch for every one.

saying one can’nt get a date in around about way is being lonely

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anne_o_nymou…@yahoo.com wrote: > You’re supposed to use this forum to vent about being lonely guys, not > show everyone why you can’t get a date.

Quality over quantity, I always say. I imagine one reason why guys are lonely guys is ’cause we can’t get a date.  But this is just the first level of loneliness.  Another is when you can’t get a good date. And, of course, there’s this existential sense of solitude — as opposed to "loneliness" with its connotations of angst — that’s actually healthy. > You can measure a guy’s dick size by how many vile, misogynist posts he > has here.  Subtract an inch for every one.

Misogyny schmogyny…these are just labels.  Ultimately, what’s at work is intense frustration and confusion, such as any of us can identify with, really. It’s really funny, but outside of sex…I don’t need females as females.  They’re just human like everyone else! Boy, if you think the NG’s misgoynist now…you should have been here for the good ol’ days of darkfalz/sage…those were fun times!  He was threatening to stick his boot up some whiggie’s ass…LOL!

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Love Vs Loneliness lyics

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i like these lyrics and think they’re pretty deep so thought i’d post them. Love Vs Loneliness How can you love someone If you think that you’re no one When you mistreat yourself, and think it’s all you deserve Cause it’s so hard to care Is this or is it loneliness? How can you demand respect – when you have no respect? When you abuse your body, never mind your mind And you’re your own worst victim There’ll be no love just loneliness Why do you force a smile – when you know all the while That you’re burning inside, but don’t want no one to know The hell that you’re in As love turns to loneliness How can you sleep at night? When you know it’s not alright When you wake up in the morning, nothin’ has changed If you do nothin’ about it Love becomes loneliness Love vs loneliness, love vs loneliness And when you’re down and you think you need something The temptations so hard to resist But what you grab sure ain’t what you needed That’s not love it’s loneliness And when you’re lonely and think you need someone The plot a painful twist There ain’t no one that can make you feel like someone Only you can cure loneliness How can you be confident when you’re all wrong with it When you know what you’re doing and you’re doing it wrong It’s no misunderstanding This ain’t love this is loneliness How can you love someone – if you think that you’re no one? Band: Suicidal Tendencies Song: Love Vs Loneliness Album: Suicidal for Life — Chris

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"Chris1585" <whosyourd…@yourmomshouse.org> wrote in message

news:LH8qe.3283$jS1.1146@newssvr17.news.prodigy.com… > Band: Suicidal Tendencies > Song: Love Vs Loneliness > Album: Suicidal for Life

i went to the ST / Candlebox / Metallica concert years ago.  got there late and missed ST. i think it would make a cool name for a trance tune "Love vs Loneliness Mix". m.

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Friday again and no one is lonely….

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Your Name Here=Harvey (k…@ing.notin.aus) writes: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> In article <d637tp$ne…@theodyn.ncf.ca>, bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA says… >>Yup. It’s confirmed: >>They just all say "that"… >>:) >>– > Well, I’m having to tidy up some windows (and other paintwork) around the > house, too busy

And then guys complain that gals always have to "wash their hair"…. ;-) > to feel lonely at the moment. Looks like I’ll be doing a little coaching > in Volleyball on Wednesday … > Being ‘busy’ with stuff, doesn’t solve the problem of loneliness, it’s > only a diversion from feeling it.

Zactly. But when health does not allow for much activity, net diversions *could* work. BUT. No one is there on Fridays after work. I guess everyone drinks and joins 5-7s or something:) > Harvey

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RAS (rst…@rocketmail.com) writes: > Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >> Yup. It’s confirmed: >> They just all say "that"… >> :) >> — > Lol. I’m on Messenger…

Rub it in…. You got my MSGR id. Unless as I suspect, my Msgr only works when I am paged, and none of my sends work when one is offline. Oddly seems to be so. Someone confirmed that none of my offline messages gets to them, where it yet seems to work when both are online. Go figure.  >  > RAS —

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In article <d642kh$7s…@theodyn.ncf.ca>, bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA says… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Your Name Here=Harvey (k…@ing.notin.aus) writes: >> In article <d637tp$ne…@theodyn.ncf.ca>, bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA says… >>>Yup. It’s confirmed: >>>They just all say "that"… >>>:) >>>– >> Well, I’m having to tidy up some windows (and other paintwork) around the >> house, too busy >And then guys complain that gals always have to "wash their hair"…. >;-) >> to feel lonely at the moment. Looks like I’ll be doing a little coaching >> in Volleyball on Wednesday … >> Being ‘busy’ with stuff, doesn’t solve the problem of loneliness, it’s >> only a diversion from feeling it. >Zactly. But when health does not allow for much activity, net diversions >*could* work. BUT. No one is there on Fridays after work. >I guess everyone drinks and joins 5-7s or something:) >> Harvey

I stay away from booze, wine, etc and drugs — knowing they cause more problems than solve. I’m painting the kitchen windows – have to get some takeaways to eat, while the paint drys there. Hope that it’ll last a good 10-20 years? Nothing worse than having to redo it, again too soon… There’ll probably be something else to do, soon after that.. I haven’t got round to washing my hair – must do that soon… Harvey

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > "Mz PlopppeeePnatsss" (pnats…@trollerama.com) writes: > > Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > >> Yup. It’s confirmed: > >> They just all say "that"… > >> :) > >> — > > im hear online as usual. not reelee lonelee tho. just woke pfrum a > > nive nap during a thunderstormm and hace onlee eaten fud beginning > > with teh letter T today. mite do sum cleenin tonite and studee. > Tomato tortillas with thyme, or …Tons of Tocolate ?:)

yesee tacos, tocolate, and tim tams gud combo! lol

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > RAS (rst…@rocketmail.com) writes: >>Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >>>Yup. It’s confirmed: >>>They just all say "that"… >>>:) >>>– >>Lol. I’m on Messenger… > Rub it in…. > You got my MSGR id. > Unless as I suspect, my Msgr only works when I am paged, and none of my > sends work when one is offline. Oddly seems to be so. > Someone confirmed that none of my offline messages gets to them, where it > yet seems to work when both are online. > Go figure.

Um, no, I don’t have your ID. In the email you sent, you said you weren’t sure what it was. Try this: open Yahoo Messenger, and click on ‘Contact’/'Add a contact’. This will send a message to me asking if it is ok for you to add me to your buddy list, and I will have your ID, the next time I sign on. RAS

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Hello Chloe. Friday after work I was digging up my garden a bit. No time to feel lonely. But now I’m cold. Damned cold. Comes from being online instead of moving, I suppose. Did you notice it was Friday 13th? Anyone superstitious, tehe ;-) ??? Take care Sume

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"sumire" (sumire_kawab…@nospam.yahoo.co.uk) writes: > Hello Chloe. Friday after work I was digging up > my garden a bit. No time to feel lonely. > But now I’m cold. Damned cold. Comes from being > online instead of moving, I suppose.

It’s ben raining since the minute the weekend started, here. It will probably stop Monday morning at 8:30;-), and start again next Friday at 4:30:):) So..thew weather keeps me sleeping all the time…Nohign to help perk the metabolism up in a thyroid "calmer" moment…. I had exactly planned to work in the yard, and then in the house, keepign the dpatio door (my only door to the outside) and windows opened… HAH!:(…:)  >  > Did you notice it was Friday 13th? Yup.:) > Anyone superstitious, tehe ;-) ???

Judge Gomery seems to be:) He opened the day saying "Friday. The Thirteenth. That sounds propmising, hahahaha". The enquiry is about a huge scandal here where ministers (as in parliament nt as in religion) stole tax payers money and bought votes, etc, etc, on top of building themself houses, wne cellars, buying boats and yadeeyada. Th man to be questioned that day was said to be central to it all, therefore the court being opened on thse words" Friday. The 13th! Hahaha. Starts the day on an inerestign note. This already sounds promising LOL:)". On my side, I donlt believe on the Friday 13s being bad at all. Each time I had job interviews ona Friday 13, for instancd, I knew the job was mine. All other candidates woud frak out at the last minute realizinfg it was a Friday 13 and not show up:):) As a matter of fact, kiddo emailed a bit discouraged as he had a schedule conflict: he was hired to do dubbing on a movie, and later learned that on that same forst day was now auditons for a big movie made in Quebec, where he then woudl miss the auditions. I wrote hm back to say to try and reach them again in the early afternoon, saying that often what they had on their schedule is cancelled due to people beign superstitious, wheree they then ahve tiem on their hands. Later on any friday than 2:30 is always bad, as people donlt wanna hear about work at all, only about weekend:). Well, he wrote back to say "Guess what? I reached the dubbing contact, She said "That woudl surprise me as youa re seven guys that have to constantly work at the same time…for seven straight hours…I can ask, but…". He was called back a few minutes later and told that the producer said no problem, he can manage with an hour late on his part to allow him to go to the auditions as well. So it worked A1. That much for Friday the 13ths:) :) He ahs such a neat fun career, that one:) He sent me in email at work samples of voices he does for cartoons:). Neat:) What a fun life it must be:) Of course, as hs mom, I can;t help but remember all thse evenings I put him to bed telling him stories making the weirdest voices for the characters, unil he woudl laugh to tears:). And all those hours spent playing improvisation on any theme as wed turn down the tv volume and woudl play dubbing movies… There was a Brittish comedy we spent so many hours rolling on the floor dubbing… Heaven can wait" I think it was called. As it went, one of the characters became an ex playboy centrefold, a real nymphomaniac, etc, etc…t turned out we made the father be a real pervert:), always after that one which we made his daughter (maybe she was in the real thing, we never actually knew what the comedy was all about, always turning the sound off:)), etc, etc. Sometimes, just doing it on purpose to give a character a voice that absolutely can not fit it was enugh to send us rolling on the floor, fisting the carpet to beg the other to stop so we could breath a moment:) And to think that he does this for a way of earnign his life…. That is ever sooo kewl, wow!!! Lucky lucky kid:) He was doing six comic caracters for a cie,. and they asked him if he coudl do three more…he said he had to work hard to find to make three more very different voices, but managed. He pretty mucyh ends up doing all the characters voices for that oen then…. He already did the back of a magazine for an ad, and already won his first suing a producer for intellectual propery theft. The kid has guts:). And eyah, I am happy that he foudn such a fun profession and career to earn his life:). Oh, imagine if going to work Monday was all about looking at comics and making the comics voices? Yeeees! That;d be ever so neat, I’d be at work right now LOL:)  >  > Take care >  > Sume > —

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In article <d637tp$ne…@theodyn.ncf.ca>, bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA says… >Yup. It’s confirmed: >They just all say "that"… >:) >–

Well, I’m having to tidy up some windows (and other paintwork) around the house, too busy to feel lonely at the moment. Looks like I’ll be doing a little coaching in Volleyball on Wednesday … Being ‘busy’ with stuff, doesn’t solve the problem of loneliness, it’s only a diversion from feeling it. Harvey

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Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > Yup. It’s confirmed: > They just all say "that"… > :) > —

Lol. I’m on Messenger… RAS

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"Mz PlopppeeePnatsss" (pnats…@trollerama.com) writes: > Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >> Yup. It’s confirmed: >> They just all say "that"… >> :) >> — > im hear online as usual. not reelee lonelee tho. just woke pfrum a nive > nap during a thunderstormm and hace onlee eaten fud beginning with teh > letter T today. mite do sum cleenin tonite and studee.

Tomato tortillas with thyme, or …Tons of Tocolate ?:) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> — > ———————————————————- > Visit my newsgroup alt.fan.poopie-pants > Askii Poopie for advice on just about anything. > Some of it may actually be useful > **************************************************** > I’m mentally ill and I have a toilet plunger, any questions?–Poopie > Pants > **************************************************** > When I grow up I am gonna changeee ma name to Poopie Pnats and be a > troell on > usenet and post silly tings.-Ms Poopie Pants > ***************************************************** >             ____                    _       ____              __ >            / __ ____  ____  ____  (_)__   / __ ____ _____  / /______ >           / /_/ / __ / __ / __ / / _ / /_/ / __ `/ __ / __/ ___/ >          / ____/ /_/ / /_/ / /_/ / /  __// ____/ /_/ / / / / /_(__  ) >         /_/    ____/____/ .___/_/___//_/    __,_/_/ /_/__/____/ >                          /_/ >                                 __  ____________ >                    __/|_       / / / /_  __/ __ )       __/|_ >                   |    /_____ / / / / / / / __  |______|    / >                  /_ __/_____// /_/ / / / / /_/ //_____/_ __| >                   |/         ____/ /_/ /_____/        |/ > ************************************************************************ > ************* > Lookie wat teh wonnurfil arteest Veronikaa made fer Poopie! > Poopie needs a new sig! Power Poopie cleans up in the castle: > _  ___  ___  ___  ___            ____   ___    ___   ____  ____    ___ > _|__|__|__|__          |     /    /   |    l    j  /  _] >  |||  |||  |||  |||  |          |  o  Y     YY     Y|  o  )|  T  /  [_ >  ||  ||  ||  ||  |          |   _/|  O  ||  O  ||   _/ |  | Y    _] >  `-’  `-’  `-’  `-’  |          |  |( |     ||     ||  |   |  | |   [_ >            |///|  | .------. |  |  l(    !l     !|  |   j  l |     T >           .{{{}}}}}. |/ ...and l__j   ___/  ___/ l__j  |____jl_____j >          {{{} _  _]}}||  stay  |  )    )   ___                _ >         {{{}  " "|}}|/_  out! /     )    (  _`             ( )_ >        {{{}`   c  /}}|  `—–’  (  .    )| |_) ) _ _   ___  | ,_) ___ >        {{}}    _.’}}}}             /`. ) | ,__//’_` )/’ _ `| | /’,__) >       .-.–’   /–.}}}}           J  `.  | |  ( (_| || ( ) || |___, >     .’          `.}}           |    `.(_)  `__,_)(_) (_)`__(____/ >    /     |         }}           >    / >   /      F         }          / /–’ >  /  _.  /      |`.           / / > <     `.     `.  /    `._    _/ / >              /    / ‘   `._//_/ >   `.     ———-’.        /( | >     `.             )|`-.____/(_/ >      (`.   `–.    ’)|     / / >      (       .-   )|    / / >      (`  `-._ `   ‘)|   (_/ >      (_      `’   /’-. >     /  `———’/                                           w <– >    /    `.       J     L                                       c >   J`      `.     |     |                                       /`-i   >   |           /      |                                     -’>

