Lonely Loneliness

Been a LONG time away ….

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                                Hi Bleubird, Sorry I was not able to post to you before … Welcome back … I see in your second mail that you could use our help some longer … I hope I will be abl to help you … For you seem to have rough times behind you and who knows … there just might be some rough ties ahead … I hope your doing fine … And if there is anything, anything at all … Just give me  apost and I will do what I can                                             Hugs, thomas BlueBird heeft geschreven in bericht <35E9C810.ECE65…@bellsouth.net>… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Friends, >Here are two very good reasons that I found myself up in the middle of the night >posting to a group that I’d not posted to in a long time.  In fact,  I was not >responding to much of anything well.  Thanks for your kind replies and thanks for >there being a place to come where I can say I’m lonely, feel betrayed and have lost >  most of my trust in friendship……. and know that I’m not going to be told to >snap out of it.  Go on with my life and forget it.  Start being grateful for what I >have and stop feeling sorry for myself.  I know that those things are valid….. in >time.  It is  just that I’m not there yet and  Y’all understand that. >– >BlueBird >==  Today, I will choose a mode of living that allows >me to be alive and enjoy the adventure. == >ICQ #14834786

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Dear Bluebird, Welcome back.  I am so glad to hear that you are feeling a little better and hope that each day brings you closer to feeling the best you can feel. Thank you for this post.  It is an idea that I hold close to my heart….not to waste the days, help people, no matter in how small a way…even if it is only to make them smile for a moment….I love to talk with people and can do it for hours as a couple of people here can attest to. I once read that walking down the street or a corridor , if you look directly into someones eyes and say hello or good day, that that will change their perspective just the tiniest bit.   And you see, this idea was proven, once again….someone wrote and asked about how you were doing and here you are again….back among your friends. Be well, Bluebird…. jan – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Bluebird wrote….. >I hate to waste days that are or should >be precious to me of all people. Any day that I don’t take all the >enjoyment that is there for the taking…. I have wasted.  I felt that I >needed to come to a place where there are others feeling the same things >and can understand.

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Hi Bluebird… It is so good to hear from you and to hear of that special anniversary date coming up.  I’ve been in that hole of isolation a few times, myself.  It is lonely there, isn’t it ?  I’m glad you’ve decided to come out and be among friends.  I always knew that Hoogy and Sunshine were special.  :-)    Thank you for the reminder that each day is special and no day should be wasted.   I’m thinking of you and hoping you get stronger each day….. Hugs to you.. Gina "If this doesn’t make you free..it doesn’t mean you’re tied;  If this doesn’t take you down..it doesn’t mean you’re high;  If this doesn’t make you smile..you don’t have to cry;  If this isn’t making sense..it doesn’t make it lies."       –Soundgarden

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Reg Riddle wrote: > Hi Bluebird… > It is so good to hear from you and to hear of that special anniversary date > coming up.  I’ve been in that hole of isolation a few times, myself.  It is > lonely there, isn’t it ?  I’m glad you’ve decided to come out and be among > friends.  I always knew that Hoogy and Sunshine were special.  :-)    Thank you > for the reminder that each day is special and no day should be wasted. > I’m thinking of you and hoping you get stronger each day….. > Hugs to you.. > Gina > "If this doesn’t make you free..it doesn’t mean you’re tied; >  If this doesn’t take you down..it doesn’t mean you’re high; >  If this doesn’t make you smile..you don’t have to cry; >  If this isn’t making sense..it doesn’t make it lies." >       –Soundgarden

 Friends, Here are two very good reasons that I found myself up in the middle of the night posting to a group that I’d not posted to in a long time.  In fact,  I was not responding to much of anything well.  Thanks for your kind replies and thanks for there being a place to come where I can say I’m lonely, feel betrayed and have lost   most of my trust in friendship……. and know that I’m not going to be told to snap out of it.  Go on with my life and forget it.  Start being grateful for what I have and stop feeling sorry for myself.  I know that those things are valid….. in time.  It is  just that I’m not there yet and  Y’all understand that. — BlueBird ==  Today, I will choose a mode of living that allows me to be alive and enjoy the adventure. == ICQ #14834786

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HI, It has been over a month since I have posted here.  I am dealing with the aftermath of treatments for cancer….  As of the 4th of Sept., I will be a 4 year survivor !!!!!! But, as of late the loneliness has been more difficult to deal with than the damage and disabilities from the treatments.  Had some "friends" that were an important part of my life hurt me badly and I allowed them to chase me into that comfortable hole of isolation.  Trouble is ( or maybe gratefully so ) it is only comfortable for a short time.  I hate to waste days that are or should be precious to me of all people. Any day that I don’t take all the enjoyment that is there for the taking…. I have wasted.  I felt that I needed to come to a place where there are others feeling the same things and can understand.  As things go, one of the members of the group contacted me recently to check on my and that was all that I needed to help me realize that I needed to do some posting here.  I know that I have formed some special friendships here…. two of  those being Sunshine and Hoogy, who have faithfully stayed in touch. Thanks for listening. — BlueBird ICQ# 14834786 ( Who is beginning to realize that the cave is no longer comfortable !!!! <G> ) ======================================================== You don’t stop laughing because you have grown old…..    You grow old because you have stopped laughing !!! ========================================================

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