Lonely Loneliness

Reaching out. Can't stand the pain.

Question:

    Hi anonymous. I’ll talk at you. — Bill mrb…@albedo.net Lean on me, when you’re not strong Lad…@pop3.concentric.net wrote in message

<351E0A4B.C7453…@pop3.concentric.net>… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Hey, sugar, come on back.  Talk to me some more.  It’s gettin’ kind of >late here, but I’ll hang for a bit to see if you’re peeking in.  If not, >send another message.  Don’t get lost. There are others here that will >talk to you to.  Just don’t know who’s awake right now. >      a hug for you, J. >anonymous wrote: >> This may seem ridiculous. I’m just reaching out to somebody … anyone >> … because I just can’t take this lonliness anymore. My life is a >> disaster. I’m 30 years old. I have no friends, family … anyone to >> reach out to. I’ve had to rebuild my life so many times and I’m trying >> to do it again now but everyday … alone. I don’t know what to do. I >> can’t believe the amount of hours that go by without me having contact >> or conversation with another person. Somehow I just fell out of >> society … and the way my situation is now I don’t know … >> well, thanks for reading this …

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Hi, I’m always up for a bit of crying with someone else who needs to do the same – moan to me if you like – a willing friend aged 30 – Rain XXX – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -anonymous <1…@2.3> wrote in message <351f9f32.28075…@news.warwick.net>… >This may seem ridiculous. I’m just reaching out to somebody … anyone >… because I just can’t take this lonliness anymore. My life is a >disaster. I’m 30 years old. I have no friends, family … anyone to >reach out to. I’ve had to rebuild my life so many times and I’m trying >to do it again now but everyday … alone. I don’t know what to do. I >can’t believe the amount of hours that go by without me having contact >or conversation with another person. Somehow I just fell out of >society … and the way my situation is now I don’t know … >well, thanks for reading this …

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Since you have not included your name, I thought at first I had posted this message myself and forgot I did so.  My friend, your situation sounds like a replay of mine.  I am 32 years old, have almost no friends (none really like close ‘count on’ friends), and I have rebuilt so many times that in my present crisis there are times when I feel I just cannot start over again–not again, I can’t, I’m so tired of doing this, I’m so tired–ending up with nothing and alone. Since your situations seems so similar at the outset, I would really like to get to know more about you.  Perhaps we can face this together and maybe find some real answers.  Jeezzz, I thought that by 32 years old I’d have something, but if not, I thought at least I’d have some answers.  Sometimes I feel like I should have figured some of this out long ago and that something must really be wrong–I keep repeating the same patterns over and over.  If you think we might help each other, write again.  I am more than willing to read ANYTHING you have to write, and maybe you might find something you need when I write back to you.  Offering you my hand, ears and heart. forte – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -On Sun, 29 Mar 1998 01:09:08 GMT, 1…@2.3 (anonymous) wrote: >This may seem ridiculous. I’m just reaching out to somebody … anyone >… because I just can’t take this lonliness anymore. My life is a >disaster. I’m 30 years old. I have no friends, family … anyone to >reach out to. I’ve had to rebuild my life so many times and I’m trying >to do it again now but everyday … alone. I don’t know what to do. I >can’t believe the amount of hours that go by without me having contact >or conversation with another person. Somehow I just fell out of >society … and the way my situation is now I don’t know … >well, thanks for reading this …

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>This may seem ridiculous. I’m just reaching out to somebody … anyone >… because I just can’t take this lonliness anymore. My life is a >disaster. I’m 30 years old. I have no friends, family … anyone to >reach out to. I’ve had to rebuild my life so many times and I’m trying >to do it again now but everyday … alone. I don’t know what to do. I >can’t believe the amount of hours that go by without me having contact >or conversation with another person. Somehow I just fell out of >society … and the way my situation is now I don’t know … >well, thanks for reading this …

It’s not ridiculous. There’s more people that feel as you do than you probably think. It’s easy to think youre the only lonely one because you dont see all the others sitting at home alone. It’s easy to think youre the only one with lonely thoughts because you can’t always tell what others are thinking. What separates you from many others is that you ARE reaching out.. Glad to have you with us. m.j.