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Yup. It’s confirmed: They just all say "that"… :)

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Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > Yup. It’s confirmed: > They just all say "that"… > :) > —

im hear online as usual. not reelee lonelee tho. just woke pfrum a nive nap during a thunderstormm and hace onlee eaten fud beginning with teh letter T today. mite do sum cleenin tonite and studee. — ———————————————————- Visit my newsgroup alt.fan.poopie-pants Askii Poopie for advice on just about anything. Some of it may actually be useful **************************************************** I’m mentally ill and I have a toilet plunger, any questions?–Poopie Pants **************************************************** When I grow up I am gonna changeee ma name to Poopie Pnats and be a troell on usenet and post silly tings.-Ms Poopie Pants *****************************************************             ____                    _       ____              __            / __ ____  ____  ____  (_)__   / __ ____ _____  / /______           / /_/ / __ / __ / __ / / _ / /_/ / __ `/ __ / __/ ___/          / ____/ /_/ / /_/ / /_/ / /  __// ____/ /_/ / / / / /_(__  )         /_/    ____/____/ .___/_/___//_/    __,_/_/ /_/__/____/                          /_/                                 __  ____________                    __/|_       / / / /_  __/ __ )       __/|_                   |    /_____ / / / / / / / __  |______|    /                  /_ __/_____// /_/ / / / / /_/ //_____/_ __|                   |/         ____/ /_/ /_____/        |/ ************************************************************************ ************* Lookie wat teh wonnurfil arteest Veronikaa made fer Poopie! Poopie needs a new sig! Power Poopie cleans up in the castle: _  ___  ___  ___  ___            ____   ___    ___   ____  ____    ___ _|__|__|__|__          |     /    /   |    l    j  /  _]  |||  |||  |||  |||  |          |  o  Y     YY     Y|  o  )|  T  /  [_  ||  ||  ||  ||  |          |   _/|  O  ||  O  ||   _/ |  | Y    _]  `-’  `-’  `-’  `-’  |          |  |( |     ||     ||  |   |  | |   [_            |///|  | .------. |  |  l(    !l     !|  |   j  l |     T           .{{{}}}}}. |/ ...and l__j   ___/  ___/ l__j  |____jl_____j          {{{} _  _]}}||  stay  |  )    )   ___                _         {{{}  " "|}}|/_  out! /     )    (  _`             ( )_        {{{}`   c  /}}|  `—–’  (  .    )| |_) ) _ _   ___  | ,_) ___        {{}}    _.’}}}}             /`. ) | ,__//’_` )/’ _ `| | /’,__)       .-.–’   /–.}}}}           J  `.  | |  ( (_| || ( ) || |___,     .’          `.}}           |    `.(_)  `__,_)(_) (_)`__(____/    /     |         }}           >    /   /      F         }          / /–’  /  _.  /      |`.           / / <     `.     `.  /    `._    _/ /              /    / ‘   `._//_/   `.     ———-’.        /( |     `.             )|`-.____/(_/      (`.   `–.    ’)|     / /      (       .-   )|    / /      (`  `-._ `   ‘)|   (_/      (_      `’   /’-.     /  `———’/                                           w <–    /    `.       J     L                                       c   J`      `.     |     |                                       /`-i     |           /      |                                     -’>

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"I have someone … …  it takes heart-aches ‘keeping’ that person, too. Don’t be fooled Twitter." ~ Raving "Art Is Work." ~ Milton Glazer

indeed inspiring As I have learned from my daughter … The artistic element is THERE. An artist is born with it. It simply ‘happens’. My daughter does not perceive her own artisitic ’signature’. This so called ’signature’ is a distortion. My daughter experiences it as ‘normal’. Nevertheless, the ‘best’ artists are the ones who are able to get on with the business of "Living life".  … And if they are lucky enough, they can do so with a full blown passion and exhuberence for their efforts. Surely, the most successful artists are predominantly this way? Artistic <block is ‘frustration’ with ineffectualness.   the <art angle only pertains to marketability of the ‘effort’. Condensing: ~~~~~~~ the ‘best’ of marriages are the ones that are ‘worked’ and used to the fullest ? Yes, Glazer is correct …

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – … these days, Too long, and nights fold Helplessly into dreams, unraveling a string Down through Places and Times I cannot truly say I’ve seen ~ But your insistence Endeavors me into a house I’ve surely somewhere Been. Leaded windows, An apse Where one Round table sits, A place I’ve seen you sit within, Brought me One winter night, the sight of you, To sit with you … A time standing, Sited ~

Your loneliness, isolation and lack of close ‘attachment’ is a very real predicament for anyone, Twittering. When I add to "this" consideration, your intellectual ability and finely honed ‘awareness’ for perspective.  … and what you have experienced in your travels with <such skill, I can appreciate that the thought of finding a partner is a rather daunting prospect! Nevertheless! When you write: Midway after our first engagement And the 6 years Lapsed away …

It just shouts at me 1) "started" a bit late? 2) a little light on ‘experience’? And at this juncture, I really cannot understand. In cyberspace, you seem to be a most sociable and personable individual. My <default presumption is that you would have so many friends and aquaintances that you would hardly have time for yourself! So why  so ‘lite’ in the personal relationship EXPERIENCED department? … is it a grrrl thing? Are there an aweful lot of really lonely ladies out there? I don’t know, Twitter Raving

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"I have someone … …  it takes heart-aches ‘keeping’ that person, too. Don’t be fooled Twitter." ~ Raving "Art Is Work." ~ Milton Glazer

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Hi group; Out of curiosity, this lurker would love to know what the purpose of this group is?  Without assuming anything, I’d like to hear from any of the members – It has been a long time since I’ve subscribed to newsgroups and it seems, no matter the subject – loneliness, headaches, add, cleaning, etc. it ends up being some hot debate issue – Just curious Jen

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"tbaywife" <tbayw…@yahoo.com> wrote in news:AqadnRM8-vGPdYDfRVn- t…@tbaytel.net: > Out of curiosity, this lurker would love to know what the purpose of this > group is?  

It’s where a self-selected group of lonely or wannabe lonelies discuss any and everything, with varying levels of wit, intelligence, creativity, grammar and spelling. — "Was that guy on TV a robot-monkey?"  -SeaLab2021

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Mad Mambo Master of Macedonia (n…@newb.com) writes: > "tbaywife" <tbayw…@yahoo.com> wrote in news:AqadnRM8-vGPdYDfRVn- > t…@tbaytel.net: >> Out of curiosity, this lurker would love to know what the purpose of this >> group is?   > It’s where a self-selected group of lonely or wannabe lonelies discuss any > and everything,

He meant "anything and everything", of course, in using this grammatically incorrect structure. As well, his use of the singular for "lonely" might be revised, and the plural form be favoured in both occurances of the word, if he absolutely wants to use the plural form to make "lonely", a word of abstract meaning, become a noun, making it less abstract and more "concrete" by making it take a forced plural (quite acceptable), rather than use the word in its first instance as an (aderbial in origin) adjective, thus singular, while using the plural form in the second instance, and a noun. It could be wondered if the use of "any" would not be a laspsus. Mambo seems, lately, to often be thinking about how he "doesn’t get any"…;-) ;-)  > with varying levels of wit, intelligence, creativity,   It’s okay, Mambo…We too have our better days….;-) > grammar and spelling.

Awww…Don’t be so hard on yourself…<Hugs Mambo>. Else, the Lord might punish-you-for-the-good-of-many, hehehe, and send you Graves disease!;-) Hi there, Delurker, This ng was created by someoen who finally visited last year, and said that he created it one day, and then forgot all about i, sort of thing. The ng being unmoderated, no matter what who would think it is, the fact remains that anything can and is done with it. Crossposts, trolling, one more place to try and get an audience, a place to play persona, etc, etc. In this day and age, the word "Can" often seems to be the moral commandment: "Just cause (I, you, they, we) can" seems to be the e-leitmotiv. Nonetheless this being said it remains however, the ng is used by the regular posters as a place to either talk about loneliness or to distract themself from it, or find ways to beat or prevent loneliness. It is all about "give or take support", where oen can post about anythign else than loneliness to take their mind off it, or post about loneliness, to try and find ideas and suggestions or feedback, simply, about loneliness. I am the typo one. I.e. the one that corrects them all day professionally, and who takes a break outsode work and does all the typos and grammatical massacre she migth happen to. Like nding sentences with a preposition and all that ugly nasty stuff, that offers some self sufficient ones a brak and a nice distraction, and a chance to claim to be knwoledgeable about the written word;-) The shot Mambo was taking then was meant for me:), if I have not seen oen single poster wroiting without mistakes in 7 years f beign on asl:). What brings me here is a condition called Graves disease, and the aftermat of an assault many many years ago, where survival made it and still makes it so that I can not afford a life "outside work". I get exausted just working each day. The condition makes it so that fine tremors give me oen fine time tryign to type, where to counteract it means to contract my muscles all day, five days a week, to earn a living and not see my career all be lost cause of the assault lingering physical effects. Outsiode work, I then just relax, dead beat, and make all the typos I make, without contracting my muscles for a change, so a to be able to put in a day the next morning:) By the same token, I just leave all grammatical and stylistic and semantics at work, in a large part too because people who are pompous about that stuff bore me to death. By projection then, I’d not want to impose it on anyone else:) I’m all for typos and encourage poeple to do them all they can! Otherwise I’d be jobless;-) Have a good day, and hope to see you around, Chloe  > > — > "Was that guy on TV a robot-monkey?"  -SeaLab2021

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Weren’t you waiting for her to come home so you could decide what to do about dinner?  This contradiction and your other responses sound all too familiar. As I have been reading your posts, I really think that there are some things you can do to improve your relationship.  The changes tend to be contradictory, but they have helped. But first, do you spend a lot of time saying "I’m sorry" or apologizing?  By a lot of time, more than 3 times a week. Also, how long has it been since you and your wife laughed together?

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -In article <jdhs01pnkl3i2gj3ssmaus0iubih238…@4ax.com>, res0r…@spamlessverizon.net wrote: >On 12 Feb 2005 07:07:32 -0800, "shinypenny" <shinypenny0…@yahoo.com> >wrote: >>jbrianchamberlin wrote: >>> If I do that, she’ll say my lips are too wet… I’m too warm… she’s >>> got a head ache… my hands are too cold…  she’s not in the >>> mood…or I don’t know..something. >>"When you respond to me like that, it gives me the impression you don’t >>love me very much. Honey, if that’s the case, why are we in this >>marriage together? I am unhappy and lonely and I need more in a >>relationship. It sucks to be married to someone who doesn’t like my >>kisses and snuggles. I am hoping you also want more in this >>relationship, and will work with me to find it again. If not, I don’t >>know what our alternative is. I can’t live like this forever. I’m dying >>inside. Aren’t you, too?" >I often wonder what the outcome of my marriage might have been if I >had said, plainly, "I can’t live like this forever.  I’m dying >inside".  Because I was, and I don’t know that I ever just came right >out and said it this way.  I think that the relationship was dead >before I knew I was dying.  I hope that’s not the case in Brian’s >situation.  :(

My docs referred me to psych to investigate medical problems, and the therapist concluded that i was "dying of loneliness".  When i let my husband (now-ex) know that, he said something like he’s busy and it’s not his problem. Takes two to make a marriage work, and that’s just a fact.

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -jbrianchamberlin <jbrianchamber…@adelphia.net> writes: > On 11 Feb 2005 15:18:35 -0800, "MsLiz" <care…@msn.com> wrote: > >Brian you have some typical symptoms of depression.  Your sleeping > >issues, your feeling of no feeling.  From knowing you for however long > >you started posting  here, I’ve heard lots of issues going on amongst > >you and your wife and I’ve seen some traits in you that could use some > >tweaking. > >It’s my guess that you’re suffering from the aftermath of the honeymoon > >stage of the relationship improving, having another baby, etc.  It’s > >like a house of cards falling down, first the frame, then the top, > >peice by peice, bit by bit.  Now you’re back to square one and you > >weren’t happy there. > I know what you mean and I can appreciate your words.  I’m not coming > from "that place" though. I know marriage can be hard. I know it’s not > all sex filled nights and romantic dinners.   Trust me when I say I > know this.  I love my kids..I love family life. I just want some > attention from my wife. I want her to enjoy me as much as I can enjoy > her. It’s ALWAYS been about that.  Tonight we’re home. The kids are > dancing and we’re drinking a bottle of wine.  Soon enough they’ll be > asleep and my wife will want to either watch her soap or go to bed. > That’s not the kind of marriage I signed on for.

From what you’ve written in the past,  I think it _is_ the kind of marriage you signed up for.  You just thought it would change for some reason. I find it more effective to plan in advance (with my wife) if I want to do something exciting with her in the evening.

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On 11 Feb 2005 16:58:21 -0800, Doug Anderson – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -<ethelthelogremovet…@yahoo.com> wrote: >jbrianchamberlin <jbrianchamber…@adelphia.net> writes: >> On 11 Feb 2005 15:18:35 -0800, "MsLiz" <care…@msn.com> wrote: >> >Brian you have some typical symptoms of depression.  Your sleeping >> >issues, your feeling of no feeling.  From knowing you for however long >> >you started posting  here, I’ve heard lots of issues going on amongst >> >you and your wife and I’ve seen some traits in you that could use some >> >tweaking. >> >It’s my guess that you’re suffering from the aftermath of the honeymoon >> >stage of the relationship improving, having another baby, etc.  It’s >> >like a house of cards falling down, first the frame, then the top, >> >peice by peice, bit by bit.  Now you’re back to square one and you >> >weren’t happy there. >> I know what you mean and I can appreciate your words.  I’m not coming >> from "that place" though. I know marriage can be hard. I know it’s not >> all sex filled nights and romantic dinners.   Trust me when I say I >> know this.  I love my kids..I love family life. I just want some >> attention from my wife. I want her to enjoy me as much as I can enjoy >> her. It’s ALWAYS been about that.  Tonight we’re home. The kids are >> dancing and we’re drinking a bottle of wine.  Soon enough they’ll be >> asleep and my wife will want to either watch her soap or go to bed. >> That’s not the kind of marriage I signed on for. >From what you’ve written in the past,  I think it _is_ the kind of >marriage you signed up for.  You just thought it would change for some >reason. >I find it more effective to plan in advance (with my wife) if I want >to do something exciting with her in the evening.

