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Crap consolation warning: On one’s own, it is possible to bend & stretch one’s T-shirts all out of shape, slouch unhealthily on the couch, stay out late und so weiter, without endless (probbly well-meaning) hassle from one’s SO. The Pascal’s Triangle of beers in the not-oft visited region of the kitchen may be disposed of at one’s own leisure… But…I’ve always been alone, so, I sympathize it is hard to see it this way. Anyhow, that’s me pennorth, for what it is. OTS "N" <a201773_REMOVE_T…@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:a7659m$8sl$1@lust.ihug.co.nz… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Hi there, my first post here. > After being dumped by my wife, taken to the cleaners by her and the bloody > lawyers, losing my house car money and anything else you care to mention, > missing my kids like crazy and and and, I am now left with the loneliness > and wondering why bother anymore. > So I thought it was bad enough when all this happened 1 1/2 years ago but I > tell you, the loneliness is worse. Being on one’s own is a bitch. Friends > of mine who haven’t had to face something like this have no idea. > Sorry to vent here, thanks for reading. > G
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> Nah I beg to differ, some women yes, most women….definitely not. And of
Infinitely close to "all" in my experience.
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"Lisasterous" <Lisaster…@blerg.com> wrote in message
news:a7cnqv$7vo$07$1@news.t-online.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "N" <a201773_REMOVE_T…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > news:a7cemj$krn$1@lust.ihug.co.nz… > > "Lisasterous" <Lisaster…@blerg.com> wrote in message > > news:a76ot4$kt3$07$1@news.t-online.com… > > > "N" <a201773_REMOVE_T…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > > > news:a7659m$8sl$1@lust.ihug.co.nz… > > > > Hi there, my first post here. > > > Hi G. > > > > After being dumped by my wife, taken to the cleaners by her and the > > bloody > > > > lawyers, losing my house car money and anything else you care to > > mention, > > > > missing my kids like crazy and and and, I am now left with the > > loneliness > > > > and wondering why bother anymore. > > > I know this feeling. I’m sorry to hear you share it. :-( > > > > So I thought it was bad enough when all this happened 1 1/2 years ago > > but > > > I > > > > tell you, the loneliness is worse. Being on one’s own is a bitch. > > Friends > > > > of mine who haven’t had to face something like this have no idea. > > > I was in this once. Pretty severe. It got better though. I have hope > it > > > will for you too. At this point, no place to go but up. > > > > Sorry to vent here, thanks for reading. > > > Don’t be sorry. That’s what this ng is for. Anytime. > > Hi Lisasterous > > I haven’t really moved on much in 15 months so the road is slow I guess. > As > > for the only way being up, hmmmmm, after a medical diagnosis this week I’m > > not so sure. You know the story, one thing after another! Oh well. > Garry, > I guess now I better get my foot out of my mouth before it chokes me. :-/ > I sure hope it goes better for you soon. > Either way, ranting here makes a person feel better sometimes. > ~L
Hey no foot in your mouth, just me not telling all the facts. G
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"N" <a201773_REMOVE_T…@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:a7cemj$krn$1@lust.ihug.co.nz… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "Lisasterous" <Lisaster…@blerg.com> wrote in message > news:a76ot4$kt3$07$1@news.t-online.com… > > "N" <a201773_REMOVE_T…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > > news:a7659m$8sl$1@lust.ihug.co.nz… > > > Hi there, my first post here. > > Hi G. > > > After being dumped by my wife, taken to the cleaners by her and the > bloody > > > lawyers, losing my house car money and anything else you care to > mention, > > > missing my kids like crazy and and and, I am now left with the > loneliness > > > and wondering why bother anymore. > > I know this feeling. I’m sorry to hear you share it. :-( > > > So I thought it was bad enough when all this happened 1 1/2 years ago > but > > I > > > tell you, the loneliness is worse. Being on one’s own is a bitch. > Friends > > > of mine who haven’t had to face something like this have no idea. > > I was in this once. Pretty severe. It got better though. I have hope it > > will for you too. At this point, no place to go but up. > > > Sorry to vent here, thanks for reading. > > Don’t be sorry. That’s what this ng is for. Anytime. > Hi Lisasterous > I haven’t really moved on much in 15 months so the road is slow I guess. As > for the only way being up, hmmmmm, after a medical diagnosis this week I’m > not so sure. You know the story, one thing after another! Oh well.