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -In article <351f35b7.2325…@news.mindspring.com>, fo…@mindspring.com wrote: >Since you have not included your name, I thought at first I had posted >this message myself and forgot I did so.  My friend, your situation >sounds like a replay of mine.  I am 32 years old, have almost no >friends (none really like close ‘count on’ friends), and I have >rebuilt so many times that in my present crisis there are times when I >feel I just cannot start over again–not again, I can’t, I’m so tired >of doing this, I’m so tired–ending up with nothing and alone. >Since your situations seems so similar at the outset, I would really >like to get to know more about you.  Perhaps we can face this together >and maybe find some real answers.  Jeezzz, I thought that by 32 years >old I’d have something, but if not, I thought at least I’d have some >answers.  Sometimes I feel like I should have figured some of this out >long ago and that something must really be wrong–I keep repeating the >same patterns over and over.  

I find this curious.  What do you mean by "the same patterns".  I would think that if there are certain things you keep on doing "wrong", maybe you’re just handling yourself incorrectly? That is, I always seem to write with my right hand.  I’m right handed.   There’s no point in trying to change that. It’s what I am. Perhaps you should stop trying to "avoid" these patterns.  Unless they’re something REALLY destructive (alcoholism, for example) you should try to work with them.   Just my two cents. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->If you think we might help each other, >write again.  I am more than willing to read ANYTHING you have to >write, and maybe you might find something you need when I write back >to you.  Offering you my hand, ears and heart. >forte >On Sun, 29 Mar 1998 01:09:08 GMT, 1…@2.3 (anonymous) wrote: >>This may seem ridiculous. I’m just reaching out to somebody … anyone >>… because I just can’t take this lonliness anymore. My life is a >>disaster. I’m 30 years old. I have no friends, family … anyone to >>reach out to. I’ve had to rebuild my life so many times and I’m trying >>to do it again now but everyday … alone. I don’t know what to do. I >>can’t believe the amount of hours that go by without me having contact >>or conversation with another person. Somehow I just fell out of >>society … and the way my situation is now I don’t know … >>well, thanks for reading this …

        — ALM, amu…@erols.com w+p v2.0: The Video Game Fan Works Page          www.erols.com/amunoz

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I am sorry you are feeling pain.  I don’t like that feeling either.  We here are all hurting that way.  That is why we come here to talk about what we are feeling.  So come back and visit as you like or you can e-mail directly and we can talk privately. Things always look better in the day light then at night. You have a good day and tell us more, please. Evie.

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 This may seem ridiculous. I’m just reaching out to somebody … anyone > … because I just can’t take this lonliness anymore. My life is a > disaster. I’m 30 years old. I have no friends, family … anyone to > reach out to. I’ve had to rebuild my life so many times and I’m trying > to do it again now but everyday … alone. I don’t know what to do. I > can’t believe the amount of hours that go by without me having contact > or conversation with another person. Somehow I just fell out of > society … and the way my situation is now I don’t know … > well, thanks for reading this …

Loneliness, which comes in many forms, was my only acquaintance for several years.   I know the feeling well.  By coming to talk with us, I believe you have just made a giant step in the right direction.  Sometimes, I would go for whole week-end and not see or speak a word to one person.  I work, otherwise, I probably would have done it during the week, too.  The pain is great when you are at the point you have arrived….Stay with us and I firmly believe some of that loneliness will be alleviated and the pain relieved.  There are many loving and caring people in this group….they have helped me immensely….and I thought I was beyond help.  Don’t be stranger…you will be in my thoughts and heart. Gina "I see the same stars in the same sky shining down on you, I’ll be looking up from wherever I am and it’s you I’ll see if you’re looking too."