Yeah, Doug. I know.  I know. –Brian

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"jbrianchamberlin" <jbrianchamber…@adelphia.net> wrote in message

news:fpkq0198hpgku4a4gr1hmk7qf5bjksiiiq@4ax.com… > I know marriage can be hard. I know it’s not > all sex filled nights and romantic dinners.

It’s not?  :D

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In article <fpkq0198hpgku4a4gr1hmk7qf5bjksi…@4ax.com>, jbrianchamberlin <jbrianchamber…@adelphia.net> wrote: >I know what you mean and I can appreciate your words.  I’m not coming >from "that place" though. I know marriage can be hard. I know it’s not >all sex filled nights and romantic dinners.   Trust me when I say I >know this.  I love my kids..I love family life. I just want some >attention from my wife. I want her to enjoy me as much as I can enjoy >her. It’s ALWAYS been about that.  Tonight we’re home. The kids are >dancing and we’re drinking a bottle of wine.  Soon enough they’ll be >asleep and my wife will want to either watch her soap or go to bed. >That’s not the kind of marriage I signed on for.

I’m not familiar with your background, but can you simply ask your wife for some attention?  When i’m feeling a bit disconnected from my husband i’ll go get in between him and his newspaper and ask him to kiss me or something. Or sit on his lap when the tv show is at a commercial (never during the show!).  I guess it’s just about being a little aggressive to get the attention you want.   Could you just go over to her and suddenly kiss her on the back of the neck or something?  Give her a puppy-dog look and say "i need a hug from YOU?"  I don’t know, you just sound so sad.  

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On Fri, 11 Feb 2005 21:20:03 -0500, "JWB" <jwb3333__takeoutallthi…@excite.com> wrote: >"jbrianchamberlin" <jbrianchamber…@adelphia.net> wrote in message >news:fpkq0198hpgku4a4gr1hmk7qf5bjksiiiq@4ax.com… >> I know marriage can be hard. I know it’s not >> all sex filled nights and romantic dinners. >It’s not?  :D

Maybe I should have married you! =) –Brian

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On Sat, 12 Feb 2005 02:19:15 GMT, inky56NOS…@hellokitty.com (mL) wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->In article <fpkq0198hpgku4a4gr1hmk7qf5bjksi…@4ax.com>, jbrianchamberlin <jbrianchamber…@adelphia.net> wrote: >>I know what you mean and I can appreciate your words.  I’m not coming >>from "that place" though. I know marriage can be hard. I know it’s not >>all sex filled nights and romantic dinners.   Trust me when I say I >>know this.  I love my kids..I love family life. I just want some >>attention from my wife. I want her to enjoy me as much as I can enjoy >>her. It’s ALWAYS been about that.  Tonight we’re home. The kids are >>dancing and we’re drinking a bottle of wine.  Soon enough they’ll be >>asleep and my wife will want to either watch her soap or go to bed. >>That’s not the kind of marriage I signed on for. >I’m not familiar with your background, but can you simply ask your wife for >some attention?  When i’m feeling a bit disconnected from my husband i’ll go >get in between him and his newspaper and ask him to kiss me or something. >Or sit on his lap when the tv show is at a commercial (never during the >show!).  I guess it’s just about being a little aggressive to get the >attention you want.   Could you just go over to her and suddenly kiss her on >the back of the neck or something?  Give her a puppy-dog look and say "i need >a hug from YOU?"  I don’t know, you just sound so sad.  

If I do that, she’ll say my lips are too wet… I’m too warm… she’s got a head ache… my hands are too cold…  she’s not in the mood…or I don’t know..something.   I’m going to bed now… too much win…and too much gin. –Brian

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"jbrianchamberlin" <jbrianchamber…@adelphia.net> wrote in message

news:j9rq01t7fhq3vhpgtngiqe4crqlj0nfddm@4ax.com… > On Fri, 11 Feb 2005 21:20:03 -0500, "JWB" > <jwb3333__takeoutallthi…@excite.com> wrote: >>"jbrianchamberlin" <jbrianchamber…@adelphia.net> wrote in message >>news:fpkq0198hpgku4a4gr1hmk7qf5bjksiiiq@4ax.com… >>> I know marriage can be hard. I know it’s not >>> all sex filled nights and romantic dinners. >>It’s not?  :D > Maybe I should have married you! =)

well, we’d probably clean up in the couples bowling league :)

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I really understand where you’re coming from.  How sad it is that we’re both married and we feel so alone even when the person we love is at home. On Fri, 11 Feb 2005 17:28:14 -0500, jbrianchamberlin <jbrianchamber…@adelphia.net> wrote: >Iv ‘e been off the last two days to watch the kids.  I’m sitting here, >listening to them play in the other room, waiting for my wife to come >home from work so we can decide what we’re doing for dinner.  It’s >very odd that I’m feeling so alone with so much life going on around >me.  I’m not looking forward to her opening the door. I’m not dreading >it either. I just don’t feel anything except alone. What’s even more >sad,  is that feeling won’t go away when she gets here. >–Brian

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"Dreamspinner3" <dreamspinn…@softhome.net> wrote in message

news:18uq01pcm0mprjjsc9n9nm5bd00gs335b6@4ax.com… >I really understand where you’re coming from.  How sad it is that > we’re both married and we feel so alone even when the person we love > is at home.

didn’t you leave, Kim?

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"jbrianchamberlin" <jbrianchamber…@adelphia.net> wrote in message

news:fpkq0198hpgku4a4gr1hmk7qf5bjksiiiq@4ax.com… > On 11 Feb 2005 15:18:35 -0800, "MsLiz" <care…@msn.com> wrote: > I know what you mean and I can appreciate your words.  I’m not coming > from "that place" though. I know marriage can be hard. I know it’s not > all sex filled nights and romantic dinners.   Trust me when I say I > know this.  I love my kids..I love family life. I just want some > attention from my wife. I want her to enjoy me as much as I can enjoy > her. It’s ALWAYS been about that.  Tonight we’re home. The kids are > dancing and we’re drinking a bottle of wine.  Soon enough they’ll be > asleep and my wife will want to either watch her soap or go to bed. > That’s not the kind of marriage I signed on for. > –Brian

It’s not perfect, but consider the alternative – paying up to 50% of your check to her in child support and losing the house if one of you decide to do the BIG D.  With this thought in mind, it should help you feel better. =) Sometimes I get depressed also and think my situation sucks — then I compare it to the someone else and it’s not that bad.  I think being grateful for what you have helps your outlook.  Oh ya and weekly dating with the wife just the two of you is a good thing.

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On Sat, 12 Feb 2005 07:01:21 GMT, inky56NOS…@hellokitty.com (mL) wrote: >In article <l6hPd.6429$mG6.6…@newsread1.news.pas.earthlink.net>, "flinrius" <flinr…@earthlink.net> wrote: >>I thought I was supposed to get what the average households quantity of sex >>is — 2.5 times a week, right?  LOL  =) >wonder what the .5 sex is like….

Let me introduce you to my ex….. Lauri in WA I like my email spamless

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jbrianchamberlin wrote: > If I do that, she’ll say my lips are too wet… I’m too warm… she’s > got a head ache… my hands are too cold…  she’s not in the > mood…or I don’t know..something.

"When you respond to me like that, it gives me the impression you don’t love me very much. Honey, if that’s the case, why are we in this marriage together? I am unhappy and lonely and I need more in a relationship. It sucks to be married to someone who doesn’t like my kisses and snuggles. I am hoping you also want more in this relationship, and will work with me to find it again. If not, I don’t know what our alternative is. I can’t live like this forever. I’m dying inside. Aren’t you, too?" jen

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On 12 Feb 2005 07:07:32 -0800, "shinypenny" <shinypenny0…@yahoo.com> wrote: >jbrianchamberlin wrote: >> If I do that, she’ll say my lips are too wet… I’m too warm… she’s >> got a head ache… my hands are too cold…  she’s not in the >> mood…or I don’t know..something. >"When you respond to me like that, it gives me the impression you don’t >love me very much. Honey, if that’s the case, why are we in this >marriage together? I am unhappy and lonely and I need more in a >relationship. It sucks to be married to someone who doesn’t like my >kisses and snuggles. I am hoping you also want more in this >relationship, and will work with me to find it again. If not, I don’t >know what our alternative is. I can’t live like this forever. I’m dying >inside. Aren’t you, too?"

I often wonder what the outcome of my marriage might have been if I had said, plainly, "I can’t live like this forever.  I’m dying inside".  Because I was, and I don’t know that I ever just came right out and said it this way.  I think that the relationship was dead before I knew I was dying.  I hope that’s not the case in Brian’s situation.  :( Lauri in WA I like my email spamless

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In article <l6hPd.6429$mG6.6…@newsread1.news.pas.earthlink.net>, "flinrius" <flinr…@earthlink.net> wrote: >I thought I was supposed to get what the average households quantity of sex >is — 2.5 times a week, right?  LOL  =)

wonder what the .5 sex is like….

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"mL" <inky56NOS…@hellokitty.com> wrote in message

news:SRhPd.10842$Tt.9356@fed1read05… > In article <l6hPd.6429$mG6.6…@newsread1.news.pas.earthlink.net>, "flinrius" <flinr…@earthlink.net> wrote: > >I thought I was supposed to get what the average households quantity of sex > >is — 2.5 times a week, right?  LOL  =) > wonder what the .5 sex is like….

"I didn’t put it all the way in" ?

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mL wrote: > In article <l6hPd.6429$mG6.6…@newsread1.news.pas.earthlink.net>, > "flinrius" <flinr…@earthlink.net> wrote: >> I thought I was supposed to get what the average households quantity >> of sex is — 2.5 times a week, right?  LOL  =) > wonder what the .5 sex is like….

That is where those .5 kids come from. :)

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On Sat, 12 Feb 2005 06:10:02 GMT, "flinrius" <flinr…@earthlink.net> wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->"jbrianchamberlin" <jbrianchamber…@adelphia.net> wrote in message >news:fpkq0198hpgku4a4gr1hmk7qf5bjksiiiq@4ax.com… >> On 11 Feb 2005 15:18:35 -0800, "MsLiz" <care…@msn.com> wrote: >> I know what you mean and I can appreciate your words.  I’m not coming >> from "that place" though. I know marriage can be hard. I know it’s not >> all sex filled nights and romantic dinners.   Trust me when I say I >> know this.  I love my kids..I love family life. I just want some >> attention from my wife. I want her to enjoy me as much as I can enjoy >> her. It’s ALWAYS been about that.  Tonight we’re home. The kids are >> dancing and we’re drinking a bottle of wine.  Soon enough they’ll be >> asleep and my wife will want to either watch her soap or go to bed. >> That’s not the kind of marriage I signed on for. >> –Brian >It’s not perfect, but consider the alternative – paying up to 50% of your >check to her in child support and losing the house if one of you decide to >do the BIG D.  With this thought in mind, it should help you feel better. =) >Sometimes I get depressed also and think my situation sucks — then I >compare it to the someone else and it’s not that bad.  I think being >grateful for what you have helps your outlook.  Oh ya and weekly dating with >the wife just the two of you is a good thing.

What a great existence that is to think about.  And these days, I hardly think I’d be giving up 50% of anything.  We’d sell the house, everything would be paid off, we’d share custody.. I doubt lawyers would even be involved.  I’ve known a lot of people who have gotten divorced in the last 3 years and this is how it’s happened.  Besides, I’m not worried about that kind of stuff.  It’s just money and a house. –Brian

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"JWB" <jwb3333__takeoutallthi…@excite.com> wrote in message

news:3757elF5798dmU1@individual.net… > "jbrianchamberlin" <jbrianchamber…@adelphia.net> wrote in message > news:fpkq0198hpgku4a4gr1hmk7qf5bjksiiiq@4ax.com… >> I know marriage can be hard. I know it’s not >> all sex filled nights and romantic dinners. > It’s not?  :D

I thought I was supposed to get what the average households quantity of sex is — 2.5 times a week, right?  LOL  =)

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Brian you have some typical symptoms of depression.  Your sleeping issues, your feeling of no feeling.  From knowing you for however long you started posting  here, I’ve heard lots of issues going on amongst you and your wife and I’ve seen some traits in you that could use some tweaking. It’s my guess that you’re suffering from the aftermath of the honeymoon stage of the relationship improving, having another baby, etc.  It’s like a house of cards falling down, first the frame, then the top, peice by peice, bit by bit.  Now you’re back to square one and you weren’t happy there.

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On 11 Feb 2005 15:08:40 -0800, "m0smith" <m0sm…@gmail.com> wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->In a case like this, lonliness can be a sign of being in the comfort >zone for too long.  Break outside the comfort zone and take your wife >with you. >One idea that has worked: get the kids together and trace their foot >prints on pieces of paper and lay them out like some has walked from >the from front door to a room in the house where you can all hide.  At >the head of the foot prints make a sign that says, "Follow the >footprints".  Now make a simple card and have all the kids put "love >you mom".  Be sure you also sign it and that you put something about >how much you love her and how grateful you are for her. >When you hear her coming, run and hide at the end of the footprints. >Then jump out like its a surprise party  and yell "Welcome Home!!". >Let the kids give her the card.  It takes very little time for everyone >involved and  will help both of you leave the comfort zone of >lonliness. >Also, unexplained lonliness, if it carries on for a while can be a sign >of depression.  If it doesn’t pass, get it checked. >As for the deciding what to have for dinner, planning that out a week >in advance, or at least the day before, makes it so much nicer. >Matt >http://www.ferociousflirting.com >Romantic Tips for Married Couples

Thanks for the idea, but I don’t think it would help. She’d just ask why dinner wasn’t ready yet. –Brian

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On 11 Feb 2005 15:18:35 -0800, "MsLiz" <care…@msn.com> wrote: >Brian you have some typical symptoms of depression.  Your sleeping >issues, your feeling of no feeling.  From knowing you for however long >you started posting  here, I’ve heard lots of issues going on amongst >you and your wife and I’ve seen some traits in you that could use some >tweaking. >It’s my guess that you’re suffering from the aftermath of the honeymoon >stage of the relationship improving, having another baby, etc.  It’s >like a house of cards falling down, first the frame, then the top, >peice by peice, bit by bit.  Now you’re back to square one and you >weren’t happy there.

