Lonely Loneliness

I have a date!!

Question:

Hi EG… my wish for you is to go to this date with as few expectations as possible… that is sometimes the biggest challenge, to contain the excitement as anticipation and not let it become expectation… for me, disappointments and personal pains come from allowing my expectations to get in the way… they lead me to fears and that distorts the moments I could be sharing… my wish for you is to enjoy the moments as much as possible… honest love, ric – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -expert…@conninc.com wrote in message <36675276.5339…@enews.newsguy.com>… >I decided, despite my snipe at Yahoo personals, to give them a try >last week.  My fifth response and I talked on the phone for a couple >of hours at least and we met Sat. after we talk again tomorrow night! >Could it have been this simple? >Expertguy >"’…But the only meaningful power is the power we >have to help each other.  And *no* power is greater >than *love*, Rick.  It’s very *cornball*.  It’s also >very *true*.’" >Rick Jones, quoting from his best friend, Bruce >Banner, from THE INCREDIBLE HULK vol. 1(second >series) #467, February 1998, written by Peter David.

Response:

ric, I think your advice to EG is good and should be noted by all. Expectations can lead to disappointment, disillusionment and frustration. You’re right. It’s best to go into things with as little in the way of expectations as possible. For me (when I can do it <ha, ha>) that relieves some of the internal pressure that I put on myself. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -ric wrote in message … >Hi EG… >my wish for you is to go to this date with as few expectations as possible… >that is sometimes the biggest challenge, to contain the excitement as >anticipation and not let it become expectation… for me, disappointments and >personal pains come from allowing my expectations to get in the way… they lead >me to fears and that distorts the moments I could be sharing… >my wish for you is to enjoy the moments as much as possible… >honest love, ric >expert…@conninc.com wrote in message

<36675276.5339…@enews.newsguy.com>… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->>I decided, despite my snipe at Yahoo personals, to give them a try >>last week.  My fifth response and I talked on the phone for a couple >>of hours at least and we met Sat. after we talk again tomorrow night! >>Could it have been this simple? >>Expertguy >>"’…But the only meaningful power is the power we >>have to help each other.  And *no* power is greater >>than *love*, Rick.  It’s very *cornball*.  It’s also >>very *true*.’" >>Rick Jones, quoting from his best friend, Bruce >>Banner, from THE INCREDIBLE HULK vol. 1(second >>series) #467, February 1998, written by Peter David.

Response:

Congratulations and good luck. I hope you have a fun time! expert…@conninc.com wrote in message

<36675276.5339…@enews.newsguy.com>… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->I decided, despite my snipe at Yahoo personals, to give them a try >last week.  My fifth response and I talked on the phone for a couple >of hours at least and we met Sat. after we talk again tomorrow night! >Could it have been this simple? >Expertguy >"’…But the only meaningful power is the power we >have to help each other.  And *no* power is greater >than *love*, Rick.  It’s very *cornball*.  It’s also >very *true*.’" >Rick Jones, quoting from his best friend, Bruce >Banner, from THE INCREDIBLE HULK vol. 1(second >series) #467, February 1998, written by Peter David.

Response:

On Thu, 03 Dec 1998 23:08:05 -0500, Supertheta <superth…@hotmail.com> wrote: >Expertguy, >Congratulations!  So where are you and the lucky lady going on your date? >Brad

Thank you.  I’m glad to hear from you again.  We are supposed to meet at a bookstore with a coffe shop.  Just to see if we are attracted to each other. Expertguy

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On Fri, 04 Dec 1998 17:54:30 GMT, "ric" <asl…@onelist.com> wrote: >Hi EG… >my wish for you is to go to this date with as few expectations as possible… >that is sometimes the biggest challenge, to contain the excitement as >anticipation and not let it become expectation… for me, disappointments and >personal pains come from allowing my expectations to get in the way… they lead >me to fears and that distorts the moments I could be sharing…

Yeah, that’s what I’m trying to do.  It could misfire, or we might not be attracted to each other.  I’m keeping all that in mind. >my wish for you is to enjoy the moments as much as possible…

Thanks! >honest love, ric

Expertguy

Response:

Thanks everybody for the support! Expertguy

Response:

Expertguy, expert…@conninc.com wrote: > I decided, despite my snipe at Yahoo personals, to give them a try > last week.  My fifth response and I talked on the phone for a couple > of hours at least and we met Sat. after we talk again tomorrow night!

Congratulations!  So where are you and the lucky lady going on your date? > Could it have been this simple?

I guess you know now for yourself =) . > Expertguy

Brad

Response:

I decided, despite my snipe at Yahoo personals, to give them a try last week.  My fifth response and I talked on the phone for a couple of hours at least and we met Sat. after we talk again tomorrow night! Could it have been this simple? Expertguy "’…But the only meaningful power is the power we have to help each other.  And *no* power is greater than *love*, Rick.  It’s very *cornball*.  It’s also very *true*.’" Rick Jones, quoting from his best friend, Bruce Banner, from THE INCREDIBLE HULK vol. 1(second series) #467, February 1998, written by Peter David.

Response:

Might not lead to wedding bells:):) but sounds already like a door -or a dozen;-)  -out of loneliness to me!:) Chloe – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text - (expert…@conninc.com) writes: > I decided, despite my snipe at Yahoo personals, to give them a try > last week.  My fifth response and I talked on the phone for a couple > of hours at least and we met Sat. after we talk again tomorrow night! > Could it have been this simple? > Expertguy > "’…But the only meaningful power is the power we > have to help each other.  And *no* power is greater > than *love*, Rick.  It’s very *cornball*.  It’s also > very *true*.’" > Rick Jones, quoting from his best friend, Bruce > Banner, from THE INCREDIBLE HULK vol. 1(second > series) #467, February 1998, written by Peter David.

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Response:

Sounds great!Have fun! Shalom, Nick In article <36675276.5339…@enews.newsguy.com>, expert…@conninc.com says… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->I decided, despite my snipe at Yahoo personals, to give them a try >last week.  My fifth response and I talked on the phone for a couple >of hours at least and we met Sat. after we talk again tomorrow night! >Could it have been this simple? >Expertguy >"’…But the only meaningful power is the power we >have to help each other.  And *no* power is greater >than *love*, Rick.  It’s very *cornball*.  It’s also >very *true*.’" >Rick Jones, quoting from his best friend, Bruce >Banner, from THE INCREDIBLE HULK vol. 1(second >series) #467, February 1998, written by Peter David.

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