Garry, I guess now I better get my foot out of my mouth before it chokes me. :-/ I sure hope it goes better for you soon. Either way, ranting here makes a person feel better sometimes. ~L
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"Darkfalz" <darkf…@algo.sys> wrote in message
news:3c99dbf4@news.comindico.com.au… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "N" <a201773_REMOVE_T…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > news:a7cee7$kf2$1@lust.ihug.co.nz… > > "Darkfalz" <darkf…@algo.sys> wrote in message > > news:3c97025e@news.comindico.com.au… > > > "N" <a201773_REMOVE_T…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > > > news:a7659m$8sl$1@lust.ihug.co.nz… > > > > Hi there, my first post here. > > > > After being dumped by my wife, taken to the cleaners by her and the > > bloody > > > > lawyers, losing my house car money and anything else you care to > > mention, > > > > missing my kids like crazy and and and, I am now left with the > > loneliness > > > > and wondering why bother anymore. > > > Any woman who harp on about men’s "fear of commitment", PAY ATTENTION TO > > > THIS POST. > > > The ABOVE is what FEAR OF COMMITMENT is about. Nothing to do with not > > being > > > able to sleep around any more, or being with just one woman. It’s about > > > putting your whole LIFE in a sling where SHE has her hand on the release > > > lever. > > Hi Darkfalz > > My original post wasn’t intended to denigrate women so I hope it didn’t > > sound that way. I just needed to vent a little and I am having heaps of > > trouble with loneliness and wondering how to move on. But your post does > > remind me of my ex a little 
> That’s fine. My auntie just did this to my uncle so it struck me as close to > home. He’s totally fucked up over it and she could care less, and he had > been a good husband and father. > I guess that some, hell – most – women are just plain bad.
Nah I beg to differ, some women yes, most women….definitely not. And of course there’s *usually* two sides to every story. Sorry about your Uncle. It’s an awful time for him. Garry
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"N" <a201773_REMOVE_T…@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:a7cee7$kf2$1@lust.ihug.co.nz… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "Darkfalz" <darkf…@algo.sys> wrote in message > news:3c97025e@news.comindico.com.au… > > "N" <a201773_REMOVE_T…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > > news:a7659m$8sl$1@lust.ihug.co.nz… > > > Hi there, my first post here. > > > After being dumped by my wife, taken to the cleaners by her and the > bloody > > > lawyers, losing my house car money and anything else you care to > mention, > > > missing my kids like crazy and and and, I am now left with the > loneliness > > > and wondering why bother anymore. > > Any woman who harp on about men’s "fear of commitment", PAY ATTENTION TO > > THIS POST. > > The ABOVE is what FEAR OF COMMITMENT is about. Nothing to do with not > being > > able to sleep around any more, or being with just one woman. It’s about > > putting your whole LIFE in a sling where SHE has her hand on the release > > lever. > Hi Darkfalz > My original post wasn’t intended to denigrate women so I hope it didn’t > sound that way. I just needed to vent a little and I am having heaps of > trouble with loneliness and wondering how to move on. But your post does > remind me of my ex a little
That’s fine. My auntie just did this to my uncle so it struck me as close to home. He’s totally fucked up over it and she could care less, and he had been a good husband and father. I guess that some, hell – most – women are just plain bad.