I know what you mean and I can appreciate your words.  I’m not coming from "that place" though. I know marriage can be hard. I know it’s not all sex filled nights and romantic dinners.   Trust me when I say I know this.  I love my kids..I love family life. I just want some attention from my wife. I want her to enjoy me as much as I can enjoy her. It’s ALWAYS been about that.  Tonight we’re home. The kids are dancing and we’re drinking a bottle of wine.  Soon enough they’ll be asleep and my wife will want to either watch her soap or go to bed. That’s not the kind of marriage I signed on for. –Brian

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In a case like this, lonliness can be a sign of being in the comfort zone for too long.  Break outside the comfort zone and take your wife with you. One idea that has worked: get the kids together and trace their foot prints on pieces of paper and lay them out like some has walked from the from front door to a room in the house where you can all hide.  At the head of the foot prints make a sign that says, "Follow the footprints".  Now make a simple card and have all the kids put "love you mom".  Be sure you also sign it and that you put something about how much you love her and how grateful you are for her. When you hear her coming, run and hide at the end of the footprints. Then jump out like its a surprise party  and yell "Welcome Home!!". Let the kids give her the card.  It takes very little time for everyone involved and  will help both of you leave the comfort zone of lonliness. Also, unexplained lonliness, if it carries on for a while can be a sign of depression.  If it doesn’t pass, get it checked. As for the deciding what to have for dinner, planning that out a week in advance, or at least the day before, makes it so much nicer. Matt http://www.ferociousflirting.com Romantic Tips for Married Couples

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Iv ‘e been off the last two days to watch the kids.  I’m sitting here, listening to them play in the other room, waiting for my wife to come home from work so we can decide what we’re doing for dinner.  It’s very odd that I’m feeling so alone with so much life going on around me.  I’m not looking forward to her opening the door. I’m not dreading it either. I just don’t feel anything except alone. What’s even more sad,  is that feeling won’t go away when she gets here. –Brian

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -"Hot Pnats" (myblowupprejecte…@blowuppp.com) writes: > In article <cn0ao1$k2…@theodyn.ncf.ca>, bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA > says… >> How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? >> Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? > i do something enjoyable every day; talk to mah sweetie. > I werk a lot so it is hard to fit other things in. > I exercise and that is enjoyable. >> And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign they are >> lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. > aww how come sexxx doesn’t count?

Woudl you talk chocolate on a diet ng? Then why talk about sex on a loneliness ng…?;-) Consideration for others. That’s why:) ;-) Saying "I play games" can make ohers give it a try. But "I have sex three times a day" might not offer anyone that is alone and lonely much of a distraction….  > >> Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as enjoyable >> time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) > I hace hobbies. I’m an artist. I paint and draw and used to blow glass.

Did you paint and draw since last Friday? Blow glass sicne last Friday? Just tryign to see if we can have a closer look at our habits, for each ouself, if in sharing, where maybe we can have new ideas of hobbies or even realize that what hobbies we think we have we have not practiced in X time, say. >> Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. answerign >> without checking for real what you do for enjoying yourself in a week, or >> answrign preaching about how/what/how much one shoudl do what to enjoy >> themself, how about each one of you simply flatly says without frills  what >> he/she did for enjoyment in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*?? >> —

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > OB (nevilemo…@yahoo.com) writes: > > bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA (Eleonore Beaudoin) wrote in message > > <news:cn0ao1$k2q$1@theodyn.ncf.ca>… > >> How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? > >> Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? > >> And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign > they are >> lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. > >> Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as > enjoyable >> time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) > >> Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. > answerign >> without checking for real what you do for enjoying > yourself in a week, or >> answrign preaching about how/what/how much > one shoudl do what to enjoy >> themself, how about each one of you > simply flatly says without frills  what >> he/she did for enjoyment > in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*?? > > I delight in Baths. > > Also, strangling Kojak, listening to Colombian music, talking to > > Elsa on the phone, eating cheese, and (at night, in bed) re-reading > > selected passages from "Down With Skool". > > That’s it, really. > > You? :) > Ah, how nice to ask!:) > Well….. > :Let’s see. Last Friday I …I am not sure but I think I maybe felt > yuk.  Last Saturday I rememebr I slept on and off all day, and when > awake, starred at the walls, completely, absolutely fogged out. > Sunday I washed floors and installed carpets. Monday morning, I went

very busy!! > to work, came back in the dark, seing nothign and risking my life and > that of others. Tuesday I told my boss Id get in earlier due to that, > so I coudl leve when it is still light. I then had to o the hour > switch and got up early on Wednesday.  Rushed all week at work.

what type of werk do you do? > Thursday was off and spent again in the complete zombified state, > starrign at walls. Friday today went to work, after sleeping only > from 7 P.M. till 11, then 4:30 A.M. to 6:15, but tossing and turning > that last hour endlessly.  Oh, I changd the bord cage Wednesday > evening, was supposed to clean aquarium filter Thursday and do > laundry and sort clothes to give away, but was too blergh.

ahhh telle me abowt yer birdde and feesh! > And nwo here I am. > Distraction this week has been watching Crossign Jordan, a show I > like, a la Dr Marcus Welby, save that I really like the writing with > this one.  Humour a la macabre at times, and characters that are well

heard of it but havent seen it. > done/played, thme in most shows, etc. BUT it plays at 11 P.M. and 3 > A.M. where I then tend to no sleep enough to catch it (vcr is kaput). > My breaks other than that for enjoyment are asl, where lately that ahs > been quite…hm. Boring. I.e. lots of moaning against women, which I > have nothign to participate about, and lots of crosspostigns from

teh usual stuff to wade through :P > people that don’t even read here where then it is a waste of tiem to > answer those. > I had a bath Thursday and planned to read in there and enjoy the > moment, but seing the spots on the ceilign and the complete awful > state of the walls and ceiling paint just nded up makign me wanna get > out of there on the double.

Yikes!! > Nah, the emnjoyment this week was for a short time, Monday and > Tuesday, sleepign normally, after realizing I had never adaptd to the > change in hours sicne last spring, and until I had to switch my work > hours Wednesday which sent me into "jet lag" again:(. > I was asking poeple what they did for enjoyment, exactly to have more > thoughts and "contact" with the fact there is enjoyable stuff around. > Been pretty much stuggling non stop to get a life back sicne 15 years > now….

so what do you do for enjoyment? > Oh, last night I had a moment of meditTIN AND MEDIUMNITY THAT WAS JUST > HMMMM-HHHHMMM!:) > OOOPS FOR CAPS. sULKING THEM, AS ALWAYS. > c > —

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -"Hot Pnats" (Sl…@slorp.cum.oh!) writes: > Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >> OB (nevilemo…@yahoo.com) writes: >> > bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA (Eleonore Beaudoin) wrote in message >> > <news:cn0ao1$k2q$1@theodyn.ncf.ca>… >> >> How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? >> >> Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? >> >> And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign >> they are >> lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. >> >> Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as >> enjoyable >> time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) >> >> Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. >> answerign >> without checking for real what you do for enjoying >> yourself in a week, or >> answrign preaching about how/what/how much >> one shoudl do what to enjoy >> themself, how about each one of you >> simply flatly says without frills  what >> he/she did for enjoyment >> in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*?? >> > I delight in Baths. >> > Also, strangling Kojak, listening to Colombian music, talking to >> > Elsa on the phone, eating cheese, and (at night, in bed) re-reading >> > selected passages from "Down With Skool". >> > That’s it, really. >> > You? :) >> Ah, how nice to ask!:) >> Well….. >> :Let’s see. Last Friday I …I am not sure but I think I maybe felt >> yuk.  Last Saturday I rememebr I slept on and off all day, and when >> awake, starred at the walls, completely, absolutely fogged out. >> Sunday I washed floors and installed carpets. Monday morning, I went > very busy!!

Catching up after months of being unable to do anything with the flu or whatever other bug(s).  > >> to work, came back in the dark, seing nothign and risking my life and >> that of others. Tuesday I told my boss Id get in earlier due to that, >> so I coudl leve when it is still light. I then had to o the hour >> switch and got up early on Wednesday.  Rushed all week at work. > what type of werk do you do?

Writing editing translating. At this time, in the legal filed. I do the errata on court decisions, revised the thousands that never were checked on the Internet (they are absolutely horrible transaltions), revise the website, and make sure all decisions are sent to the Translation Bureau. We do not transalte them ourself, as there is about 1,000 a month, but wee edit them. We are tryign to get them to send us the decisions to revise before they get them translated and posted, but judges are very very touchy for most, which makes it tricky. So we started having the registrars being them to us to edit, where we correct what we can in all pages that are not the signature one, and even on the signature page so long as it only is grammar or typos that can be corrected without altering the page. If worse than that, we return them to the judges to resign. Most of the job should consist of revising the published decisions on the Internet, starting at year 2001-2002, but we got so busy that we barely coudl touch them in the last two months, since they added the office’s website editing to our tasks, and the correcting th decisions before the registrars have them processed and sent to translation. We are only two to do this, and given the number of decisions per month, heh…Does not go too fast. >> Thursday was off and spent again in the complete zombified state, >> starrign at walls. Friday today went to work, after sleeping only >> from 7 P.M. till 11, then 4:30 A.M. to 6:15, but tossing and turning >> that last hour endlessly.  Oh, I changd the bord cage Wednesday >> evening, was supposed to clean aquarium filter Thursday and do >> laundry and sort clothes to give away, but was too blergh. > ahhh telle me abowt yer birdde and feesh!

I have five birds and one 14-16 inches turtle, no fish. The turtle is named "Tu’tle", original, innit:). I have one pigeon, loose in the house (but nesting all the times save 5 days a month), named Titan. Found her poisoned and dying in my hands, she catually died and I brought her back. Her story can be foudn in "I found a pigeon!!" A post I made in asl with those wpords in it anyway. I was very lucky to save her. She was just a baby…Barely flying. Then the other birds are a cockatiel someoen found in the wild (sic) and sold me for 16 bucks:). I named him Tweedleleedee. Then three budgies, two are one year old: Squeaks and Chelsey. Another is thre months old or so, Zazoo.  >  >> And nwo here I am. >> Distraction this week has been watching Crossign Jordan, a show I >> like, a la Dr Marcus Welby, save that I really like the writing with >> this one.  Humour a la macabre at times, and characters that are well > heard of it but havent seen it.

I dunno why they play it at impossible hours. Each time I like somethign, it happens to be the show they move around and use to sort o patch their programming:(. Plays on A&E Monday to Thursday at 11 P.M. and 3 A.M.:(.  > >> done/played, thme in most shows, etc. BUT it plays at 11 P.M. and 3 >> A.M. where I then tend to no sleep enough to catch it (vcr is kaput). >> My breaks other than that for enjoyment are asl, where lately that ahs >> been quite…hm. Boring. I.e. lots of moaning against women, which I >> have nothign to participate about, and lots of crosspostigns from > teh usual stuff to wade through :P

I sometyimes peak in in case the thread title would not have changed while the contents woudl have. The problem is that people that just happen to read here think it is a brand new never touched topic, while the regulars know it by heart. Mostly it is crosspostings anyway…Not even asl-ers for most. Where even if one wanted to reply to it in asl, they;d not even get an answer, the posters not even reading in here.  > >> people that don’t even read here where then it is a waste of tiem to >> answer those. >> I had a bath Thursday and planned to read in there and enjoy the >> moment, but seing the spots on the ceilign and the complete awful >> state of the walls and ceiling paint just nded up makign me wanna get >> out of there on the double. > Yikes!!

Yup:) I managed to ignore them yesterday:) The washroom is the big job I work to get to:) It needs repainted so bad, and with a paint that allows better washign too. No fan, so it gets quite damp in there…. I like my baths and showers VERY hot:), if I lately cooled down on the showers, learnign that apparently lukewarm showers help white cells…  > >> Nah, the emnjoyment this week was for a short time, Monday and >> Tuesday, sleepign normally, after realizing I had never adaptd to the >> change in hours sicne last spring, and until I had to switch my work >> hours Wednesday which sent me into "jet lag" again:(. >> I was asking poeple what they did for enjoyment, exactly to have more >> thoughts and "contact" with the fact there is enjoyable stuff around. >> Been pretty much stuggling non stop to get a life back sicne 15 years >> now…. > so what do you do for enjoyment?

Nothing, which is why I am askign poeple:) But I plan to do crafts when I can find time next weekend, no laundry being needed then:), and enjoying a cleaner and cleaner house, if I can keep the work up:) I have not got to the floors nor carpets this weekend…. Only so mnay hours in a  day. Tonight, I plan to go to bed early to start the week okay. Then I must address the aquarium serious problem…. I fed my turtle and dogs the same perfect dog food for ages, and now they donlt make it anymore:(, where if the dogs put up with different kinds -nt all-, the turtle does NOT eat much of the new stuff I tried, and it gets the water oily and messy. So I will ahve to buy tons of dog food bags ntil I find soemthign that does not make the water go bad:(. They shoudl make it illegal for companies to stop a brand that way, before the dogs that grew up on it passed away f old age:(. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->> Oh, last night I had a moment of meditTIN AND MEDIUMNITY THAT WAS JUST >> HMMMM-HHHHMMM!:) >> OOOPS FOR CAPS. sULKING THEM, AS ALWAYS. >> c >> — > — > ———————————————————————— > Ms Pnoopie Pnats Usnet Legend > http://mspoopiepants.blogspot.com/

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > that.  >> > >> Are you aware that a marriage where thre never was sex is null and > >> void after three days? > > damn i could hace bailed!! > LOL:) > > what about teh honeymoon? if there iz none? that IS pretty sad > > isn’t it. > Sure thing. But if no senx in at least the forst thre days, and if > none until the person asks for annulment, it remains a void contract > that can be voided. If sex at any point after that, too late…

if may hace bean 3 days. I can’t remember. that was 20 years ago. :) > >> Honest!:) > >> You maybe mean that sex was a rarity or a mother’s day present > sort of >> thing, a sacrifice to your vile low instincts and whatever > else he >> maybe called it;-), hehhahahaha:) > > it wuz documented on usenet until i left him. we are talkin 2 tymes > > a yeer. :( according to doctor cantgetenuff, that iz sexless. > Not sex-less sicne there was sex. But certainly, we can say here was > definitely not too much of a god thing in there L:)

:) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> >> People and sex, really. > >> Imagine, after that, if you were in their shoes. Being with a > partner >> that never says they had enough. Always finding sex > available, handy, >> the time a year they feel like it. Must be > paradise for those!:) And >> did you cook for him too? > >> Bring his slippers did-his-laudry-washed-his-castel-and-horse?;-) > > of course. > Wanna come over and visit, say, for oh, three years minus oen day?? It > *definitely* woud be sexless:). But I got a tabel to sand and > revarnish ad keep polished after that, and my feet tend to require > slippers in this cold floor house:). I say three years minus one ay, > cause after that I’d have to give you 50 % of all I owned;-) :) :):).

:) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->  >> Imagien if you ahd lived that in his palce? Wowie!:) Some have it > >> all:) I think I will order mysefl a wife with no sex interest. This > >> way the laundry and meals and house cleanign will be done, and the > >> rag better not ask ME for sex sicne I am hetero! > >> I think they have those sex-less maids in catalogs, don’t > >> hey? You can even chose the model and the eyeshape;-). > >> Even dishwashers donlt come in that many shades!;-) > > those fancee silver ones are nice. next time i moove im getting a > > place with a dishwarsher. > He probably misses his dishwasher as well;-) > Yeah, I would love on =e of those too. (People please take not, XMas > is coming L:)) > I don’t mind the color. Well, make it sober, okay? Like white or > stainless steal or almond at the limit, pulase no gold and no > green!!L:)

yes!! keep a new dishwasher in mind for Chloe!!! I’m not picky at this point. any dishwasher would be great! > >> Kidding aside…. > >> Lordie lord….Go figure what some think marriage is all about. I > >> mean…like we were in it for the darn furniture polishing;-):):) > > LOL! maide and verbal punchin bag were my main duties > Aww, and you left the poor thing without those necessities???? > I hope you compensated him financially for all that cruelty;-) ;-) L:)

LOL! the poor thing is suffering so without me. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> >> >> >> Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting > as >> >> enjoyable >> time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) > >> >> > I hace hobbies. I’m an artist. I paint and draw and used to > blow >> >> > glass. > >> >> Did you paint and draw since last Friday? > >> >> Blow glass sicne last Friday? > >> > no, not at all. :( work has been consuming my life. > >> Then I order youto enjoy youself L:) > > AYE AYE!!! ill get mah paints and pnencils owt. i solde alle mah > > glass equipment. > :( That’s sad, It is back into a big thing now, everyoen wants to buy > some.

yes it is very popular now. > Say, how much does it cost to buy that equipment? That is soemthign I > think I would love doing!! (There you go, dear friends: mor XMas gifts > suggestions L:)) > Might be some on the net for sale..? Maybe you coud find soem at a > good price…?

you can get a hothead torch and beginner package for less than $200. You just need a place that can be well ventilated as the CO and fumes can be bad. I have no place to do it now since I live in a rental. > >> Why not make a drawing and mail it to Vike? > > thats a gud idea. :) > And mayeb we can get him to send you somethign he woudl also do as a > hobby…  Like…erm…Hey, Vike, what do you do for hobbies??? > (Better ask: you might not want a rebuilt chevy motor in your living > room:):))

I read him this post in our latest chat. He didn’t say he would be bringing a motor to my living room. :-) so i guess that is a good thing.:) > >> I;d have suggested to blow glass, but that coud get his mind lost > on >> the "blow" part and if you want to train him to polish > furniture, >> that might not be a good idea;-) hehehe:) > > teh furniture can stay dusty. ;-) he he he > Then uou have to get that galsss blwing equipment again, and think of > making him he most artistically, tasteful yet unequivocally evocative > piece of a…rt you ever did!!:)

I wish I could. Have no room to do it here. Plus it would be another $5000 investment to replace what I had. Plus I haven’t blown in a year. I may have forgotten how. :( I will most likely paint something for him from my heart. > Mayeb youc an go to a place where you coud make it? Is there such > places where you live? > Right on time for XMas, too!:) > C > —

yes there is a place I can go to where I used to teach it. I was thinking of sending myself to australia would be a good present. :) I asked him to come here. :) im planning to go there in the spring. I have a krimasss present in mind for him. — ———————————————————————— Ms Pnoopie Pnats Usnet Legend http://mspoopiepants.blogspot.com/

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -"Hot Pnats" (Sl…@slorp.cum.oh!) writes: > Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >> "Hot Pnats" (Sl…@slorp.cum.oh!) writes: >> > Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >> >> "Hot Pnats" (myblowupprejecte…@blowuppp.com) writes: >> >> > In article <cn0ao1$k2…@theodyn.ncf.ca>, >> bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA >> > says… >> >> >> How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? >> >> >> Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? >> >> > i do something enjoyable every day; talk to mah sweetie. >> >> > I werk a lot so it is hard to fit other things in. >> >> > I exercise and that is enjoyable. >> >> >> And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign >> >> they are >> lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. >> >> > aww how come sexxx doesn’t count? >> >> Woudl you talk chocolate on a diet ng? >> >> Then why talk about sex on a loneliness ng…?;-) >> >> Consideration for others. That’s why:) >> >> ;-) >> >> Saying "I play games" can make ohers give it a try. But "I have sex >> >> three times a day" might not offer anyone that is alone and lonely >> >> much of a distraction…. >> > that makes sense. i had a sexless marriage so i can understand that. >> Are you aware that a marriage where thre never was sex is null and >> void after three days? > damn i could hace bailed!!

LOL:) > what about teh honeymoon? if there iz none? that IS pretty sad isn’t it.

Sure thing. But if no senx in at least the forst thre days, and if none until the person asks for annulment, it remains a void contract that can be voided. If sex at any point after that, too late… >> Honest!:) >> You maybe mean that sex was a rarity or a mother’s day present sort of >> thing, a sacrifice to your vile low instincts and whatever else he >> maybe called it;-), hehhahahaha:) > it wuz documented on usenet until i left him. we are talkin 2 tymes a > yeer. :( according to doctor cantgetenuff, that iz sexless.

Not sex-less sicne there was sex. But certainly, we can say here was definitely not too much of a god thing in there L:)  > >> People and sex, really. >> Imagine, after that, if you were in their shoes. Being with a partner >> that never says they had enough. Always finding sex available, handy, >> the time a year they feel like it. Must be paradise for those!:) And >> did you cook for him too? >> Bring his slippers did-his-laudry-washed-his-castel-and-horse?;-) > of course.

Wanna come over and visit, say, for oh, three years minus oen day?? It *definitely* woud be sexless:). But I got a tabel to sand and revarnish ad keep polished after that, and my feet tend to require slippers in this cold floor house:). I say three years minus one ay, cause after that I’d have to give you 50 % of all I owned;-) :) :):).  >  >> Imagien if you ahd lived that in his palce? Wowie!:) Some have it >> all:) I think I will order mysefl a wife with no sex interest. This >> way the laundry and meals and house cleanign will be done, and the >> rag better not ask ME for sex sicne I am hetero! >> I think they have those sex-less maids in catalogs, don’t >> hey? You can even chose the model and the eyeshape;-). >> Even dishwashers donlt come in that many shades!;-) > those fancee silver ones are nice. next time i moove im getting a place > with a dishwarsher.

He probably misses his dishwasher as well;-) Yeah, I would love on =e of those too. (People please take not, XMas is coming L:)) I don’t mind the color. Well, make it sober, okay? Like white or stainless steal or almond at the limit, pulase no gold and no green!!L:) >> Kidding aside…. >> Lordie lord….Go figure what some think marriage is all about. I >> mean…like we were in it for the darn furniture polishing;-):):) > LOL! maide and verbal punchin bag were my main duties

Aww, and you left the poor thing without those necessities???? I hope you compensated him financially for all that cruelty;-) ;-) L:) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->> >> >> Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as >> >> enjoyable >> time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) >> >> > I hace hobbies. I’m an artist. I paint and draw and used to blow >> >> > glass. >> >> Did you paint and draw since last Friday? >> >> Blow glass sicne last Friday? >> > no, not at all. :( work has been consuming my life. >> Then I order youto enjoy youself L:) > AYE AYE!!! ill get mah paints and pnencils owt. i solde alle mah glass > equipment.

:( That’s sad, It is back into a big thing now, everyoen wants to buy some. Say, how much does it cost to buy that equipment? That is soemthign I think I would love doing!! (There you go, dear friends: mor XMas gifts suggestions L:)) Might be some on the net for sale..? Maybe you coud find soem at a good price…? >> Why not make a drawing and mail it to Vike? > thats a gud idea. :)

And mayeb we can get him to send you somethign he woudl also do as a hobby… Like…erm…Hey, Vike, what do you do for hobbies??? (Better ask: you might not want a rebuilt chevy motor in your living room:):)) >> I;d have suggested to blow glass, but that coud get his mind lost on >> the "blow" part and if you want to train him to polish furniture, >> that might not be a good idea;-) hehehe:) > teh furniture can stay dusty. ;-) he he he

Then uou have to get that galsss blwing equipment again, and think of making him he most artistically, tasteful yet unequivocally evocative piece of a…rt you ever did!!:) Mayeb youc an go to a place where you coud make it? Is there such places where you live? Right on time for XMas, too!:) C —

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > "Hot Pnats" (Sl…@slorp.cum.oh!) writes: > > Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > >> "Hot Pnats" (myblowupprejecte…@blowuppp.com) writes: > >> > In article <cn0ao1$k2…@theodyn.ncf.ca>, > bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA >> > says… > >> >> How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? > >> >> Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? > >> > i do something enjoyable every day; talk to mah sweetie. > >> > I werk a lot so it is hard to fit other things in. > >> > I exercise and that is enjoyable. > >> >> And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign > >> they are >> lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. > >> > aww how come sexxx doesn’t count? > >> Woudl you talk chocolate on a diet ng? > >> Then why talk about sex on a loneliness ng…?;-) > >> Consideration for others. That’s why:) > >> ;-) > >> Saying "I play games" can make ohers give it a try. But "I have sex > >> three times a day" might not offer anyone that is alone and lonely > >> much of a distraction…. > > that makes sense. i had a sexless marriage so i can understand that. > Are you aware that a marriage where thre never was sex is null and > void after three days?

damn i could hace bailed!! what about teh honeymoon? if there iz none? that IS pretty sad isn’t it. > Honest!:) > You maybe mean that sex was a rarity or a mother’s day present sort of > thing, a sacrifice to your vile low instincts and whatever else he > maybe called it;-), hehhahahaha:)

it wuz documented on usenet until i left him. we are talkin 2 tymes a yeer. :( according to doctor cantgetenuff, that iz sexless. > People and sex, really. > Imagine, after that, if you were in their shoes. Being with a partner > that never says they had enough. Always finding sex available, handy, > the time a year they feel like it. Must be paradise for those!:) And > did you cook for him too? > Bring his slippers did-his-laudry-washed-his-castel-and-horse?;-)

of course. > Imagien if you ahd lived that in his palce? Wowie!:) Some have it > all:) I think I will order mysefl a wife with no sex interest. This > way the laundry and meals and house cleanign will be done, and the > rag better not ask ME for sex sicne I am hetero! > I think they have those sex-less maids in catalogs, don’t > hey? You can even chose the model and the eyeshape;-). > Even dishwashers donlt come in that many shades!;-)

those fancee silver ones are nice. next time i moove im getting a place with a dishwarsher. > Kidding aside…. > Lordie lord….Go figure what some think marriage is all about. I > mean…like we were in it for the darn furniture polishing;-):):)

LOL! maide and verbal punchin bag were my main duties – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> >> >> Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as > >> enjoyable >> time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) > >> > I hace hobbies. I’m an artist. I paint and draw and used to blow > >> > glass. > >> Did you paint and draw since last Friday? > >> Blow glass sicne last Friday? > > no, not at all. :( work has been consuming my life. > Then I order youto enjoy youself L:)

AYE AYE!!! ill get mah paints and pnencils owt. i solde alle mah glass equipment. > Why not make a drawing and mail it to Vike?

thats a gud idea. :) > I;d have suggested to blow glass, but that coud get his mind lost on > the "blow" part and if you want to train him to polish furniture, > that might not be a good idea;-) hehehe:)

teh furniture can stay dusty. ;-) he he he > >> Just tryign to see if we can have a closer look at our habits, for > >> each ouself, if

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -"Hot Pnats" (Sl…@slorp.cum.oh!) writes: > Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >> "Hot Pnats" (myblowupprejecte…@blowuppp.com) writes: >> > In article <cn0ao1$k2…@theodyn.ncf.ca>, bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA >> > says… >> >> How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? >> >> Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? >> > i do something enjoyable every day; talk to mah sweetie. >> > I werk a lot so it is hard to fit other things in. >> > I exercise and that is enjoyable. >> >> And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign >> they are >> lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. >> > aww how come sexxx doesn’t count? >> Woudl you talk chocolate on a diet ng? >> Then why talk about sex on a loneliness ng…?;-) >> Consideration for others. That’s why:) >> ;-) >> Saying "I play games" can make ohers give it a try. But "I have sex >> three times a day" might not offer anyone that is alone and lonely >> much of a distraction…. > that makes sense. i had a sexless marriage so i can understand that.

Are you aware that a marriage where thre never was sex is null and void after three days? Honest!:) You maybe mean that sex was a rarity or a mother’s day present sort of thing, a sacrifice to your vile low instincts and whatever else he maybe called it;-), hehhahahaha:) People and sex, really. Imagine, after that, if you were in their shoes. Being with a partner that never says they had enough. Always finding sex available, handy, the time a year they feel like it. Must be paradise for those!:) And did you cook for him too? Bring his slippers did-his-laudry-washed-his-castel-and-horse?;-) Imagien if you ahd lived that in his palce? Wowie!:) Some have it all:) I think I will order mysefl a wife with no sex interest. This way the laundry and meals and house cleanign will be done, and the rag better not ask ME for sex sicne I am hetero! I think they have those sex-less maids in catalogs, don’t hey? You can even chose the model and the eyeshape;-). Even dishwashers donlt come in that many shades!;-) Kidding aside…. Lordie lord….Go figure what some think marriage is all about. I mean…like we were in it for the darn furniture polishing;-):):)  > >> >> Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as >> enjoyable >> time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) >> > I hace hobbies. I’m an artist. I paint and draw and used to blow >> > glass. >> Did you paint and draw since last Friday? >> Blow glass sicne last Friday? > no, not at all. :( work has been consuming my life.