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -In article <351E0DFA.100C6…@pop3.concentric.net>, Lad…@concentric.net wrote: >Wanted to get that quick note off right away, so you wouldn’t think that no >one cared.  Just in case you were keeping a check to see if anyone >answered.  Excuse the typos, if I miss them.  As I said, it’s a bit late >here and I’m a tad tired. >    Reaching out is not ridiculous.  It takes courage.  Especially to reach >out to a group of strangers.  Every one here has had to do that.  So you’re >with a group of "courageous" people.  Sometimes, some of us are strong and >sometimes some of us are not.  When we’re strong we support those who are >not.  When we aren’t feeling very strong, or are hurt, confused, upset, we >take a little support. Sometimes a lot of support.  You’re welcome to stay >here with us.  A very special person that’s sometimes with us, says we’re >like a family, like a "village" unto ourselves where we can feel warm and >safe. >    We’ll hold you in our hearts and minds until you can stand on your own. >I’m going to check one more time to see if you’ve come back.  If not, then >answer this message.  I promise to get back to you and I know others will, >too. J.

Just be sure to be VERY careful of what you say, anonymous.  These people can be quite discriminating at times.   Just think of me as the only person on this board that knows the truth and doesn’t BS anyone.         — ALM, amu…@erols.com w+p v2.0: The Video Game Fan Works Page          www.erols.com/amunoz

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This may seem ridiculous. I’m just reaching out to somebody … anyone … because I just can’t take this lonliness anymore. My life is a disaster. I’m 30 years old. I have no friends, family … anyone to reach out to. I’ve had to rebuild my life so many times and I’m trying to do it again now but everyday … alone. I don’t know what to do. I can’t believe the amount of hours that go by without me having contact or conversation with another person. Somehow I just fell out of society … and the way my situation is now I don’t know … well, thanks for reading this …

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Hey, sugar, come on back.  Talk to me some more.  It’s gettin’ kind of late here, but I’ll hang for a bit to see if you’re peeking in.  If not, send another message.  Don’t get lost. There are others here that will talk to you to.  Just don’t know who’s awake right now.       a hug for you, J. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -anonymous wrote: > This may seem ridiculous. I’m just reaching out to somebody … anyone > … because I just can’t take this lonliness anymore. My life is a > disaster. I’m 30 years old. I have no friends, family … anyone to > reach out to. I’ve had to rebuild my life so many times and I’m trying > to do it again now but everyday … alone. I don’t know what to do. I > can’t believe the amount of hours that go by without me having contact > or conversation with another person. Somehow I just fell out of > society … and the way my situation is now I don’t know … > well, thanks for reading this …

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Wanted to get that quick note off right away, so you wouldn’t think that no one cared.  Just in case you were keeping a check to see if anyone answered.  Excuse the typos, if I miss them.  As I said, it’s a bit late here and I’m a tad tired.     Reaching out is not ridiculous.  It takes courage.  Especially to reach out to a group of strangers.  Every one here has had to do that.  So you’re with a group of "courageous" people.  Sometimes, some of us are strong and sometimes some of us are not.  When we’re strong we support those who are not.  When we aren’t feeling very strong, or are hurt, confused, upset, we take a little support. Sometimes a lot of support.  You’re welcome to stay here with us.  A very special person that’s sometimes with us, says we’re like a family, like a "village" unto ourselves where we can feel warm and safe.     We’ll hold you in our hearts and minds until you can stand on your own. I’m going to check one more time to see if you’ve come back.  If not, then answer this message.  I promise to get back to you and I know others will, too. J. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Lad…@pop3.concentric.net wrote: > Hey, sugar, come on back.  Talk to me some more.  It’s gettin’ kind of > late here, but I’ll hang for a bit to see if you’re peeking in.  If not, > send another message.  Don’t get lost. There are others here that will > talk to you to.  Just don’t know who’s awake right now. >       a hug for you, J. > anonymous wrote: > > This may seem ridiculous. I’m just reaching out to somebody … anyone > > … because I just can’t take this lonliness anymore. My life is a > > disaster. I’m 30 years old. I have no friends, family … anyone to > > reach out to. I’ve had to rebuild my life so many times and I’m trying > > to do it again now but everyday … alone. I don’t know what to do. I > > can’t believe the amount of hours that go by without me having contact > > or conversation with another person. Somehow I just fell out of > > society … and the way my situation is now I don’t know … > > well, thanks for reading this …

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