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"Lisasterous" <Lisaster…@blerg.com> wrote in message
news:a76ot4$kt3$07$1@news.t-online.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "N" <a201773_REMOVE_T…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > news:a7659m$8sl$1@lust.ihug.co.nz… > > Hi there, my first post here. > Hi G. > > After being dumped by my wife, taken to the cleaners by her and the bloody > > lawyers, losing my house car money and anything else you care to mention, > > missing my kids like crazy and and and, I am now left with the loneliness > > and wondering why bother anymore. > I know this feeling. I’m sorry to hear you share it. :-( > > So I thought it was bad enough when all this happened 1 1/2 years ago but > I > > tell you, the loneliness is worse. Being on one’s own is a bitch. Friends > > of mine who haven’t had to face something like this have no idea. > I was in this once. Pretty severe. It got better though. I have hope it > will for you too. At this point, no place to go but up. > > Sorry to vent here, thanks for reading. > Don’t be sorry. That’s what this ng is for. Anytime.
Hi Lisasterous I haven’t really moved on much in 15 months so the road is slow I guess. As for the only way being up, hmmmmm, after a medical diagnosis this week I’m not so sure. You know the story, one thing after another! Oh well. regards Garry
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Hi there, my first post here. After being dumped by my wife, taken to the cleaners by her and the bloody lawyers, losing my house car money and anything else you care to mention, missing my kids like crazy and and and, I am now left with the loneliness and wondering why bother anymore. So I thought it was bad enough when all this happened 1 1/2 years ago but I tell you, the loneliness is worse. Being on one’s own is a bitch. Friends of mine who haven’t had to face something like this have no idea. Sorry to vent here, thanks for reading. G
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"N" <a201773_REMOVE_T…@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:a7659m$8sl$1@lust.ihug.co.nz… > Hi there, my first post here.
Hi G. > After being dumped by my wife, taken to the cleaners by her and the bloody > lawyers, losing my house car money and anything else you care to mention, > missing my kids like crazy and and and, I am now left with the loneliness > and wondering why bother anymore.
I know this feeling. I’m sorry to hear you share it. :-( > So I thought it was bad enough when all this happened 1 1/2 years ago but I > tell you, the loneliness is worse. Being on one’s own is a bitch. Friends > of mine who haven’t had to face something like this have no idea.
I was in this once. Pretty severe. It got better though. I have hope it will for you too. At this point, no place to go but up. > Sorry to vent here, thanks for reading.
Don’t be sorry. That’s what this ng is for. Anytime.
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"N" <a201773_REMOVE_T…@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:a7659m$8sl$1@lust.ihug.co.nz… > Hi there, my first post here. > After being dumped by my wife, taken to the cleaners by her and the bloody > lawyers, losing my house car money and anything else you care to mention, > missing my kids like crazy and and and, I am now left with the loneliness > and wondering why bother anymore.
Any woman who harp on about men’s "fear of commitment", PAY ATTENTION TO THIS POST. The ABOVE is what FEAR OF COMMITMENT is about. Nothing to do with not being able to sleep around any more, or being with just one woman. It’s about putting your whole LIFE in a sling where SHE has her hand on the release lever.
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"Darkfalz" <darkf…@algo.sys> wrote in message
news:3c97025e@news.comindico.com.au… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "N" <a201773_REMOVE_T…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > news:a7659m$8sl$1@lust.ihug.co.nz… > > Hi there, my first post here. > > After being dumped by my wife, taken to the cleaners by her and the bloody > > lawyers, losing my house car money and anything else you care to mention, > > missing my kids like crazy and and and, I am now left with the loneliness > > and wondering why bother anymore. > Any woman who harp on about men’s "fear of commitment", PAY ATTENTION TO > THIS POST. > The ABOVE is what FEAR OF COMMITMENT is about. Nothing to do with not being > able to sleep around any more, or being with just one woman. It’s about > putting your whole LIFE in a sling where SHE has her hand on the release > lever.
Hi Darkfalz My original post wasn’t intended to denigrate women so I hope it didn’t sound that way. I just needed to vent a little and I am having heaps of trouble with loneliness and wondering how to move on. But your post does remind me of my ex a little Thanks Garry
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