Then I order youto enjoy youself L:) Why not make a drawing and mail it to Vike? I;d have suggested to blow glass, but that coud get his mind lost on the "blow" part and if you want to train him to polish furniture, that might not be a good idea;-) hehehe:)  >  > – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->> Just tryign to see if we can have a closer look at our habits, for >> each ouself, if in sharing, where maybe we can have new ideas of >> hobbies or even realize that what hobbies we think we have we have >> not practiced in X time, say. >> >> Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. >> answerign >> without checking for real what you do for enjoying >> yourself in a week, or >> answrign preaching about how/what/how much >> one shoudl do what to enjoy >> themself, how about each one of you >> simply flatly says without frills  what >> he/she did for enjoyment >> in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*??  >> >> >> — >> —

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"sumire" (sumire_kawab…@nospam.yahoo.co.uk) writes: > Normally I can enjoy myself in most of the things I do: > walk along a corridor and just be happy to walk straight and upright, > enjoy the sound of my steps, enjoy the pace,…you know?

…………Awww, Sumi, that made me smile so huuuge…..!:) What a beautiful image and reminder…..of hwo to appreciate what we have:)  And there are so > many moments of reverie and enjoyment every day: when emptying the compost > I enjoy the walk though my garden during each season and every weather.

True, I do enjoy moments liek that in each weekdy. I see poepole that stand there outdoos, still and bored. I look around, notice th colors and leaves and branches (they all lost their laves today around our building, but only on ne side of the street, and only one geranium still had live branches, all others had died frozen overnight….Felt like saving the lil thing but saw it was a new hubrid, a buch, not a plant…I.e. coudl not take any roos, and that as just a sort of branch thing from it that never woudl ahve made it alone:(). Italkd to a bird today too at work:) It came to ask me if I had brad for it, and I had none. But I tld him he did not have to be scared, that I talked bird:), and loved bods. So he almost popped on my lap, only to leave when a curious woman came close to watch it….)… > There are always sensations that are wonderful: smells, sounds, things to > see: colours, shapes, structures, interesting people to watch, esp. faces > that tell a lot. > Yet I am a child of the sun and when the days are getting shorter and cold > and wet and grey then a strange sadness creeps up: call it the November > blues.

I did somethign more today, given the November blues. I cheated on the budget and got some things to mayeb try and do crafts this weekend or int he comign while. Coudl mayeb save on XMas presents this way, and I enjoy doign that when tiem allows it….  > > So I’m having the November blues at the moment and I’m not a complete > masochist to find this *enjoyable* :-(

Like crafts? Why not try and do a little thing for XMas for each of the kids and the hubby? Just let your hands work at it and find the ideas:). It can take care of the blues soemtime,s in November:) I also bought the most hilarious shark:):) It is a stuffed toy, where we have this trdition of me givign my son stuffed toys still. I din know if he hated it or not, but his friend told him that that was ot fair hat only him had some each year:), where I now by one for each of them. They apparently have this stuff toy thign where they make the most hilarious compsition they can, settign them all on the bed in the silliest position or confernce, circus, etc, etc. Anyway. That shark toy is not very nice, but is a puppet as well, where puttign my hand inside and moving the mouth, I realized it made the most hilarious "boinnnng" noise you coudl not even imagine. I laughed out loud hearing it and knew I wanted that, just for the laughter. t the cash, the cashier accidentally pressed on the head of the shark and heard the noise,a pologized, and yet coudl nt reist on three diffrent times squising it again on purpose, and woudl laugh hysterically ech time. By the third time everyoen in line and the other cashier was puffing with laughter:). So I know thatw as a good buy. Now if it can stil work until XMas:). For hsi frind I got a cow, with long tiiiiny legs, a bug soft pink belly:), and back spots on an otherwise white plushy body:). I had decided that tis year,t he friend woudl get the prettist plush toy, as I noticed th face last eyar after my son also opened his plsh toy present,where I seemed to ntice the friend be disapointed, findign kiddo;s plus toy (a monkey with bare buttcks:), the only spot with no plush and all pink:) nicer than the prvious oen opened by the frind. Sigh… So the shark is really dull lookign, ntihign really out of this world, buy th sound makes it hilarious:), where the cow is just wowie delightfully wow pretty cute:) The friend’s parents are attorneys o soemthign of the serious kind that always make serious gift, where then our silliness at Xmas time makesit nice and different I guess:). Just more kid like stuff:) And of course I make them both a stocking, or use a store bought oen but stiff it with silly things like batteries, toothbishes and tons of spoilt brat candies:). I thought fo you today, Sumi, as I walked…. And sent waves your way….:) C  > > Else I’m okay > Sumi

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Normally I can enjoy myself in most of the things I do: walk along a corridor and just be happy to walk straight and upright, enjoy the sound of my steps, enjoy the pace,…you know? And there are so many moments of reverie and enjoyment every day: when emptying the compost I enjoy the walk though my garden during each season and every weather. There are always sensations that are wonderful: smells, sounds, things to see: colours, shapes, structures, interesting people to watch, esp. faces that tell a lot. Yet I am a child of the sun and when the days are getting shorter and cold and wet and grey then a strange sadness creeps up: call it the November blues. So I’m having the November blues at the moment and I’m not a complete masochist to find this *enjoyable* :-( Else I’m okay Sumi

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > Ghost (black-…@Cookieshaw.ca) writes: >>Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >>>How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? >>>Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? >>>And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign they are >>>lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. >>>Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as enjoyable >>>time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) >>>Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. answerign >>>without checking for real what you do for enjoying yourself in a week, or >>>answrign preaching about how/what/how much one shoudl do what to enjoy >>>themself, how about each one of you simply flatly says without frills  what >>>he/she did for enjoyment in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*?? >>>– >>i’m a console gamer (ps2). never been able to getting to play games on >>the puter or online. >>daily activity is playing video games, right now i’m playing the >>hottest, grand theft auto – san andreas. > I played on the puter a bit, but it is not the same. Played Nintendo, > Super Nint, game bioy, etc, then kiddo moved out and took it all with him. > He now is with somethign else, donlt remember what kind of game thing:)… > Puter games are not the same…. > Well, the ones I play are still the old games for monochrome > screen) thingies…. > They sure are neat, but the feel of the commands in your hands is not > there….

when video games first came out, i started with the atari 2600 & coleco. than after the gaming world died for a few yrs, i got back into games with nintendo and the snes (super nintendo). got sick of the games that were comming out for nintendo when sony brought out the play station. been with play station ever since ghost – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->>ghost > —

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -OB (nevilemo…@yahoo.com) writes: > bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA (Eleonore Beaudoin) wrote in message <news:cn0ao1$k2q$1@theodyn.ncf.ca>… >> How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? >> Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? >> And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign they are >> lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. >> Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as enjoyable >> time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) >> Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. answerign >> without checking for real what you do for enjoying yourself in a week, or >> answrign preaching about how/what/how much one shoudl do what to enjoy >> themself, how about each one of you simply flatly says without frills  what >> he/she did for enjoyment in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*?? > I delight in Baths. > Also, strangling Kojak, listening to Colombian music, talking to Elsa > on the phone, eating cheese, and (at night, in bed) re-reading > selected passages from "Down With Skool". > That’s it, really. > You? :)

Ah, how nice to ask!:) Well….. :Let’s see. Last Friday I …I am not sure but I think I maybe felt yuk. Last Saturday I rememebr I slept on and off all day, and when awake, starred at the walls, completely, absolutely fogged out. Sunday I washed floors and installed carpets. Monday morning, I went to work, came back in the dark, seing nothign and risking my life and that of others. Tuesday I told my boss Id get in earlier due to that, so I coudl leve when it is still light. I then had to o the hour switch and got up early on Wednesday. Rushed all week at work. Thursday was off and spent again in the complete zombified state, starrign at walls. Friday today went to work, after sleeping only from 7 P.M. till 11, then 4:30 A.M. to 6:15, but tossing and turning that last hour endlessly. Oh, I changd the bord cage Wednesday evening, was supposed to clean aquarium filter Thursday and do laundry and sort clothes to give away, but was too blergh. And nwo here I am. Distraction this week has been watching Crossign Jordan, a show I like, a la Dr Marcus Welby, save that I really like the writing with this one. Humour a la macabre at times, and characters that are well done/played, thme in most shows, etc. BUT it plays at 11 P.M. and 3 A.M. where I then tend to no sleep enough to catch it (vcr is kaput). My breaks other than that for enjoyment are asl, where lately that ahs been quite…hm. Boring. I.e. lots of moaning against women, which I have nothign to participate about, and lots of crosspostigns from people that don’t even read here where then it is a waste of tiem to answer those. I had a bath Thursday and planned to read in there and enjoy the moment, but seing the spots on the ceilign and the complete awful state of the walls and ceiling paint just nded up makign me wanna get out of there on the double. Nah, the emnjoyment this week was for a short time, Monday and Tuesday, sleepign normally, after realizing I had never adaptd to the change in hours sicne last spring, and until I had to switch my work hours Wednesday which sent me into "jet lag" again:(. I was asking poeple what they did for enjoyment, exactly to have more thoughts and "contact" with the fact there is enjoyable stuff around. Been pretty much stuggling non stop to get a life back sicne 15 years now…. Oh, last night I had a moment of meditTIN AND MEDIUMNITY THAT WAS JUST HMMMM-HHHHMMM!:) OOOPS FOR CAPS. sULKING THEM, AS ALWAYS. c —

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > "Hot Pnats" (myblowupprejecte…@blowuppp.com) writes: > > In article <cn0ao1$k2…@theodyn.ncf.ca>, bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA > > says… > >> How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? > >> Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? > > i do something enjoyable every day; talk to mah sweetie. > > I werk a lot so it is hard to fit other things in. > > I exercise and that is enjoyable. > >> And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign > they are >> lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. > > aww how come sexxx doesn’t count? > Woudl you talk chocolate on a diet ng? > Then why talk about sex on a loneliness ng…?;-) > Consideration for others. That’s why:) > ;-) > Saying "I play games" can make ohers give it a try. But "I have sex > three times a day" might not offer anyone that is alone and lonely > much of a distraction….

that makes sense. i had a sexless marriage so i can understand that. > >> Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as > enjoyable >> time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) > > I hace hobbies. I’m an artist. I paint and draw and used to blow > > glass. > Did you paint and draw since last Friday? > Blow glass sicne last Friday?

no, not at all. :( work has been consuming my life. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Just tryign to see if we can have a closer look at our habits, for > each ouself, if in sharing, where maybe we can have new ideas of > hobbies or even realize that what hobbies we think we have we have > not practiced in X time, say. > >> Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. > answerign >> without checking for real what you do for enjoying > yourself in a week, or >> answrign preaching about how/what/how much > one shoudl do what to enjoy >> themself, how about each one of you > simply flatly says without frills  what >> he/she did for enjoyment > in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*??  >> > >> — > —

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Ghost (black-…@Cookieshaw.ca) writes: > Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >> Ghost (black-…@Cookieshaw.ca) writes: >>>Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >>>>How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? >>>>Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? >>>>And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign they are >>>>lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. >>>>Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as enjoyable >>>>time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) >>>>Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. answerign >>>>without checking for real what you do for enjoying yourself in a week, or >>>>answrign preaching about how/what/how much one shoudl do what to enjoy >>>>themself, how about each one of you simply flatly says without frills  what >>>>he/she did for enjoyment in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*?? >>>>– >>>i’m a console gamer (ps2). never been able to getting to play games on >>>the puter or online. >>>daily activity is playing video games, right now i’m playing the >>>hottest, grand theft auto – san andreas. >> I played on the puter a bit, but it is not the same. Played Nintendo, >> Super Nint, game bioy, etc, then kiddo moved out and took it all with him. >> He now is with somethign else, donlt remember what kind of game thing:)… >> Puter games are not the same…. >> Well, the ones I play are still the old games for monochrome >> screen) thingies…. >> They sure are neat, but the feel of the commands in your hands is not >> there…. > when video games first came out, i started with the atari 2600 & coleco. > than after the gaming world died for a few yrs, i got back into games > with nintendo and the snes (super nintendo). got sick of the games that > were comming out for nintendo when sony brought out the play station. > been with play station ever since

Never tocyhed nor even seen Play Sattion. I think kiddo has now PS2 or soemthign of the likes, which he had as a Xmas present from his date, last year. I seem to remember that his snes was stolen, and that he might have taken the old nintendo then to his place…Not sure. Maybe it still is under his bed with all the games, btu I seem to remember havign looked before:), where it was gone, so… I think he might have sold or given away the Nintendo by now though. One thing I was really annoyed by at times was the music of some games. Some games were maybe fun, but annoyed me greatly cause of their ever so annoying music, wih the Nintendo specially. With SNES, kiddo had already his favorites where he woudl get the next one of a series, say, and where I guess he also got to play games where mom was not driven inane by the music:) He’d buy a game and say "I just know you’ll love the music on that one!:)", hehehe:) He used to have a ball watchign me play, as I donlt see too well, and never know hat it is I am shooting at. I am told I must shoot the red things, or the white ones, but not the black, say:). And then I play… He still teases me cause once, as it was his trn to play, I shouted "Shhot that fridge!!!". He stopped playign vcold and looked at me jaw dropped and leaing the game, nt minding losing, just stayed there rpeating "Shoot the…what???? Hehehehaahah, there are no frides in there!! Hahahaha, moms playing Nintendo, thinking they are shoting fridges!!!" -Oh gimme a darn break!! It;s enough that I am not even told what I am shootign at, and have to enjoy destroying fridges, as it is!!L:)" But f we ever play somehow somewhere, he will always remidn me by goiung "remember: shoot the fridges, mom, but leave themstive alone! Hehehe". Sighhh.:):) I never was good at them piloting things…:) A bit better at the car races. The last games I played I think were Doom and Prince of Persia, wayyyyy back. Gives yu an idea. In Prince of persia, they had no fridges;-):) Only them lil mushroms and goblins;-);0):):)   >  > ghost >>>ghost >> —

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Ghost (black-…@Cookieshaw.ca) writes: > Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >> How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? >> Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? >> And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign they are >> lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. >> Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as enjoyable >> time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) >> Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. answerign >> without checking for real what you do for enjoying yourself in a week, or >> answrign preaching about how/what/how much one shoudl do what to enjoy >> themself, how about each one of you simply flatly says without frills  what >> he/she did for enjoyment in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*?? >> — > i’m a console gamer (ps2). never been able to getting to play games on > the puter or online. > daily activity is playing video games, right now i’m playing the > hottest, grand theft auto – san andreas.

