It's over!!!!
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Di, My biggest hug to you ever…You never had us down..we are here for you and send lots of love(sorry I am so late on this!) xo love Cheryl — TC3
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now. Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down. I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway. Love, Di :-((((
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Di Please don’t apologize because what you have gone through I am just starting and seeing your strength lets me know that I can go through this also [[[[hugs]]]] — Thank you Lord for dirty hands; that touch my stove and fridge; For sticky little fingers that try to build a bridge, For precious little hands in which great faith bounds; For silly little hands that reach to touch a mother’s frown. As little hands reach out to me to show them what to do, I’m steadied, reassured and loved as I reach up to You.. Love your children Anna
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First off, all of you on this list are wonderful. I’ve only popped in to get an idea how to help my mom and I’m finding some truly incredible and generous folks here (well, that "alexplore" person is something else…). I applaud you all! Second, Diana, a huge congratulations! I know what you’re feeling: relief, happieness, saddness, loneliness, fear of walking into the unknown alone – especially after so many years with someone there. I wish you all the best and always know that you’re not alone. There are others going through the same things you are and some who aren’t but are there for you to lean on when you need it. You’re obviously a noble spirit to have so much support from this list. Finally, Philip: Very very wise words. Margrove: Give the lass a chance, ya nut! She free and single now! Don’t be trying to tie her down too soon or this mare’ll buck! ;-) Tony: You utensil thief Anna: Hell yes you can do it also! It would be wonderful if these relationships could last a lifetime, but when things turn and the relationship causes more damage than good then it’s time to let it go. It’s the natural way of things. We all have to endure some heartache in life, sometimes it’s to keep things good together, sometimes it’s to make things good apart. Luck to you all and may what ever deity you see bless you! Laura
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hang in there, di – - the most of it is behind you now. things will pick back up for you I’m sure. -best wishes, z
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now. Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down. I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway. Love, Di :-((((
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My lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now. Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down. I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway.
Dear Di, Now matter how much this was wanted, it is going to hurt for awhile and that is okay. You were married for many years, and what you thought would be for a lifetime…….wasn`t, that is a major loss, but you will heal with time. (((((Di))))) Jackie
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You took a giant step today, Di. Now you need the time to absorb it all and get a chance to breathe! Take care of yourself! Liz – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now. Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down. I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway. Love, Di :-((((
– There is always music amongst the trees in the garden but our minds must be very still to hear it. ASAP Gardening Site: http://www.chickadee.com/asapgardens
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Di, I am so relieved for you that the legal part of this divorce is over. Give yourself time and a few good cries… smiles, elise
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now. Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down. I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway. Love, Di :-((((
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Di, Just let the feelings come and go. Don’t try to force them or refuse them. Its normal and natural to be sad and anxious and everything in between. We’re here for you, just like you’ve been here for us. Take care, John – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now. Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down. I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway. Love, Di :-((((
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My lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now. Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down. I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway. Love, Di :-((((
Dear Di, I’m glad it’s over. But of course it’s sad. You spent how much? 17 years or so? with that man, had your dreams together, planned a future, enoyed each other and then slowly things didn’t turn out to be what you wanted them to be and then youstarted the courageous but painful process of separation which has now come to an end. You are a very sensitive and very *caring* person and you don’t *hate* your ex, so it would be most unnatural not to grieve now, we are all made up of many contradictory emotions and I think it’s good that you can both relief and sadness….you will manage and life will lead you to green pastures! Philip
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My lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now. Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down. I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway. Love, Di :-((((
I am glad the legal stuff is over,now you can go on with your life. And that includes sadness as well. Cry all you want dear one. I am sure you will find new horizons 
Hug from Anna
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My lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now. Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down. I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway. Love, Di :-((((
(((((((((Di)))))))))) If you want to chat or need to vent just e-mail me!!! Love, Charla
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now. Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down. I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway. Love, Di :-((((
now we can get married! a door closes another one opens cry all you want the tears of for many things allow the sadness to live with you for a while and then realize you opened another door-hopefuly to a better place this closes a chapter a new one is being written by you LM
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Hi Di.. Well, at least the legal part is over. And you’re right..it’s going to be very hard for a while. Don’t apologize for getting anyone down. We’re here for you and to help you. If you need to talk you have my email address and I will be happy to talk. Hang in there.. this is a big day and it’s hard but you can get on with your life! Love, Jeff.. {{{{Di}}}} – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now. Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down. I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway. Love, Di :-((((
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now. Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down. I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway. Love, Di :-((((
I don’t know who you are or what you are going through. What was the court case about? if you don’t mind sharring again. ~A u s t i n~
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My lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now. Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down. I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway. Love, Di :-((((
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lawyer called and said it was over. They almost had more complications, but
the judge finally granted it. I am so sad! I know this is what I wanted, but
there was no way to really prepare myself for the sadness I feel right now.
Can’t celebrate. Nothing really to celebrate. I’m sorry if I got anyone down.
I’ll be okay later on. At least I cried right away and got it over with, for now anyway. Love, Di :-((((
Hi Di! You have the legal stuff behind you now, and that’s a tremendous accomplishment. Love, Chip
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