Lonely Loneliness

Prisoner of Lonliness

Question:

Its a shame I can’t leave the house. I can’t go anywhere without feeling down, depressed or panic stricken. I can’t spend any time with friends – thats if I have any left. I am barely able to make it to the therapist office – but still then I get sick. I don’t have girlfriend or wife. I don’t have a job and I created a website to attract ladies – almost 1000 hits but not one email message. I feel so lonely that I could cry – but maybe I’m too macho for that – must hold it in. Life really sucks! — Still looking for Miss Right My Personal Profile http://www.bestweb.net/~sunfire1/index.html Steve P. — Still looking for Miss Right My Personal Profile http://www.bestweb.net/~sunfire1/index.html Steve P.

Response:

I don’t have girlfriend or wife. I don’t

have a job and I created a website to attract ladies – almost 1000 hits but

not one email message. I feel so lonely that I could cry – but maybe I’m too

macho for that – must hold it in. I’m sorry you are feeling so down… I’ll go visit and leave you an email PS I don’t have a boyfriend, been proposed to 5 times, married twice, divorce sucks…but life goes on….and on and on and on… Lee (feeling blue too) I’m beginning to contemplate my reason for existance

Response:

(LEANNEBUG) writes: I’m sorry you are feeling so down… I’ll go visit and leave you an email PS I don’t have a boyfriend, been proposed to 5 times, married twice, divorce sucks…but life goes on….and on and on and on… Lee (feeling blue too) I’m beginning to contemplate my reason for existance

I will, too, Lee and Steve. And women don’t respond to men as much as men respond to women in these things. I’ve put ads online, for example, and gotten tons of responses. And my male friends are furious and jealous that no one responds to their ads. It’s hard to meet someone anyway, but when you’re depressed and/or unemployed, it’s very very hard. In my experience, it’s best to put that stuff on the backburner until you’re feeling more stable emotionally. I know it’s tempting to find someone to be with and the loneliness is horrible. But I"m finding right now that dating just makes me feel more lonely. I’m not burning any bridges. just going to contact these people later on when I’m feeling better about myself. I realized that I wanted the physical contact more than anything anyway. I strongly recommend getting pets if you don’t have them. I’m not being facetious or minimizing. My cats really help me not feel lonely and not settle for the wrong people. sounds silly but it’s true. Just read about your latest office visit, Steve. God, I know it wasn’t meant as humor but you do have a flair for ironic comedy. My last doc looked like Homer Simpson’s horrible boss on the Simpsons and had even less personality. Never cracked a smile. But at least he didn’t fart. So thank God for small favors. Hang in there. You’re a strong and resilient guy. And I’m blue too, Lee, so we can form a Blue Group, I guess. WRITER/CATCH MY TRAIN OF THOUGHT "You can’t have everything. Where would you put it?" (Steven Wright)

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