I played on the puter a bit, but it is not the same. Played Nintendo, Super Nint, game bioy, etc, then kiddo moved out and took it all with him. He now is with somethign else, donlt remember what kind of game thing:)… Puter games are not the same…. Well, the ones I play are still the old games for monochrome screen) thingies…. They sure are neat, but the feel of the commands in your hands is not there….  > > ghost

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Vilma (v…@hotbox.ru) writes: > On 11 Nov 2004 18:24:01 GMT, Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >> How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? >> Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? >> And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign they are >> lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. >> Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as enjoyable >> time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) >> Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. answerign >> without checking for real what you do for enjoying yourself in a week, or >> answrign preaching about how/what/how much one shoudl do what to enjoy >> themself, how about each one of you simply flatly says without frills  what >> he/she did for enjoyment in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*?? > I’m playing Icewind Dale 2 now again and my husband is playing Nexus: the > jupiter incident. I have Doom 3 which is supposed to be my Christmas > present but I’m not sure it’s going to wait til Xmas. Getting mighty > tempted. That’s what we did inbetween everything else since last thursday.

Ah, "Doom"…Been ages!:) I should ask my son for his Super Nes at least, which I am sure he no longer uses. Oh shoots, nah, that si the one that was stolen….He is left with the old reg Nintendo…If he did not sell it…. Maybe I will ask that for XMas then;-) C —

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How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign they are lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as enjoyable time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. answerign without checking for real what you do for enjoying yourself in a week, or answrign preaching about how/what/how much one shoudl do what to enjoy themself, how about each one of you simply flatly says without frills  what he/she did for enjoyment in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*?? —

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On 11 Nov 2004 18:24:01 GMT, Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? > Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? > And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign they are > lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. > Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as enjoyable > time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) > Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. answerign > without checking for real what you do for enjoying yourself in a week, or > answrign preaching about how/what/how much one shoudl do what to enjoy > themself, how about each one of you simply flatly says without frills  what > he/she did for enjoyment in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*??

I’m playing Icewind Dale 2 now again and my husband is playing Nexus: the jupiter incident. I have Doom 3 which is supposed to be my Christmas present but I’m not sure it’s going to wait til Xmas. Getting mighty tempted. That’s what we did inbetween everything else since last thursday.

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? > Once a week? Once a month? Once a year???? > And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign they are > lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope. > Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as enjoyable > time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:) > Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. answerign > without checking for real what you do for enjoying yourself in a week, or > answrign preaching about how/what/how much one shoudl do what to enjoy > themself, how about each one of you simply flatly says without frills  what > he/she did for enjoyment in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*?? > —

i’m a console gamer (ps2). never been able to getting to play games on the puter or online. daily activity is playing video games, right now i’m playing the hottest, grand theft auto – san andreas. ghost

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In article <cn0ao1$k2…@theodyn.ncf.ca>, bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA says… > How many in here do soemthign enjoyable each day? > Once a week? Once a month? Once a year????

i do something enjoyable every day; talk to mah sweetie. I werk a lot so it is hard to fit other things in. I exercise and that is enjoyable. > And what does that consist of (besides sex for the oens sayign they are > lonely when they are havign that) or beer or dope.

aww how come sexxx doesn’t count? > Anyone has a hobby? Plays games online? Spends time posting as enjoyable > time??? Elswhere then most likely? L:)

I hace hobbies. I’m an artist. I paint and draw and used to blow glass. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Instead of thinking of theortically enjoyign yourself, i.e. answerign > without checking for real what you do for enjoying yourself in a week, or > answrign preaching about how/what/how much one shoudl do what to enjoy > themself, how about each one of you simply flatly says without frills  what > he/she did for enjoyment in the last week? That is, *since last Thursday*?? > —

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I feel used.  I believe my human is attempting to gain excessive amounts of pleasure from my being.  Although I have managed, by various subterfuges, to obtain for him a woman who he finds to be most excessively desirable, and who, indeed, finds and my most perfect self (and my human, of course) to be absolutely desirable, I do feel that my general state of enthusiasm for aforementioned female subject to be taken excessive advantage of, to the point that my general being is in a state of abrasion. Maybe I should seek some kind of holiday. Perhaps, I should find myself upon some mediterranian beach, being rubbed with sun protection lotion by nubile nubians, who would have nothing in mind but my general well-being, and absolutely no intention of deriving pleasure from my pleasurable state of being – a process which, I must emphasise, is not to be desired, since the woman with whom my human has formed an affiliation (shall we call it, "a romance") would be most gravely upset by this, and indeed my human would feel terrible, no doubt with a most disastrous effect upon myself, even though I am supreme in my perfection and (little does he know it) absolutely indpendent of him. All this time of course, my human and his ladyfriend would find pleasure in such games as, er, Scrabble, and Monopoly, and such like, which of course do not require my intervention (for the sake of giving the good lady a chance of winning, of course) and in fact may well be inhibited by my most excellent presence. Then, refreshed, tanned and oiled (by nubile nubians), I, the doughty warrior, would be in a most excellent position to sally forth once more into the regions which, (though it is now apparent are most dangerous), I most greatly seek, and therein do my utmost to provide enjoyment for all concerned, until once again, battle weary, I shall return to my mediterranean beach, to be oiled by nubile nubians… Oh, what a life for a one such as I… — Blue Dragon

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SadSadSoul wrote: > I haven’t been thinking about trying to make friends… I have been > thinking about how to make people want to be friends with me. Self- > analyzation is fun. So, I have been focusing on the wrong goal the > whole time.

Two sides of the same coin. – Michaela

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I think I have been misguided in my thinking on how to be happy. Before I was thinking the only way to be happy would be through accepting myself, and any radical anti-social ideas, fully and not being afraid to have them known. However this just came to mind, which I should have thought of earlier, No one who is truely happy is fully honest about their thoughts right? They lie to seem acceptable, like lets say if you think Chinese people are the devil and they should all be shot if you wanted to be happy in life you wouldn’t aim at trying to spread that message you would try and hide the fact that you think that so people think your normal. And if you’re lonely and not being lonely any longer is more important than expressing your beliefs then you should abandon any thoughts about that and focus on being accepted wherever you can. Is that what most of you aim for? To stop your loneliness risk giving up a little bit of yourself, the part that others wouldn’t like that much. Well my thinking has been backwards I just realized. Yeah you have to be an individual to an extent but if your personal thoughts are anti-social then there is nothing wrong with supressing them to stop your loneliness right? Seems pretty simple… tell me what you all think, is it worth giving up a small part of yourself to be accepted? Since everybody can’t be perfect…

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 No one who is truely happy is > fully honest about their thoughts right?

They call it denial.  They lie to seem acceptable, > like lets say if you think Chinese people are the devil and they > should all be shot if you wanted to be happy in life you wouldn’t aim > at trying to spread that message you would try and hide the fact that > you think that so people think your normal. And if you’re lonely and > not being lonely any longer is more important than expressing your > beliefs then you should abandon any thoughts about that and focus on > being accepted wherever you can. Is that what most of you aim for?

I think it’s known as The Way. It’s a narrow line one has to try to walk. And much of the time we misjudge and don’t seem to make any progress.  To > stop your loneliness risk giving up a little bit of yourself, the > part that others wouldn’t like that much. Well my thinking has been > backwards I just realized. Yeah you have to be an individual to an > extent but if your personal thoughts are anti-social then there is > nothing wrong with supressing them to stop your loneliness right? > Seems pretty simple… tell me what you all think, is it worth giving > up a small part of yourself to be accepted?

I had to do it. But for me I kind of "grew" into it. But I still hang on to lots of things.  Since everybody can’t be > perfect…

Social chameleons. Refreshing thinkative post. Thanks. – Michaela

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SadSadSoul’s post: > SadSadSoul <Over…@Taykethisoffrediffmail.com> wrote in > news:2r9ihhF15glsbU2@uni-berlin.de: >> I think I have been misguided in my thinking on how to be happy. Before I was >> thinking the only way to be happy would be through accepting myself, and any >> radical anti-social ideas, fully and not being afraid to have them known. >> However this just came to mind, which I should have thought of earlier, No >> one who is truely happy is fully honest about their thoughts right? They lie >> to seem acceptable, like lets say if you think Chinese people are the devil >> and they should all be shot if you wanted to be happy in life you wouldn’t >> aim at trying to spread that message you would try and hide the fact that you >> think that so people think your normal. > BTW I’m not that crazy I just have a minor little anti-social stance on one > subject

Would you consider saying what your stance is, or what it’s about? You know we can’t all believe the same things, so mostly we agree to differ. If you’re anti-social stance is based on sound reasoning you should be able to defend your opinion, should you be called upon to do so. If it is indefensible then perhaps you’re wrong and can alter your view. Social interaction involves negotiation. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> and also everything else about me pretty much would be considered > normal, and I think that not being able to give that up to fully accept me is > getting in my way. But like I said my thinking has probably been wrong. YOu > have to give soemthing up to live in a society with other people or there > would be anarchy. >> And if you’re lonely and not being lonely any longer is more important than >> expressing your beliefs then you should abandon any thoughts about that and >> focus on being accepted wherever you can. Is that what most of you aim for? >> To stop your loneliness risk giving up a little bit of yourself, the part >> that others wouldn’t like that much. Well my thinking has been backwards I >> just realized. Yeah you have to be an individual to an extent but if your >> personal thoughts are anti-social then there is nothing wrong with supressing >> them to stop your loneliness right? Seems pretty simple… tell me what you >> all think, is it worth giving up a small part of yourself to be accepted? >> Since everybody can’t be perfect…

And yet standing up for what you believe in is very important to most people, otherwise why go to war? Some people are prepared to die for their beliefs. I have a special problem with the idea of lying about something in order to get something else… I’d also lump ‘covering up’ or ‘omitting certain facts’, in the ‘lying’ category, along with hype and trying to put an acceptable spin on something. If someone lies then what they are achieving is a false outcome which, in the end is worthless – more like a mock outcome. If you’re honest and open and everyone else is the same then we get to the truth a great deal quicker and avoid coming up with a distorted conclusion which serves no purpose as it’s based on a fallacy. That being said. You’re right – we’re none of us perfect. In which case you could be ‘accepted’ no matter how imperfect your anti-social stance is. Perhaps?

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SAD SAD SOUL WROTE: lindauermadn…@mydotcomaddress.com (audrey in velvet) wrote in news:587c8d6.0409201905.2e7d2cbb@posting.google.com: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->>SAD SAD SOUL WROTE: > SadSadSoul <Over…@Taykethisoffrediffmail.com> wrote in > news:2r9ihhF15glsbU2@uni-berlin.de: >> I think I have been misguided in my thinking on how to be happy. >> Before I was thinking the only way to be happy would be through >> accepting myself, and any radical anti-social ideas, fully and not >> being afraid to have them known. However this just came to mind, which >> I should have thought of earlier, No one who is truely happy is fully >> honest about their thoughts right? They lie to seem acceptable, like >> lets say if you think Chinese people are the devil and they should all >> be shot if you wanted to be happy in life you wouldn’t aim at trying >> to spread that message you would try and hide the fact that you think >> that so people think your normal. And if you’re lonely and not being >> lonely any longer is more important than expressing your beliefs then >> you should abandon any thoughts about that and focus on being accepted >> wherever you can. Is that what most of you aim for? To stop your >> loneliness risk giving up a little bit of yourself, the part that >> others wouldn’t like that much. Well my thinking has been backwards I >> just realized. Yeah you have to be an individual to an extent but if >> your personal thoughts are anti-social then there is nothing wrong >> with supressing them to stop your loneliness right? Seems pretty >> simple… tell me what you all think, is it worth giving up a small >> part of yourself to be accepted? Since everybody can’t be perfect… > ______________________ > perhaps you are merely racist. > either that or you settle for people who fill up your void while you > keep washing all their dirty dishes. its a form of control. you cant > control what happens to you so you have to organize things into neat > little piles and thus like to organize people into the same rhetoric > of loneliness. > you can connect with anyone so you despise anyone who knows how to > connect with the people who will never notice you. its a competition > thing. like telling someone i dont want you to speak to her. etc. > youre afraid that you wont be *needed* anymore > audrey

As of now i’m a total loner and never have any social contact so this is not true. And that racist thign was an example. And… no it’s not that, it’s being influenced by those people who say "Be yourself and you’ll be happy" however they forget to mention that if one part of yourself won’t be viewed that kindly by a majority of people then it’s really detrimental to yourself to let this be known. I have a problem with lying, I have never been a good lier and I have this thing were I feel that If I have to lie then someone is doing somethign to harm me or something like that, not too sure on exactly what it is. ______________ i feel the same way…i think if im lying to someone than they will immediately see through me. however i do try to be polite as possible. you are sort of a loner in that you may choose people who only fulfil the void temporarily and then shut yourself off from having more meaningful relationships with other *women* who probably know you better than you think. its easy to settle for people who merely find you convenient to be with. you satisfy something they need and youre only too happy to help. but dont you wonder why you always tend to be the submissive in every relationship? you think that perhaps men will take one look at you and lose interest but you only tend to be around types who are emotionally needy anyway. perhaps thats your form of control really although you may not want it in the end. you dont like other women who threaten your relationship with the men who arent interested in you in the first place. its a no win position. audrey

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lindauermadn…@mydotcomaddress.com (audrey in velvet) wrote in news:587c8d6.0409201905.2e7d2cbb@posting.google.com: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->>SAD SAD SOUL WROTE: > SadSadSoul <Over…@Taykethisoffrediffmail.com> wrote in > news:2r9ihhF15glsbU2@uni-berlin.de: >> I think I have been misguided in my thinking on how to be happy. >> Before I was thinking the only way to be happy would be through >> accepting myself, and any radical anti-social ideas, fully and not >> being afraid to have them known. However this just came to mind, which >> I should have thought of earlier, No one who is truely happy is fully >> honest about their thoughts right? They lie to seem acceptable, like >> lets say if you think Chinese people are the devil and they should all >> be shot if you wanted to be happy in life you wouldn’t aim at trying >> to spread that message you would try and hide the fact that you think >> that so people think your normal. And if you’re lonely and not being >> lonely any longer is more important than expressing your beliefs then >> you should abandon any thoughts about that and focus on being accepted >> wherever you can. Is that what most of you aim for? To stop your >> loneliness risk giving up a little bit of yourself, the part that >> others wouldn’t like that much. Well my thinking has been backwards I >> just realized. Yeah you have to be an individual to an extent but if >> your personal thoughts are anti-social then there is nothing wrong >> with supressing them to stop your loneliness right? Seems pretty >> simple… tell me what you all think, is it worth giving up a small >> part of yourself to be accepted? Since everybody can’t be perfect… > ______________________ > perhaps you are merely racist. > either that or you settle for people who fill up your void while you > keep washing all their dirty dishes. its a form of control. you cant > control what happens to you so you have to organize things into neat > little piles and thus like to organize people into the same rhetoric > of loneliness. > you can connect with anyone so you despise anyone who knows how to > connect with the people who will never notice you. its a competition > thing. like telling someone i dont want you to speak to her. etc. > youre afraid that you wont be *needed* anymore > audrey

As of now i’m a total loner and never have any social contact so this is not true. And that racist thign was an example. And… no it’s not that, it’s being influenced by those people who say "Be yourself and you’ll be happy" however they forget to mention that if one part of yourself won’t be viewed that kindly by a majority of people then it’s really detrimental to yourself to let this be known. I have a problem with lying, I have never been a good lier and I have this thing were I feel that If I have to lie then someone is doing somethign to harm me or something like that, not too sure on exactly what it is.

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SadSadSoul <Over…@Taykethisoffrediffmail.com> wrote in news:2r9ihhF15glsbU2@uni-berlin.de: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I think I have been misguided in my thinking on how to be happy. > Before I was thinking the only way to be happy would be through > accepting myself, and any radical anti-social ideas, fully and not > being afraid to have them known. However this just came to mind, which > I should have thought of earlier, No one who is truely happy is fully > honest about their thoughts right? They lie to seem acceptable, like > lets say if you think Chinese people are the devil and they should all > be shot if you wanted to be happy in life you wouldn’t aim at trying > to spread that message you would try and hide the fact that you think > that so people think your normal. And if you’re lonely and not being > lonely any longer is more important than expressing your beliefs then > you should abandon any thoughts about that and focus on being accepted > wherever you can. Is that what most of you aim for? To stop your > loneliness risk giving up a little bit of yourself, the part that > others wouldn’t like that much. Well my thinking has been backwards I > just realized. Yeah you have to be an individual to an extent but if > your personal thoughts are anti-social then there is nothing wrong > with supressing them to stop your loneliness right? Seems pretty > simple… tell me what you all think, is it worth giving up a small > part of yourself to be accepted? Since everybody can’t be perfect…

______________________ perhaps you are merely racist. either that or you settle for people who fill up your void while you keep washing all their dirty dishes. its a form of control. you cant control what happens to you so you have to organize things into neat little piles and thus like to organize people into the same rhetoric of loneliness. you can connect with anyone so you despise anyone who knows how to connect with the people who will never notice you. its a competition thing. like telling someone i dont want you to speak to her. etc. youre afraid that you wont be *needed* anymore audrey

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In article <2r9ihhF15gls…@uni-berlin.de>, Over…@Taykethisoffrediffmail.com says… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I think I have been misguided in my thinking on how to be happy. Before I > was thinking the only way to be happy would be through accepting myself, > and any radical anti-social ideas, fully and not being afraid to have them > known. However this just came to mind, which I should have thought of > earlier, No one who is truely happy is fully honest about their thoughts > right? They lie to seem acceptable, like lets say if you think Chinese > people are the devil and they should all be shot if you wanted to be happy > in life you wouldn’t aim at trying to spread that message you would try and > hide the fact that you think that so people think your normal. And if > you’re lonely and not being lonely any longer is more important than > expressing your beliefs then you should abandon any thoughts about that and > focus on being accepted wherever you can. Is that what most of you aim for? > To stop your loneliness risk giving up a little bit of yourself, the part > that others wouldn’t like that much. Well my thinking has been backwards I > just realized. Yeah you have to be an individual to an extent but if your > personal thoughts are anti-social then there is nothing wrong with > supressing them to stop your loneliness right? Seems pretty simple… tell > me what you all think, is it worth giving up a small part of yourself to be > accepted? Since everybody can’t be perfect…

i think you are right. I know i can’t say exactly what I think sometimes; like at work and other places or i wouldn’t be accepted. i guess people have to conform to a certain extent to get along. — I promise to spank the plank daily.

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SadSadSoul <Over…@Taykethisoffrediffmail.com> wrote in news:2r9ihhF15glsbU2@uni-berlin.de: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I think I have been misguided in my thinking on how to be happy. > Before I was thinking the only way to be happy would be through > accepting myself, and any radical anti-social ideas, fully and not > being afraid to have them known. However this just came to mind, which > I should have thought of earlier, No one who is truely happy is fully > honest about their thoughts right? They lie to seem acceptable, like > lets say if you think Chinese people are the devil and they should all > be shot if you wanted to be happy in life you wouldn’t aim at trying > to spread that message you would try and hide the fact that you think > that so people think your normal. And if you’re lonely and not being > lonely any longer is more important than expressing your beliefs then > you should abandon any thoughts about that and focus on being accepted > wherever you can. Is that what most of you aim for? To stop your > loneliness risk giving up a little bit of yourself, the part that > others wouldn’t like that much. Well my thinking has been backwards I > just realized. Yeah you have to be an individual to an extent but if > your personal thoughts are anti-social then there is nothing wrong > with supressing them to stop your loneliness right? Seems pretty > simple… tell me what you all think, is it worth giving up a small > part of yourself to be accepted? Since everybody can’t be perfect…

I haven’t been thinking about trying to make friends… I have been thinking about how to make people want to be friends with me. Self- analyzation is fun. So, I have been focusing on the wrong goal the whole time.

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SadSadSoul <Over…@Taykethisoffrediffmail.com> wrote in news:2r9ihhF15glsbU2@uni-berlin.de: > I think I have been misguided in my thinking on how to be happy. > Before I was thinking the only way to be happy would be through > accepting myself, and any radical anti-social ideas, fully and not > being afraid to have them known. However this just came to mind, which > I should have thought of earlier, No one who is truely happy is fully > honest about their thoughts right? They lie to seem acceptable, like > lets say if you think Chinese people are the devil and they should all > be shot if you wanted to be happy in life you wouldn’t aim at trying > to spread that message you would try and hide the fact that you think > that so people think your normal.

BTW I’m not that crazy I just have a minor little anti-social stance on one subject and also everything else about me pretty much would be considered normal, and I think that not being able to give that up to fully accept me is getting in my way. But like I said my thinking has probably been wrong. YOu have to give soemthing up to live in a society with other people or there would be anarchy.  And if you’re lonely and not being – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> lonely any longer is more important than expressing your beliefs then > you should abandon any thoughts about that and focus on being accepted > wherever you can. Is that what most of you aim for? To stop your > loneliness risk giving up a little bit of yourself, the part that > others wouldn’t like that much. Well my thinking has been backwards I > just realized. Yeah you have to be an individual to an extent but if > your personal thoughts are anti-social then there is nothing wrong > with supressing them to stop your loneliness right? Seems pretty > simple… tell me what you all think, is it worth giving up a small > part of yourself to be accepted? Since everybody can’t be perfect…

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hmmm sam & ray – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Arsehole.

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      Running related gas disturb. Help pleaseeeee….       Hi everyone,       I’m new to this forum, and I wonder if I could have some advice from experienced runner. First of all I would like to apologize foe bringing up such an unpleasant topic, but I really need some help.       Here it goes: As soon as I hit the roads I start farting in an uncontrollable way( 10+ times per mile). It is about 200 farts on a long run. I have tried everything: different foods, different liquids, no food or liquid at all, nothing has helped. Of course I’m a lonely runner, I mean, who else would like to join a farter runner?       What’s really tricky, is that this situation only occurs when I’m running.       is there a running related farting disease?       I know it may sound funny, but believe me, it is definitely not. Not even my dog can stand running with me( the stampede scares him).       i love running, and I I’ll do anything to stop this.       Does anybody ever experienced a similar situation?       Any serious advice would be greatly appreciated.( a cork usage is out of question)       Thanks       turbo      TightHams                   Posts: 2,257                   Registered: 12/1/03            Re: Running related gas disturb. Help pleaseeeee….                   So…what’s the problem?                   Summertime and the living is easy, Fish are jumping and the cotton is high…      mountainrunner                   Posts: 643                   Registered: 6/27/03            Re: Running related gas disturb. Help pleaseeeee….                   I would advise you to ……stay behind me and downwind.                   If you are serious, see a gastroenterologist, or live with the loneliness of the jet-propelled runner.                   "I run in the path of your commands,for you have set my heart free. " Ps 119      leadfoot123                   Posts: 498                   Registered: 2/11/02            Flatulence                   Yes, the key is that farting moves you forward. If you start belching than you really have a problem. I fart alot during marathons. I think anxiety is the primary reason for gas rather than diet anyway so that may explain it. I try not to do it in inopportune social situations.                   Seriously, unless it is physically distressing I wouldn’t worry about it. Farting relieves distress rather than causes it. Enjoy the moment.                   "There is no security in life, only opportunity". Bud Wilkerson      the bear                   Posts: 624                   Registered: 12/15/03            Re: Flatulence                   I concur with Dr. leadfoot, as long as we’re talking about a gaseous state, just relax and enjoy the extra propulsion gained. Now if the problem manifests itself in liquid or solid expulsion, then you have reason for concern.                   I’m running again! Next up: Chicago!      HockeyMike                   Posts: 767                   Registered: 4/22/03            Attach a tri-pod to your back                   With a constantly burning flame.                   When you pass gas, you will have fireballs shooting out your behind, and give the impression that you are actually running faster than you really are – might intimidate the local competition in your races.                   Also eliminates the need for reflective gear when running at night or early AM – I actually could see this as more of a blessing thana problem.                   Putting some kind of pipe with a conical shape at the gas expulsion point may actually focus the gaseous expulsion and give you additional speed bursts that were unrealized potential from this "blessing"                   I would highly discourage cork use, the pressure may build up and fire it off at a high velocity, and you might kill the person running behind you – the last thing you need is a manslaughter charge and get tossed in the slammer with "bubba" …..                   "But wait, you’re rich and women love you, and I’m from Ohio and I’m drunk!" – more true than it should be, lol. First Marathon 5/4/2003 – Flying Pig 4:08:11, 2004 Pig – 3:56:45 – 11 Minute PR! Summer ‘04 – "Bring on the Summer of Mike!" I still hate my legs by the way, but they seem to be getting better Http://home.earthlink.net/~michaeljkriston/images/      hermit_crab                   Posts: 1,068                   Registered: 6/9/03            Re: Attach a tri-pod to your back                   Robin, to the Batmobile!                   My friend in high school was the world champeen of fart-lighters. It was like having an indoor fireworks display.                   Good times.                   "The will to win means nothing if you haven’t the will to prepare." – Juma Ikangaa      HockeyMike                   Posts: 767                   Registered: 4/22/03            I’ve never seen one lit                   I’d love to.                   It’s gotta be pretty cool/borderline bizarre/absolutely hilarious!                   I heard courdory’s are the sh*t for lighting farts for whatever reason.                   "But wait, you’re rich and women love you, and I’m from Ohio and I’m drunk!" – more true than it should be, lol. First Marathon 5/4/2003 – Flying Pig 4:08:11, 2004 Pig – 3:56:45 – 11 Minute PR! Summer ‘04 – "Bring on the Summer of Mike!" I still hate my legs by the way, but they seem to be getting better Http://home.earthlink.net/~michaeljkriston/images/      DancingBear                   Posts: 7,374                   Registered: 10/2/03            My husband does it all the time.                   Mike, you are better off with jeans.                   If I could find it, I would show you my husbands sophomoric first experience with blue flamers and how he burned all the hair on his butt. I can’t find it.                   Still plodding along, but the foot pain is gone, gone, gone!      hermit_crab                   Posts: 1,068                   Registered: 6/9/03            It’s positively amazing.                   It’s really beyond comical and into comically amazing. I didn’t know it was possible to make 4′ flames like that. At the age of 15, it was just the funniest thing in the world.                   "The will to win means nothing if you haven’t the will to prepare." – Juma Ikangaa      DancingBear                   Posts: 7,374                   Registered: 10/2/03            Re: It’s positively amazing.                   You can with a homemade torch of a hairspray can and a bbq lighter. Don’t you watch the Man Show?                   Still plodding along, but the foot pain is gone, gone, gone!      hermit_crab                   Posts: 1,068                   Registered: 6/9/03            Re: It’s positively amazing.                   Oh, I meant, "make 4′ flames with the human body." Yes, hairspray works well too, but that’s not as amazing as seeing someone do it with Mexican food.                   "The will to win means nothing if you haven’t the will to prepare." – Juma Ikangaa      DancingBear                   Posts: 7,374                   Registered: 10/2/03            Re: It’s positively amazing.                   Oh, yeah, or Thai. I wonder if wasabi would do it. We love sushi.                   Still plodding along, but the foot pain is gone, gone, gone!      Spilly3265                   Posts: 485                   Registered: 9/3/02            Fireballs shooting out of the backside is not STREET LEGAL!                   As I found out from watching MTV’s "Pimp My Ride" episode you are not allowed to have the jet type fire coming out of the exhaust!                   Yes, embarassed to admit I have watched that show but The Newleyweds (Jessica and Nick) marathon was over and I still didn’t want to get my butt off of the couch!                   Next up…Chicago – October 10, 2004!!      CantStandsYa                   Posts: 511                   Registered: 2/18/04            Re: Running related gas disturb. Help pleaseeeee….                   My only suggestion would be to cut down on high-fiber foods and see if that helps. You could try Beano as well. But I would be careful with this. I tried it once and it … read more »

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